Love, Approximately

Sounds like Obama.

Why didn't you ask her to meet you after she got off work OTC instead?

I'm with Canny. Whenever a dancer asks me to go in, I reply that they should visit me. More bang for my buck.

There is no 'approximately' about this, jack.

This girl is the real deal.

Scoop her up.

Marry her.

Ride off with her in your Beemer to a life of untold bliss.

I don't see a problem with having fun. I am concerned if a dancer says she wants to date,has no boyfriend, but already has a bunch of kids. I do not want to be daddy number 5 or 6.

Sounds like you have a keeper

Should have gone for a "Doubleheader"! LOL

They all love the "dead presidents". Looky, looky....it is almost rent time.

Ha, when I changed from "variety" to "ATF" model of SCing a few years back, I was shocked at how easily strippers say "I love you". I've had "I love you" stripper-client relationships with a handful of them now, it doesn't even faze me anymore when I hear it. It's a fun addition to the fantasy as long as you don't fall for it.

As a side note, I am friends with an ex-stripper who told me, "just like customers sometimes get confused between whether they lust us or have real affection, strippers can get confused between gratitude and real affection. When I quit stripping, I kept in touch with some regular who I thought I truly liked, but once they weren't paying me anymore, and my gratitude for their generosity wasn't there anymore, I found that I didn't really like them so much. That surprised me!"

"I love you" doesn't mean the same thing to 50+ PLs as it does to 20 something strippers. Hell, even to *non*-strippers it doesn't mean what it means to me.

Even when it's sincere, it seems to be much more an expression of friendship that what I think of as love.

The most recent stripper who said to me that she loved me made me laugh and reply that she really loved my wallet. She admitted that, too, but insisted that she had true affection for me, that it taught her how good a relationship could be, that I'd been the only stability in her life for years. Within 2 weeks she fucked me over for $2,000 and now won't answer my calls. Yep, that's true love.

Be careful of when lying, theiving whores say things which sound like lies, because they probably are!

Whenever I get great sex (or BJ) from a woman; I often also tell her that I love her.

It just happened to me 2 hours ago. I went to tip a favorite on stage just before leaving the club. She apologized for not getting around to me. I told her that it was alright(I had already done VIP with another favorite). She said "I love You".

I certainly don't think that she meant that in the romantic sense. It was a "Thank you" for being understanding.

Ok, it's resolved. When a strippers tells a PL regular that she "loves him" it might be that she is outright lying, or it could just be her saying that in a very loose sense. PL should not assume she meant wants to marry him, have his baby, move to the suburbs and put the white picket fence, and generally be his and his alone till death do them part.