I was at a club last night and I saw some dude giving a dancer a message as if he was hired help. I thought this was PLish.
I've been guilty of doing this b/c I am a PL. IMO, I didn't know how PLish it was/looks until I became a TUSCL member (I was a PL before TUSCL; after TUSCL I am still a PL but at least I am aware of it now :)).
Honestly, I used to give messages to dancers (not often but every now and then) basically to PLishly ingratiate myself to them.
But now, hell the f*** no. I am there to be catered to – not do the catering. Plus IME, being a “nice guy†really hasn't gotten me anywhere in the SC game except getting played.
To me, this dude giving a message to this dancer looked as the dancer using her vagina powers to take advantage of this dude - and he did for like 3 songs at least.
So – do you think this behavior is PLish or depends on your motivation for doing it?

