I am currently holdinv out spending any dollars anywhere let alone strip clubs for this entire month. I want to accurately see how much more money I can bring with me after a month of spending only on the necessities (food, rent, hair, transportation, health). But man its tough shit. I decided to buy some pizza and didn't even enjoy it because a bum asked me for money and my new edict is to help when I can. Now I don't even spend money on a piece of candy until Halloween.
How about you guys, how long have you guys held out on deliberately spending money at a strip club or other social-sexual activities?
I've held out for a month before and it wasn't easy lol. I am currently trying to hold out for a few months so that I have a shitload of money when I get back to Vegas or Miami. I'm planning to only go strip clubbing when I travel from now on. I am tired of my hometown clubs.
I held out late last year from mid-October thru early January - ~2.5 months.
Contrary to what I would have thought; it got easier w/ time instead of harder – that probably goes for most habits I would imagine?
When I finally went back to the SCs; I felt like a bit of a newbie or at least pretty rusty and kind of a bit apprehensive to go back (apprehensive b/c I go to all-black dives where I am usually the only white person in the club and that takes some getting used to).
I’ve SCed a lot this year especially over the last 3 months or so. I am currently trying to abstain for at least 2 months in order to save up a descent amount of $$$. Have not SCed in about 3 weeks where I had recently being going at least once a week and sometimes more.
I didn't even try to hold out last week but didn't spend any money on lap dances except on one dancer. All the others I saw when they asked me looked pretty average for a Walmart or a retail store employee. I would give them a 5 rating where I would give the average local college girl a 6 or 7. In fact one girl sat on my lap and was exactly that, one of the local college girls. She had small tits so I passed. I wasn't that interested in her. That's another reason to forget about asking if she was still attending the same college. However compared to some of the dancers, she wasn't that bad.
I don't know PC, it seems to get harder for me. It may be easier if you get rid of distractionsand reminders. Just did that to my porn (its only on the phone) and now it seems slightly easier. I fear TUSCL may be next...but stopping myself from tuscl is a challenge all its oan. Especially during those down times between trips.
I've held out for several months in a row at times. It's been a while since I went a whole month without strip clubs, though. From Sept. 2010-June 2012, my health was one continuous crisis and I just didn't go at times there, but after my last time in the hospital, I haven't gone a whole month without titty bars. I've done without long distance road trips just to go to strip clubs since then (the fact I reviewed a club in Kansas notwithstanding, but there was more to that trip than just that), but I figure I'll do more of that in time. Part of me not making long distance trips is the fact my old car was a piece of shit, but that's now gone, thankfully.
C'mon guys. Maybe BagBoyJames is actually a multimillionaire that digs living in a van down by the river and baggin' the groceries. Lives off of $3 a day most days but periodically washes up and hits the clubs as a VIP makin' it rain wit' Benjamins.
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Contrary to what I would have thought; it got easier w/ time instead of harder – that probably goes for most habits I would imagine?
When I finally went back to the SCs; I felt like a bit of a newbie or at least pretty rusty and kind of a bit apprehensive to go back (apprehensive b/c I go to all-black dives where I am usually the only white person in the club and that takes some getting used to).
I’ve SCed a lot this year especially over the last 3 months or so. I am currently trying to abstain for at least 2 months in order to save up a descent amount of $$$. Have not SCed in about 3 weeks where I had recently being going at least once a week and sometimes more.
Sounds like a valid life choice to me!