There's this one girl at my regular club, Demi, who apparently despises me. Girls often come around and sit with guys and talk with them. I've asked Demi a few times and she never wanted to. So, last night, I started offering her money up front. I started off with $20, and had moved up to $100 by the end of the night. She refused every time.
You know you must be very, very unappealing if a stripper refuses to take $100 from you. Or maybe I should stop wearing comic book t-shirts to strip clubs. Hmmmm.
Either way, she's definitely not into me.
(As an aside, likely owing to the shirt I was wearing, the stripper with an X-men tattoo ended up sitting with me instead, so that was nice at least. Turns out she's on suicide girls as well, so that made it even nicer.)
I find that odd. I've been dating the same stripper for twenty months and she's not really into me either,but when I hold up a credit card or Franklin she can do a ten foot vertical crocodile leap like it was a chicken leg.
I ain't paying no stripper $100 just to sit with me. Now to sit ON me? That's another story.
Yeah, I don't know what the deal is there, but like dallas702 said, if she refuses to give you a LD, that's the sure sign you're rejected. I usually don't want dancers to sit with me anyway, although I will occasionally sit with one to gauge whether or not I want to get a LD with her. It's possible she's shy, or maybe you've been tagged by another dancer. Do you have a CF that may have told her you're off limits?
Your offers may have sent off some red flags, regardless it sounds like it turned out for the best anyway. I'm sure you can cross Demi off, but in the future you might just try tipping a five on stage. That always seems to work without even asking them to come over.
You could just pay me $100 to sit and talk with you and a bunch of strippers would likely come over. win win, :) Just don't tell them. I never give them jack except when I pay for lap dances and drinks on a few occassions.
Some dancers would rather argue with me rather than leave me alone on a few occassions. I think some dancers would rather argue with me over some trivial topic rather than leave and act like I won the discussion. Last week a dancer insisted I had been to a club she worked at in the last two years. I think instead of saying no I wasn't I could have said, that must have been an alternate reality me. I come from a parallel Earth reality and then she would stop arguing. lol Then I could tell her Billy Graham died years ago where I came from. Then she could ask, who is Billy?
I don't always mind arguing with dancers. She looked good. I did change the topic. She was treating me more like a friend arguing, telling me where she's been. She went there with her boyfriend etc ect.
We've had lots of long threads about all the reasons dancers act against their own interests (or at least their straight-forward financial ones). If we combine them all together hear in one monster thread, we may blow up Founder's server.
She sounds like a dumb ass. What worker refuses money because the patron may "potentially" be a nerd? Hell nerds are the easiest to get from (as soon by OP). She sounds like a high nosed, shallow dumb ass. Did you get conversation from the girl with the X-Men tattoo. Sounds like you two would have a lot to talk about.
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last commentShe usually doesn't. I think I've seen her sitting and talking to someone once, and that only lasted about 5 minutes.
Even if she doesn't like doing it, you'd think she would for enough money.
Hey, it is a personal choice. Just like you deciding which dancers to be with or not.
You are not entitled to her attentions, NOR is she required to give them to you.
She is probably more into the girls.
Yeah, I don't know what the deal is there, but like dallas702 said, if she refuses to give you a LD, that's the sure sign you're rejected. I usually don't want dancers to sit with me anyway, although I will occasionally sit with one to gauge whether or not I want to get a LD with her. It's possible she's shy, or maybe you've been tagged by another dancer. Do you have a CF that may have told her you're off limits?
She may not like your personality?
Somebody may have told her something bad about you?
You’ve been tagged as dancer’s x custie?
She only cares to deal w/ high rollers (couple of hundred dollars a pop)?
She may just have issues?
Why don’t you just ask her why she won’t sit w/ you?
Just don't tell them. I never give them jack except when I pay for lap dances and drinks on a few occassions.
Then I could tell her Billy Graham died years ago where I came from. Then she could ask, who is Billy?
That is odd.. I say fuck her and move on
Why any behaviour from strippers surprises anyone is beyond me.