Bail money
gawker
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Has anyone ever gotten a call at 4:30 in the morning from a favorite dancer asking for bail? It was a simple possession charge ( class F synthetic) whatever that means in NH and after her spending 2 nights in jail I sprung for it. Thoughts?
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So speaking of bail. I met up with an escort in a hotel. She strips, and huge disappointment, not what I was expecting from "her" pictures. But suddenly, her phones rings. She goes in the bathroom, talks for a few minutes. Comes up, says she has to bail somebody out, gives me back the money (yes really all of it) and I'm out of there. I'm thinking, maybe there is a God after all.
Don't do it at all say I.
Don't you think, just maybe, it might be time to cut this one loose?
Within a week I drove by the club where she worked, saw her car, and went in for one drink. She rushed me as I came through the door, crying, said I was the only stability in her life; that I had taught her how a "normal" relationship could work and she needed me in her life.
Now cognitively, I know that's 90% stripper shit. In my heart, it felt so good to be wanted, to hold her scrawny frame in my arms, and to be with her listening to her drama. We've been together more than 4 years and I know her friends, I know her family. When she got arrested and called me at 4:30 in the morning the call lasted 10 seconds before it cut off telling me how to set up an account to receive calls. The next day I called her father ( who's young enough to be my son) to learn he wasn't bailing her out. Then her boy friend (who knows I've been banging her more than he has for 4 years) called me to borrow $500. to bail her out. Strange? Definitely. The boy friend's mother called me to thank me for getting her out. Strange? By all means.
I have never dreamed of riding off into the sunset with her. When we've travelled I've learned that taking her in full day segments is very different than taking her in one hour segments. But when it's for an hour or two it is heaven.
Do I see an end in sight? Most definately. She stands as good a chance of cleaning up her act this time as ever. If and when the drugs are out of her system I expect she and her BF will move and that'll do it. Financially, I can't keep spending at the same rate I have been, so things will move along. Until then... Maybe one more time.
To me, a big part of the satisfaction of being a PL is seeing your donee enjoying her life more, and/or giving her kids advantages they would not otherwise have. You might find it easier to disengage from your ATF once you experience a more positive situation as an alternative.
SlickSpic - good advice. I've lived with that mantra for the past decade and while I've been burned a few times, I wouldn't change a thing. There's no room for regrets.