Bringing your lady to the strip club

I've never brought a girlfriend or wife to the strip club. I have brought strippers, who I was seeing OTC, to a different strip club, and *that* is something everyone must experience. Strippers are definitely not awkward about what to do at the club :) I've also brought female friends, all of whom seemed to enjoy themselves, but there was indeed a hint of awkwardness at times.

I know some strippers have told me they avoid couples, because it happens often enough that the woman ends up getting jealous. Nearly everyone has stories about the female partner ending up pissed off or causing drama. On the other hand, some strippers tell me they love couples, and just make sure to pay way more attention to the female and keep her comfortable, and that keeps it fun.

I've never asked my ATF if she'd like to go to another club; we always do normal 'date stuff'. I would be worried she wouldn't like me buying dances...but she does like girls. Better than guys I think.

i've dated mostly dancers since I was 18. we've gone to other clubs together, done vips with other dancers, and pretty much had a lot of fun.
the girls i've dated have usually been bi, so we've been careful about the dancers who dance for us. we want to make sure that the dancer is comfortable with dancing for a woman.
we trade off in who buys the dances for the other, but we both end up enjoying it.

"I've never asked my ATF if she'd like to go to another club; we always do normal 'date stuff'. I would be worried she wouldn't like me buying dances...but she does like girls. "

Why not just ask her? If she says no, no harm done. If she wants to go, you're in for a fuuuun time. Basically, I'm looking to get her horny and drunk, and then go fuck it off after, and it works great. So alcohol clubs only! My strategy is simple: my focus is on my OTC stripper having a good time, not to make time with the strippers who are working at the club. So if ATF wants to sit at the rail and tip, that's what we do. If she wants to sit at the table and enjoy flirting with the many dancers who come her way, that's what we do. If she wants lap dances, I buy a few dances for us as a couple (I never buy dances for myself solo while we're there).

Not only is the in-club activity so fun that it should be illegal, but I am often richly rewarded back at the hotel room for helping her get all hot and bothered at the club.

My ATF and I once had such a good time with a hot stripper, that ATF and I decided we wanted to get that stripper OTC with us and fuck her together. Unfortunately, I wasn't able to make that happen before our target stripper disappeared, but that would have been fun, and definitely looking to find another stripper to fill in

I thought you was gone ?

I'm probably the lone exception here, but I honestly prefer to go clubbing with my wife. Now hold on...let me explain.

First, my wife still very attractive, so she's not intimidated by the dancers. Second, she will tell you that a SC is probably one of the safest places a group of guys could go to see naked women. Third, she loves the attention she gets from some (not all) of the dancers. She tips them herself, has no problem with LD's or private dances. We've even had one OTC experience (AWESOME!) She knows and accepts what most experienced hobbyists know...it's really all about the $$$.

It wasn't always this way. She was like most women until a few years ago when I convinced her to accompany me on a visit to one of the worst SC's in existence in Newport, KY. Her take: This is NOT a big deal!

Watching her at a SC makes me smile. I am one lucky SOB!

Almost 100% of the time I fly solo. I've met 3 TUSCL members in clubs before. Twice I went to my 2011 Ex-ATF's original club to have lunch with her after she was retired.

As several have indicated, I've only ever taken other dancers to strip clubs. No civilians. These dancers were curious about other clubs in their local area that they had heard about, but not had the chance to visit themselves. Some of these have been "scouting trips" for prospective employment. Most preferred to go with me rather than alone, so they can just be treated as a customer, and not a future employee.

@ just4fun2: That's a really great story! It sounds like you've managed to get the best of both worlds: Going to clubs, and still keeping your wife happy. Usually, it's either or. You should write a more detailed version of it and submit it as an article.

No,but my girl takes me to the holiday parties at her clubs.This is some funny shit.When she spots a dancer she feels will work for the both of us she darts off for a couple of minutes coming half way back she waves me on.The Bi stuff is cool and the best part is walking out and watching all the PL's back there mouth the word"Daaaaaammmmmnnnnn".

@Subraman I haven't asked her because I'm not sure I want to go! Knowing her she'd be happy to as long as it was my money we spent! I can't see her spending her money on lap dances...

It really never occurred to me that it would be any fun...but maybe I'll see what she thinks since almost everyone who has done this said it was a wonderful time.

Well Rachel I am an avid female clubber and I am far from typical. I prefer to club alone and honestly I cringe on those rare occasions that I spot a couple in the club. The bad behaviour of many of the women customers in clubs can make some dancers hesitant to approach us women and that's a shame. I also have found that I have no trouble getting dancer attention when I am alone as opposed to when I'm with a guy. As a lone female who prefers daytime visits I am pretty rare in the SC world :)

Club_Goer: "Some of these have been "scouting trips" for prospective employment. Most preferred to go with me rather than alone, so they can just be treated as a customer, and not a future employee."

Interestingly, an ATF once called me to ask if my friends and I would meet her and her BFF and another strip club. It was a trip back to an old SC she used to work at (she had left on not-so-great terms). She wanted to roll in with lots of guys and make the point to the manager "see, I bring a whole pack of customers with me". She was not the smartest stripper in the world so I have no idea whether the manager was impressed by that or not. On the other hand, my buddies and I had a killer time with her and her BFF at the club. She and I snuck out and she gave me a BJ in my car (for free!) for the solid, so that was nice too.

rockstar: You're right, she will not be spending money on lapdances, you will :) IME, there may not even be dances ... just having fun tipping and flirting at the table is often enough

Lopaw! What kind of bad behavior was exhibited?

My wife and I recently started going to clubs together. It was her idea. She wanted to give it a try and see what it was all about. Needless to say, she's had a great time both times we have gone. For her, it's about seeing me having a good time. She knows that I love seeing her getting lap dances from another beautiful woman. She often looks over at me when getting a dance to see the big smile on my face. I'm sure she likes the experience of getting a dance as well, but for her, she really gets off on seeing me with that big grin on my face when another woman is grinding on her (and me)! :)

You can see my review of Sapphire in Las Vegas for our most recent experience. An article sounds like a good idea. Maybe I'll work on that when I have a moment. In any case, it's an amazing experience, as long as both of you are into it! That's really the key. I imagine it would be NO fun if a guy was having a great time, ignoring his wife/gf who is sitting there having a horrible time.

IMO, asking your wife or gf out of the blue if they want to go to a strip club sounds like a good way to get smacked (or worse).

I'm James and im hard

@tumbling- stupid shit from gf's and wives who really dont want to be there in the first place, like dissing the dancers, talking shit to dancers & being mean & bitchy. Also many women will presume that coz they are girls they can do whatever they want to in a club, including being way too aggressive during laps. And then some girls get stupid drunk and start dancing in an attempt to upstage the dancers and then get thrown out. All stupid shit.

@Club-Goer: I thought about it, perhaps I will soon.

Lopaw!I stand informed.Nothing like that on the east coast. I could literally hear the two purr,nothing but silky smooth.There is a whole subculture here that seeks this out in the clubs and OTC and if they act like you have stated they get blackballed.

lopaw: Yes, I agree with you, Some gf's & wives can get stupid. We try stay out of the limelight when we're in a SC. Quite frankly its our time to enjoy a special treat. We don't do it often and we NEVER do in town.

Ditto what just4fun2 said. There are couples out there with secure, well-behaved women that enjoy a good club experience with their men. And I'm sure there are some like lopaw is talking about as well, but luckily I haven't seen that type of behavior from women at the clubs we have gone to...at least not yet.

Avoid the limelight is key.

Subra, I've taken dancers to other clubs and had a blast too. Just don't let them talk you into going to their home club. The one time I did that she disappeared to talk to the DJ for half an hour, then when she rejoined me the bouncer asked us to leave.

I avoid the plague, well, like the plague.

It's great to hear that there are couples out there who "get it" and know how to behave and what to expect in a stripclub. Thank you!

A while back I once was asked by a group of dancers to go up to a table full of annoying loud women (girls night out?) during one of my rare night time visits. They wanted me to talk with them and explain to them why their behaviour was inappropriate. I suggested that they instead get the bouncer and bounce the bitches, which is what they eventually did. But I must admit that I was flattered that they viewed me as a "model" female customer. It's a badge that I wear proudly.

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Plague it again, Slick!!!
Rattaboy!!!

In a similar vein as to what Lopaw has to say about female customers acting and getting out of control. At comedy shows, ladies night can be a hassle for the comedians since the chicks are loud, obnoxious, and annoying. With no female bouncers to handle business, I've seen female comedians walk up to ladies night and toss them bitches out. Respect the performer on stage, whomever that may be.

My current gf agreed to go with me to find out why I like them. She saw and decided she didn't like me going to them and that I 'wasn't' allowed to go to them anymore. Needless to say, that hasn't slowed me down.

On the other hand, my ex-gf & I would have our date nights at the club where we got to know each other. We still go & have a great time. She acts & is treated just like any other customer.

I bring my wife to the Inner Room Cabaret when we golf the Cocoa Beach area. I have the same experience I do with my regular golf friends, only better. If you have never been to the club, imagine a club with no privacy at all and where everyone can see you get a full contact lap dance. Our first time there she started chatting a large breasted blonde dancer who asked her if she wanted a couples dance. her response? Why the fuck would I want him there and off they went. Within three songs my wife was completely topless and they were bringing the phrase full contact to a new level. We stayed 5 hours, getting a combined 40+ laps and she admitted to orgasms with 2 of the dancers. I am one of the few guys who can say to wife: I am going out for laps and get the response, have fun.

@ skibum: That's a great story. You have a terrific clubbing life. It sounds like you can go with your wife, go solo, or with friends, whenever you want. And, it's all okay with your wife!

How about you writing an article on that subject? I see you have none, so far. That would make for a great first article.

I see lots of couples and some groups of young females a lot of times. A few times, not very often I have seen an out of control girl or girls. Last weekend was one of those nights. Two college aged girl's with drinks in their hands went up soe stairs to tip the girl on stage. They preceded up on the stage walking around. They even motioned their male friend up on stage too. The DJ stopped the music and told them to get the fuck off the stage. Everyone in the club was looking. The dancer went to the edge of the stage while these morons were walking around. Then the bouncers sprayed the stage and wiped it down. The morons probably didn't realize dancers sometimes lie down on the stage and it is kept clean.

I did not see them immediately thrown out and the DJ did add amateur night was Thursday, not Saturday before he said to get off the stage.

One time I saw a drunk girl go up on stage, take her top off and get chased around the club by the bouncers before getting kicked out.

It's all good if the dancer pops a girls tits out while tipping but everything else like going up on stage unescorted, they risk getting thrown out.