Future of Stripping in the US.
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You Know I leave for a month and come back....and you regular OLD Farts are still here! (You guys never stop!) LOL
Anyway, on USG I keep seeing reports of guys getting Extras in Strip Clubs either inside or outside the clubs. Which I find really interesting with many reports about how Local LE cracking down across the country. Any of you guys got a theory on what's happening in our society....Additionally, where do you see SCs (more conservative, More Liberal) in the next 25 years?
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Anyway, on USG I keep seeing reports of guys getting Extras in Strip Clubs either inside or outside the clubs. Which I find really interesting with many reports about how Local LE cracking down across the country. Any of you guys got a theory on what's happening in our society....Additionally, where do you see SCs (more conservative, More Liberal) in the next 25 years?
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Actually I think that the home smoking ban makes some sense if you're going to ban smoking anywhere (which I'm opposed to.) The people most vulnerable to second-hand smoke are children, and the place that they're exposed the most is at home. So if you're going to enact smoking bans on the basis of health concerns, the home ought to be the #1 target. But I'm not aware of any place that has done so, which ought to at the very least make you question the motives of the pro-ban people. Banning smoking in bars and restaurants, where people have a choice, makes no sense to me. And before everyone accuses me of going off topic again (which I would never do), the reason I followed up on this topic is that I've been wondering - in areas where smoking has been banned in some places, does the ban apply to strip clubs, including no-alcohol clubs? Has it hurt business any? Are smoking bans a threat to the future of strip clubs? (excluding the Carolinas of course.) Actually I predict that smoking bans have pretty much run their course, that just about every place that is going to enact a ban has already done so. So I don't see it as a threat to strip clubs but maybe someone disagrees.
AbbieNormal.... Lets agree to disagree... And I'll forgive you for calling me a "Godless Libertine".....I could have called you a Confused Right Winged Radical...but I didn't...I tried to address, Just your points (unfortunately at the expense of hijacking the Thread) . ....You still have merit for me in other discussions...So, for the sake of everybody else lets wait to the day we both can meet up at a Strip Club and buy each other a beer....You call me Liberal Bitch...And I call you a Right Wing Nazi....We then Shug our shoulders at each other...and focus our efforts to watching the Strippers. Agreed?
Fondl....This argument is your fault! :-) You old timers always draw me into this discussion. If you lived in the Areas I have...You'd understand that the world doesn't think like Catholics. (Just once go to a BackWoods Southern Revival)
To Everyone Else - My apologies for going on a Rant...Someday...just maybe there will be a stripclub in every city where like minded people can be left alone to enjoy watching a beautiful woman dance.....(or rub really good)
And I don't think there's much correlation between religion and tolerance. Some religious people are tolerant, some aren't. Which is equally true for nonreligious people.
I think the greatest threat to the future of strip clubs is poor management within the industry, especially the high prices at some clubs. But we've had that discussion before.
But before leaving this thread (which I found very interesting by the way) I can't resist a couple of very brief observations. First I think there is very interesting phenomenon going on here, and that is that while more and more people are going to church, it seems to me that fewer and fewer are buying their churches' teachings hook, line and sinker. Many churchgoers are becoming more independent in their thinking. Which brings me to my second point, which is that Catholics are one of the largest and fastest growing groups but are about as far removed from the evangelical mold one as one can get. And Catholics perhaps more than any other group illustrate my point about independent thinking - many and perhaps most Catholics support abortion rights for example.
The Bible suffers from a problem in that it was spoken and passed down in Hebrew and Aramaic, written in Hebrew and Greek, and translated into other languages with varying degrees of accuracy and success. That is why Biblical quotes are a tricky buisness. A good example is "thou shalt not kill". The actual Hebrew word used translates more accurately to "slay" or "murder". Clearly the comandment was not a prohibition against warfare or capital punishment as is often claimed, since both were practiced contemporaneously. In the same way, we confuse judgement with condemnation when it also means something akin to appraisal. Clearly we make judgements about people, and are right to do so, as did Jesus and all those other Jews in the bible. What we should not do is condemn others. In addition, had you continued the passage to the next part you'd see it actually endorses judgement. The following passage also expands on the hypocracy angle a bit;
" And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye? 7:4 Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye? 7:5 Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye."
So this is not a prohibition against judgement, it is really a prohibition against hypocracy. It clearly endorses some meddling in the affairs of others, once you have your own act together.
As for people "pushing" their ideas onto others, that is kind of the whole purpose of society, to restrain behaviors the larger group find to be destructive or objectionable. True we have a better method than most have had in the past, but that doesn't mean that we aren't still doing the very same thing. Disagreements about what the right things to encourage and discourage are as old as mankind.
As for judgement being reserved for the family and family responsibility, and family breakdown, some would contend that it is the degredation of social norms once widely accepted that has hindered parents from instilling in their children the values they should have. It is tough for a parent for instance to convince a child they shouldn't engage in pre-marital sex when the school is passing out free condoms and demonstrating their use in health class. You can argue that there are health concerns that society should rightly address, but it is clear that by taking on one bit of instruction on sexuality the schools (who are also seen as authorities by children) are weakening the parents authority on another. This leaves the parents with little recourse but to try to stop the schools from taking on those rules in the first place, or to try and make sure their message is given equal time.
Just to be clear, I don't agree with everything the more conservative evangelicals want or say, but I think they deserve to be heard and seriously considered rather than dismissed as meddling. Remember that as a society we are always meddling in other peoples lives, so saying that you don't tell them what to do is pure silliness. You tell them what to do and how to raise their children every time you vote.
So in the end, they are a bunch of bigoted right wing yokels bent on theocracy, and you are a godless libertine bent on destroying morality. Sounds fair to me.
To further hijack this thread, I think most people would be surprised to find that over 40% of Americans consider themselves to be "evangelical" christians. This comes from a regular survey, I think done by Princeton. The high mark was 47% in 1999, and it has fluctuated around that number in the following years. In addition the fastest growing churches are the more conservative evangelical denominations, while the old main-line protestant denominations are shrinking. I still consider this to be due to the aging of the boomers (people get more religious and conservative as they grow older) and also a push back. You are right however that the evangelicals are not as monolithically conservative on all issues as they are often portrayed. It is a big mistake to think Pat Robertson speaks for them. Where they are more conservative generally is in their consideration of topics that were once considered taboo. Things like openly discussing values and their importance, or the need to promote religion, or even the consideration of things like abortion and homosexuality as things that should be discouraged. They have tended to open the discussion into areas that just a few years ago were considered to un-PC to touch. The far left sees their shibboleth's being attacked, and they don't like it, hence the demonization of the religious right as inbred mouth breathing racist yokels bent on theocracy.
Here goes: (based on your points)
>It seems that the greatest sins (is that still an operative concept?) anyone can commit nowadays is to be judgmental, or a hypocrite.
"Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you." -Matthew 7:1-2
>On the hypocrisy, let me just say that if you live up to your ideals you've set your standards pretty low.
The rule I live by…Which is pretty hard: Do to others what you would have them do to you." The source of the famous "Golden Rule.". - Matthew 7:12.
>None of us are always who we want to be or who we should be, it's part of being human. Does that mean we can't ever speak about our ideals?
I never said any thing against open discussion, diplomacy, or democracy…just those that would forcefully “push” their own narrow views onto others.
>If you are a reformed drug addict can you never criticize junkies or drug users?
No I wouldn’t want to criticize!...especially if I had walked a mile in their shoes…. I’d empathize with their personal plight and try to help them have a better life. Then assist in “Logical” legislation that would be something other than…”Don’t Do That” and “Just say No”, which clearly hasn’t stopped drug abuse.
>How about if you drink on the weekends, does that preclude telling your kids they shouldn't?
I teach and set standards of “Good” living for my kids every day (including social standards)… Will I teach them how to drink responsibly and show them clear examples of what an alcoholic looks like and how they live… You can count on it. Will I dictate to you…how you should raise your kids….NO.(but I hope that society forces you take responsibility)
>The whole hypocrisy thing is a phony way to shut people up when you don't want to hear what they have to say.
I for one…always want to hear someone’s thoughts…ITS HOW WE LEARN FROM EACH OTHER. Unfortunately there are a those people in society who are “Weak” minded and easily lead by others ….who have their own agenda. (a dangerous combination)
>It essentially means that only a saint can ever disapprove of anything.
Without Disapproval there would never be any debate… Without Debate, There is no ability to understand all sides. “Truth lies in discovering the true essence of an issue!” “Then cohesively joining together to come to a Comprise or Solution”
>As for judgmental, I think we'd be better off if more people were more judgmental.
Judgment, belongs in the courts, voting booth, the confines of the family unit and things that directly affect you personally. Judging others outside these parameters has no benefit to society.
>Two of biggest indicators of poverty are dropping out of high school and having children out of wedlock. Neither are illegal, but both should be discouraged. How do we do things like that? By social censure?
Answer this…”Who has “Direct” responsibility for this example”. Think it out. (And this is only one line of thinking)
Example: Who has “direct” responsible for kids dropping out of school and early pregnancy?
Answer: The Parents.
Why are Parents not taking responsibility for making sure that this does not happen?
Answer: Erosion of the family unit, due to economical pressures for the two income family.
Question: How did this pressure come about?
Answer: Women transitioning out of the normal role of “mother” into the “workplace”…thus caused equilibrium of the one income family to erode (supply and demand theory)
Question: Can this situation be changed?
“OK…here’s where you come in”…..Do you want to point a finger here and “judge”….or do you want a “TRUE” solution?
>People being afraid of what others think of them used to be a powerful tool in instilling some sense of social responsibility into the next generation.
Hmmmm…..Burning of witches in Salem. That was a powerful tool!
>And for the record, tolerance does not mean approval.
Definition - Tolerance: The permissible range of variation of some characteristic from its nominal value. And “approval” has What to do with this?.... Humans are the Nominal value. We all have the basic requirements… We can choose to understand this and work together…or we can fight each other until we go extinct.
>I find that most of the "religious types" people complain about to be among the most tolerant people I know.
I agree, 60% – 75% of most religious types are very tolerant… it’s the remaining group that need to open their minds. Does it really matter if their Christian or Muslim…they’re the same beast that screws it up for the rest of us.
>They may not approve of homosexuals, strippers, porn, drug users or atheists, but they aren't out there strapping bombs to themselves. They may wish for people to change their ways, and try to convince them to do so, but that is their right as free citizens.
Hmmm…. There’s other ways to fuck society up besides bombs. Examples:
David Koresh (Weapons Stores and that whole mess)
Pat Roberts (suggests assassination of Venezuelan President)
Jerry Falwell (Quote:” AIDS is not just God's punishment for homosexuals; it is God's punishment for the society that tolerates homosexuals.")
Jim Jones (mass suicide)
Catholic Priests in General (Pedophile cover up)
ETC. ETC. ETC.
>I think a lot of this is pushback after years of being told there is no place for religion in polite
public discourse.
Quote:
“The fact that ethical convictions are rooted in religious faith does not disqualify them from the political realm. However, they do not have secular validity merely because they are thought by their exponents to be religiously authorized. They must be argued for in appropriate social and political terms in harmony with national values. In both cases, we should be prepared to deal with complexities, ambiguities, and overlapping realms in which practical discernment must find workable principles to guide us that are as compatible with fundamental Constitutional imperatives as human reason can devise.”
>I'm sorry to say you'd better get used to it, because this country is getting more religious, not less.
THAT’S UNFORTUNATE….but that won’t stop me from making me people “think about their convictions” as it relates to the world and the rest of the human race.
I agree with Yoda's comments that the religious right doesn't have nearly as much power and influence as they media woul dhave us believe. I think a lot of Republicans give them lip service to get their votes but don't really support their agenda. Just like Democrats pretend to care about poor people but don't support things that would help them. That's my idea of hypocrisy.
As far as the religion/strip club thing goes I agree with you, It's a non-issue. The religious right gets a lot of press in this country but doesn't have nearly the effect on issues that they, and George Bush, would like.
As an example....a relative of mine just got "SAVED"...well, before the this "event" happened in his life and before he allowed others to tell him what to think...."he was really a great guy" ....Now, ....Well...let just say that he's a totally didn't person.....and the worst part...."He's judgemental of others, Especially the ones that don't "think" the way he does now" - Which of course is Hipocritical...
Unfortunately, these same types of people, can't take the good that comes from religion and leave others alone....but try to exert their influences on others "forcefully" by indirect means (not church related)... ie: Ordances,Police Harrassment, Direct Business Influences, protests, politics....
Your statement: "Nobody cares unless the SC does something really stupid to call attention to itself."
When did the church become responsibile for setting everybody elses moral standards? (....remember the Chaos over the removal of the ten commandments)(and I'm only refering to the "Chaos"...not the ten commandments)
Fondl, I personally congratulate you on your ability to be part of this Disscussion Group and be a church goer....You don't know how much I wish that there were more open minded church goers like yourself. The world would be much better off.
My anger and disgust is not directed at people like you...but the 10-20% who are no better than any other religious Extremist. "Intolerance for each other will ultimately be our Demise on this earth"
The Supreme Court, in its current incarnation, and all others reasonably foreseeable, is far too interested in bolstering the Tenth Amendment and gutting the Commerce Clause to concern itself with t*ts, p***sies or d*icks, limp or otherwise.
AN, I think the neighborhood titty bars already dominate the industry; I think they always have and I don't expect that to change. In fact, I think they're the least changed sector of the industry.
And Yoda, that's interesting about the continued growth of foreign girls in your area, I don't see that around here but maybe I don't go to the right places. What kind of clubs do they tend to congregate in?
I think trends (1) and (2) have pretty much run their course, but (3) and (4) are likely to continue because of increased competition both from too many clubs and other forms of adult entertainment. I think clubs will increasingly come to resemble brothels and that the number of clean clubs will continue to decline. Prostitution has always been a part of the SC industry, it's just more open and aboveboard today, takes place more frequently within the club instead of only outside as in the past, and is probably more readily available too. I expect those trends to continue.
I almost agree with Chitown, except I think that the mechanism will be that enforcement efforts on what happens between consenting adults will continue to decline. The result will be the same.
I'm not too worried.
I thought for sure you would say..."total crack down" by society. Especially with the changes that will happen in the supreme court going more conservative.
Now personally, I totally agree with your logic...but whoever said that the US residents were logical in their thinking.
I know. Isn't amazing how they never seem to tire of it!
In any event, the "crackdowns" on SC's, either by LE or the actions of deliberative bodies, seem to be largely reactive to election cycles, and not indicative of any long-term trend. The long term-trend in society seems to be an increasing desensitization to matters sexual ("In days of old, a glimpse of stocking was looked on as something shocking."--Cole Porter, who came from Peru, IN, within spitting distance of the Hip Hugger). This is primarily a result of the Internet, but also a result of relaxed sexual standards that started with the Beatniks in the late 50s. As a result, sexual titilation will require increasingly bold and aggressive forms of stimuli, and I think that this will carry over into increasing availability of extras.
BOLD SOCIAL PREDICTION--In the next 10-15 years, a few jurisdictions will regulate/decriminalize prostitution, and prositution will spread like legal gambling did in the 80s and 90s. THis will actually start to get extras out of strip clubs, but also greatly decrease the volume of clientele. I hope that I still care by then.
I don't know where clubs will be in 25 years and I don't care. I'll be in my 70's by then and I plan to spend my later years with a couple of hot South American strippers who will be retired by then. Both have promised to service my every need, leave me wanting for nothing and begging for more.....
—>“I think the greatest threat to the future of strip clubs is poor management within the industry, especially the high prices at some clubs. But we've had that discussion before”