Giving Dancers Messages ?
Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I was at a club last night and I saw some dude giving a dancer a message as if he was hired help. I thought this was PLish.
I've been guilty of doing this b/c I am a PL. IMO, I didn't know how PLish it was/looks until I became a TUSCL member (I was a PL before TUSCL; after TUSCL I am still a PL but at least I am aware of it now :)).
Honestly, I used to give messages to dancers (not often but every now and then) basically to PLishly ingratiate myself to them.
But now, hell the f*** no. I am there to be catered to – not do the catering. Plus *IME*, being a “nice guy†really hasn't gotten me anywhere in the SC game except getting played.
To me, this dude giving a message to this dancer looked as the dancer using her vagina powers to take advantage of this dude - and he did for like 3 songs at least.
So – do you think this behavior is PLish or depends on your motivation for doing it?
I've been guilty of doing this b/c I am a PL. IMO, I didn't know how PLish it was/looks until I became a TUSCL member (I was a PL before TUSCL; after TUSCL I am still a PL but at least I am aware of it now :)).
Honestly, I used to give messages to dancers (not often but every now and then) basically to PLishly ingratiate myself to them.
But now, hell the f*** no. I am there to be catered to – not do the catering. Plus *IME*, being a “nice guy†really hasn't gotten me anywhere in the SC game except getting played.
To me, this dude giving a message to this dancer looked as the dancer using her vagina powers to take advantage of this dude - and he did for like 3 songs at least.
So – do you think this behavior is PLish or depends on your motivation for doing it?
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Stripper you can suck my cock.
I rarely tell dancers I'm good with my hands in massaging but I did have two or three find out. At least they claimed I was good. If you're not paying and you get discounts and extra good lap dances, I see nothing wrong with massaging a dancer. It's not the main reason I visit a club and the vast majority of dancers don't find out. One dancer actually asked if I was a professional. I didn't think I was that good. I once gave a dancer a back massage upon her request. It was one of the few times I went back to the dance room, had a dancer sit on my lap, and didn't pay her a dime while I ran my hands over her. Typically I wouldn't do that for anyone but she was one of my favorites at the time. She was on top of my lap out in the club more times than anyone else I believe and she made me feel good so I returned the favor. I probably could have gotten free lap dances if I did I don't remember anymore.
Tis True!
It has definitely paid off.
A friend of mine is a pilot. One of his female flight attendants gets sick on a trip. She tells the flight crew she will skip dinner with the crew and go to bed early.
My friend leaves a message at the hotel desk along the lines of "Sorry you are ill, hope you feel better soon".
Some time later she texted him back "Thanks for the massage". But my friend didn't see that text before his wife did. Boy was he in hot water.
As Vincent said in Pulp Fiction....