Giving Dancers Messages ?
I was at a club last night and I saw some dude giving a dancer a message as if he was hired help. I thought this was PLish.
I've been guilty of doing this b/c I am a PL. IMO, I didn't know how PLish it was/looks until I became a TUSCL member (I was a PL before TUSCL; after TUSCL I am still a PL but at least I am aware of it now :)).
Honestly, I used to give messages to dancers (not often but every now and then) basically to PLishly ingratiate myself to them.
But now, hell the f*** no. I am there to be catered to – not do the catering. Plus IME, being a “nice guy†really hasn't gotten me anywhere in the SC game except getting played.
To me, this dude giving a message to this dancer looked as the dancer using her vagina powers to take advantage of this dude - and he did for like 3 songs at least.
So – do you think this behavior is PLish or depends on your motivation for doing it?
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last commentPapi did you mean MASSAGE as in neck or other places or MESSAGE as in a telegram perhaps or a text "message"????
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I'm a tiny bit confused. A message from whom? Written or Verbal? Text?
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I gave this broad a message in a bottle once. I'm still waiting for a reply.
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OK – I’ll repost the entire rant in another thread using the correct grammar :)
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Yes – I meant massage :)
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To me that denotes a relationship outside the norm... Generally that is PLish behavior.
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I've never said no to a massage.
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Agree, it's PL'ish. Fwiw some girls charge customers to massage them. Pathetic enough yet?
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I always enjoyed getting massages from my costumers. Some men actually enjoy giving massages and I enjoy receiving them. I never charge a costumer to massage me. Thats ridiculous. I do remember getting a tips but I didn't ask for it.
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Excuse my typo^
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Oye Papi, no lo intiendo. Una masaje relejamente. Eso me gusta. Mi favorita le gusto como asi.
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My message to the stripper is
Stripper you can suck my cock.
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I massage my current fave after our dances and she absolutely loves it. And it extends the experience in a nice way....she never charges me for the number of dances during massage time. I don't mind touching that nice soft skin as much as possible, either.
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Wait, what? She lets you grope her, sucks your dick, eats your jizz, and lets you fuck her, and you can't give her a freakin' massage? What the fuck, over?
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I don't see anything PLish about massaging her clit.
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Who cares if anyone thinks it's PLish? Most people think that going to strip clubs is PLish. If you enjoy giving massages, do it. If you don't enjoy it, then don't give them bitches no massages. To not do it because of what somebody else thinks is about as PLish as you can get.
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Sometimes providing a neck massage to the dancer before dances can cause her to reciprocate with better dances. I don't see it as a problem.
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Yep I give them massages, I suck their toes, I kiss all over their bodies. Trust me guys (and Lopaw), if you make them feel good it will pay off for you later on.
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When a girl is sitting on my wood facing away, I'm quite happy to massage her shoulders and back for her. Some are very appreciative. The value of good karma cannot be underestimated.
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So it's considered PLish to have a dancer sit on your lap and you get to rub your hands all over her even near her breast all for free and this is considered PLish? If you enjoy doing this for free, I don't see anything wrong with it. I usually prefer to feel breasts instead of the back but no one specified what part of her was getting massaged that I remember.
I rarely tell dancers I'm good with my hands in massaging but I did have two or three find out. At least they claimed I was good. If you're not paying and you get discounts and extra good lap dances, I see nothing wrong with massaging a dancer. It's not the main reason I visit a club and the vast majority of dancers don't find out. One dancer actually asked if I was a professional. I didn't think I was that good. I once gave a dancer a back massage upon her request. It was one of the few times I went back to the dance room, had a dancer sit on my lap, and didn't pay her a dime while I ran my hands over her. Typically I wouldn't do that for anyone but she was one of my favorites at the time. She was on top of my lap out in the club more times than anyone else I believe and she made me feel good so I returned the favor. I probably could have gotten free lap dances if I did I don't remember anymore.
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I think messages are cool.
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If you paid a dancer and you did a massage on her back. That would really suck unless you're a really oddball guy who enjoys that.
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nah massages can go a long way ive learned. if you can give a dancer a good massage things can only go well most of the time the dancer will give me a song or 2 dances for free or it can lead to otc adventures. weirdest thing though i was giving a dancer a massage with niether of us knowing her bf was there another dancer tipped us he was there he walked up to me and im thinking this isnt going to go well and asked me " my gf seemed really into can you give me some pointers on how you give massages maybe i can start gettin laid when she comes home" lol
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"if you make them feel good it will pay off for you later on."
Tis True!
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There is a local body rub girl who gives a so-so body rub, but since that's not why I go to her, it doesn't really matter. A couple of sessions ago, when she was done with me, I told her to lay down on the table and gave her a better massage than she gave me.
It has definitely paid off.
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Slightly off topic:
A friend of mine is a pilot. One of his female flight attendants gets sick on a trip. She tells the flight crew she will skip dinner with the crew and go to bed early.
My friend leaves a message at the hotel desk along the lines of "Sorry you are ill, hope you feel better soon".
Some time later she texted him back "Thanks for the massage". But my friend didn't see that text before his wife did. Boy was he in hot water.
As Vincent said in Pulp Fiction....
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