manmeat

I did something similar during an air dance. I fumbled around a couple times looking for my cigarettes, and then a few more times looking for my lighter. Finally lit up a smoke and kept looking away from the dancer...blowing smoke to the left and then right. At the end of the horrible dance, she asked what the hell was wrong with me. I simply said "I'm bored."

Ditto what just4fun2 said. There are couples out there with secure, well-behaved women that enjoy a good club experience with their men. And I'm sure there are some like lopaw is talking about as well, but luckily I haven't seen that type of behavior from women at the clubs we have gone to...at least not yet.

My wife and I recently started going to clubs together. It was her idea. She wanted to give it a try and see what it was all about. Needless to say, she's had a great time both times we have gone. For her, it's about seeing me having a good time. She knows that I love seeing her getting lap dances from another beautiful woman. She often looks over at me when getting a dance to see the big smile on my face. I'm sure she likes the experience of getting a dance as well, but for her, she really gets off on seeing me with that big grin on my face when another woman is grinding on her (and me)! :) You can see my review of Sapphire in Las Vegas for our most recent experience. An article sounds like a good idea. Maybe I'll work on that when I have a moment. In any case, it's an amazing experience, as long as both of you are into it! That's really the key. I imagine it would be NO fun if a guy was having a great time, ignoring his wife/gf who is sitting there having a horrible time. IMO, asking your wife or gf out of the blue if they want to go to a strip club sounds like a good way to get smacked (or worse).