I was at a club last night and I saw some dude giving a dancer a message as if he was hired help. I thought this was PLish.
I've been guilty of doing this b/c I am a PL. IMO, I didn't know how PLish it was/looks until I became a TUSCL member (I was a PL before TUSCL; after TUSCL I am still a PL but at least I am aware of it now :)).
Honestly, I used to give messages to dancers (not often but every now and then) basically to PLishly ingratiate myself to them.
But now, hell the f*** no. I am there to be catered to – not do the catering. Plus *IME*, being a “nice guy†really hasn't gotten me anywhere in the SC game except getting played.
To me, this dude giving a message to this dancer looked as the dancer using her vagina powers to take advantage of this dude - and he did for like 3 songs at least.
So – do you think this behavior is PLish or depends on your motivation for doing it?
I always enjoyed getting massages from my costumers. Some men actually enjoy giving massages and I enjoy receiving them. I never charge a costumer to massage me. Thats ridiculous. I do remember getting a tips but I didn't ask for it.
I massage my current fave after our dances and she absolutely loves it. And it extends the experience in a nice way....she never charges me for the number of dances during massage time. I don't mind touching that nice soft skin as much as possible, either.
Wait, what? She lets you grope her, sucks your dick, eats your jizz, and lets you fuck her, and you can't give her a freakin' *massage*? What the fuck, over?
Who cares if anyone thinks it's PLish? Most people think that going to strip clubs is PLish. If you enjoy giving massages, do it. If you don't enjoy it, then don't give them bitches no massages. To not do it because of what somebody else thinks is about as PLish as you can get.
Yep I give them massages, I suck their toes, I kiss all over their bodies. Trust me guys (and Lopaw), if you make them feel good it will pay off for you later on.
When a girl is sitting on my wood facing away, I'm quite happy to massage her shoulders and back for her. Some are very appreciative. The value of good karma cannot be underestimated.
So it's considered PLish to have a dancer sit on your lap and you get to rub your hands all over her even near her breast all for free and this is considered PLish? If you enjoy doing this for free, I don't see anything wrong with it. I usually prefer to feel breasts instead of the back but no one specified what part of her was getting massaged that I remember.
I rarely tell dancers I'm good with my hands in massaging but I did have two or three find out. At least they claimed I was good. If you're not paying and you get discounts and extra good lap dances, I see nothing wrong with massaging a dancer. It's not the main reason I visit a club and the vast majority of dancers don't find out. One dancer actually asked if I was a professional. I didn't think I was that good. I once gave a dancer a back massage upon her request. It was one of the few times I went back to the dance room, had a dancer sit on my lap, and didn't pay her a dime while I ran my hands over her. Typically I wouldn't do that for anyone but she was one of my favorites at the time. She was on top of my lap out in the club more times than anyone else I believe and she made me feel good so I returned the favor. I probably could have gotten free lap dances if I did I don't remember anymore.
nah massages can go a long way ive learned. if you can give a dancer a good massage things can only go well most of the time the dancer will give me a song or 2 dances for free or it can lead to otc adventures. weirdest thing though i was giving a dancer a massage with niether of us knowing her bf was there another dancer tipped us he was there he walked up to me and im thinking this isnt going to go well and asked me " my gf seemed really into can you give me some pointers on how you give massages maybe i can start gettin laid when she comes home" lol
There is a local body rub girl who gives a so-so body rub, but since that's not why I go to her, it doesn't really matter. A couple of sessions ago, when she was done with me, I told her to lay down on the table and gave her a better massage than she gave me.
A friend of mine is a pilot. One of his female flight attendants gets sick on a trip. She tells the flight crew she will skip dinner with the crew and go to bed early.
My friend leaves a message at the hotel desk along the lines of "Sorry you are ill, hope you feel better soon".
Some time later she texted him back "Thanks for the massage". But my friend didn't see that text before his wife did. Boy was he in hot water.
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I rarely tell dancers I'm good with my hands in massaging but I did have two or three find out. At least they claimed I was good. If you're not paying and you get discounts and extra good lap dances, I see nothing wrong with massaging a dancer. It's not the main reason I visit a club and the vast majority of dancers don't find out. One dancer actually asked if I was a professional. I didn't think I was that good. I once gave a dancer a back massage upon her request. It was one of the few times I went back to the dance room, had a dancer sit on my lap, and didn't pay her a dime while I ran my hands over her. Typically I wouldn't do that for anyone but she was one of my favorites at the time. She was on top of my lap out in the club more times than anyone else I believe and she made me feel good so I returned the favor. I probably could have gotten free lap dances if I did I don't remember anymore.
Tis True!
It has definitely paid off.
A friend of mine is a pilot. One of his female flight attendants gets sick on a trip. She tells the flight crew she will skip dinner with the crew and go to bed early.
My friend leaves a message at the hotel desk along the lines of "Sorry you are ill, hope you feel better soon".
Some time later she texted him back "Thanks for the massage". But my friend didn't see that text before his wife did. Boy was he in hot water.
As Vincent said in Pulp Fiction....