Ever get tired of clubbing
mayberrywell
North Carolina
As I prepare to head out to a SC I ask myself ....why? The obvious reasons are to have my hands on young women, to be aroused , to have sex. But then I think of the cost and the time versus an escort.
Anyone else get that feeling ?
Anyone else get that feeling ?
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- The motivation just isn't what it used to be without my xATF
- I'm bored with the crap talent (maybe that qualifies as tired)
- The cost/benefit ration isn't really satisfying of late
More ennui to come, I'm sure...
Definitely need to take a break to “cleanse†my mind/thinking – and save some $$$.
But most of the time I’ll go seeking the next high and/or out of curiosity as to how certain SCs may currently be since I like variety and tend to rotate among 12 to 15 different SCs (with some more than others)
In fact, I'm on a mini-break right now. I don't expect it to last too long, but I do intend to let the batteries recharge a bit.
One more reason why you hate me...the truth that I'm just sexy
I got to thinking that I actually hate everything about the place, except for the girls. They're the only reason I make the hour drive. And now after having parted with another $300 (I usually spend between $200 and $300), I'm feeling deflated and wondering whether there's a more fulfilling use of the money - without all the shit that goes on in the club.
Plus there's a lot of downside to SCs besides the expense. I hide it from others (except a couple trusted friends). Girlfriends universally hate it so they too fall into the group I hide it from. Safety is always a concern as I've seen PL scuffles and aggressive/drunk/stoned dancers, not to mention marginal valet guys. Etc...
But, then again, what's a 55 year-old horny PL (no wife/no kids) to do who's not really a night club guy? Plus 95% of the girls I meet around my age IRW, just don't float my boner, AND the're carrying way more baggage than will fit in the overhead compartment.
Oh well - maybe like rickdugan, a little break will rekindle that spring in my step as I walk into the SC. I've even looked into Sexcations (adult vacations with an escort), usually to foreign countries in Europe. Seems appealing at some level. Maybe mail-a-bride, where a PL flies to Poland and meets a bunch of young girls eager to marry a reasonably wealthy PL like me to get the hell out of their country.
This is turning out to be a good weekend for these kinds of musings. Thanks for the therapy, guys...
I've been going for 35 years, since I was 17, and it ain't boring yet. Do I sometimes take a break? Sure, but it sure as hell ain't because it's boring, or because I'm tired of getting my dick sucked by a 20 something hottie.
The recent departure of my SB for marriage land notwithstanding, my breaks have been because I didn't want to spend the money, or my dick was tired, or because circumstances prevented me from going, not boredom or ennui.
“… I've even looked into Sexcations (adult vacations with an escort), usually to foreign countries in Europe. Seems appealing at some level. Maybe mail-a-bride, where a PL flies to Poland and meets a bunch of young girls eager to marry a reasonably wealthy PL like me to get the hell out of their country …â€
It’s all the same shit IMO. Probably the hit and run no strings attached aspect of the SCs is the way to go (although far from perfect).
A sexcation “may†work out; but the same goes with being w/ a dancer – some are cool and one enjoys their time w/ them – and some are just a total bust on many levels – a sexcation with the wrong girl means you may be stuck w/ the bitch for the duration of the vaca and end up ruining it for you.
w.r.t. mail order brides – same shit as getting married any other way – they could turn out well – or they could be a nightmare – with the latter being more likely since they are hooking up w/ you out of interest and not b/c they necessarily want/desire to be with you. These mail order brides would be all sweet when you meet them in their country – once they come to the U.S. they more often than not become “Americanized†and it’s the same ole shit – not to say it would not work out; but I’d say it has the same chances as hooking up w/ a non mail order ho (or even less).
From what I’ve been told by others; one way to often get really good treatment from foreign hos is to hook up w/ them in *their* country either via regular vacations or retiring there.
Dancers who expect tips for uninvited conversation.
Shot girls who sit in your booth and use it as a headquarters to sell drinks.
Booth charges ranging from $20 to $40.
Smoking in clubs, despite laws against it.
$40 charge on ATM.
Dancers pestering you for a free meal.
$20 fee to bouncer for every trip to VIP.
With these things going on in almost all Detroit clubs, I go a lot less. When I go I expect this stuff and budget accordingly. Too bad the dancers get none of this money.