I recently had an amazing experience with a cute caramel AA brunette, with a huge long curly afro. Discovered she loves to have her hair pulled, in addition to other light S&M play like choking, when she's making out. This was a real surprise. A somewhat germaphobic stripper once told me, "Don't touch my hair!"
I found that running my fingers through the afro and pulling it was a big turn-on for me, probably because most women I know don't like guys playing with their hair. I've read on here a few times that hair color really matters. We know Alucard and others love reds. Many others love blonds or brunettes. I've always liked dark-haired babes, but now I'm looking for more than just color. In the future, I'll be paying attention to style, texture, smell and whether I can play in the head mop, while playing down below.
What are your dancer hair preferences in terms of color and other features? Does it matter to you?
I like the long, long, butt-crack length hair. You can usually find it only with Asians. Even though the long silky hair is fun, it is not enough to make the Asian girls an obsession for me. It is enjoyable to get tangled up in the long hair, to be surrounded by it, like playing with her inside of a tent. Had a girl who impishly wrapped it around my neck and tugged on it a bit. I don't think she was serious about it. I don't *think*. There have been some long-haired redheads that were stunning. And there are bottle blondes with long straight hair all over the place. And I'm kind of half turned on by the long, albino-like white hair.
The sisters are another deal. Because of the unique properties of their hair, the longer between visits to the salon, the more frizzy. A full bushy Angela Davis afro would be sexy and you could get lost in there. But most of the sisters prefer straightening, coloring, adding extensions, and throwing in the kitchen sink. So, most of the time you are not sure if it is one huge wig with lots of bells and whistles. And they don't want you to touch it because of the tons of product, the hours in the chair, and the hundreds of dollars invested in it. I just about crapped one time when I heard how much it cost for cornrows. So I don't blame them if they don't want you to run your hands through their hair and they just want you to leave it alone and marvel at it.
“… A somewhat germaphobic stripper once told me, "Don't touch my hair!" …â€
Most dancers, and women in general, don’t like their hair been touched mainly b/c they don’t want you to mess it up, IMO. This has been even more so with black dancers IME since it takes a lot for them to keep their hair nice.
I get most of my LDs from black dancers – and although I am not into freaky things like wild hair color, piercings up the wazoo, and lots of tats, I do find black women with dyed hair a turn on (most black women with dyed hair will usually dye it blonde/platinum; or red).
I think the contrast is kind of sexy and I also appreciate the fact that they go out of their way to make themselves look more attractive and/or sexy.
It has also been my personal experience that I have gotten better (less-ghetto) treatment from black girls/dancers whom dye their hair blonde/red. I thought this may be b/c they are into/like more Caucasian features but that is just an assumption on my part.
I loves me some long haired brunettes. They are the ones my eyes naturally gravitate to once I set foot inside a club. Redheads are so rare that they peak my interest. My least favorite is blonde, but truly it comes down to the woman underneath that hair that makes the cut or not.
I like blond hair too. I do remember one dancer with blond hair put some kind of hair spray or gel in her hair that made it hard and scratchy. I didn't want to accidentally even touch her hair. I suspect it has something to do with all of my sisters being brunette.
Other than going for any natural redhead, there isn't anything special that I will automatically go for. Long hair is always a plus, but girls who can pull off short hair are always sexy.
looney hit on the nose in his first two sentences. Although, the same can be seen on some Latin woman. My two current faves, Colombian and Ecuadorian both meet that standard.
My favorite dancers tend to be black, latin, or Asian, so by default, I'm partial to ladies with long, black hair. I've only had a couple of dances from blondes or redheads in the past couple of years, but the dark hair does turn me on! Regardless of color, I like to play with my partners' ears, so not having a complex 'do is important to me too!
I'm all about natural hair. Don't change your hair color brcause the girls tend to look stupid doing it, dark & light skinned. Its even worse for dark skinned when they do funky colors like red and blonde. That shit don't look good on you whatsoever. Blonde is not meant for you bitch so stop doing it. Though when it comes to light skinned, I do particularly enjoy the brunette and blonde color mix that some girls do. That is pretty damn hot imo....I wonder how that would look on a black woman.
I can understand women not wanting their hair touched (even though their stupid for assimilating). Whenever I get my hair freshly braided (and its up to my back btw), I don't want anyone but me and my salonist (is that a word?) Touching my hair. Everyone else is bound to fucking it up even if it is hard not to run your hands through my braids (I have had women, regs and strippers alike do this). I'm sure its the same when the young guys go to their hair place and get their do all spiked up aor whatnot.
Long and soft first and foremost in any color. Blonde first in color, red second and the rest is good also. Stiff and treated is a turn off. For those who like long and blonde there is an '8.5' dancer at Cadilac Lounge in Providence that has waist length natural blonde hair and B cup naturals and a very nice butt.
The disadvantage off long hair is that it tends to block your view when she is giving you head. I guess this would be alright if she would tie it in a pony tail first. :)
" I do find black women with dyed hair a turn on (most black women with dyed hair will usually dye it blonde/platinum; or red)."
Sorry Papi, you da man and all, but I agree with Esta on this one. To me, black dancers who dye their hair blonde do not look good at all. I hate that almost as much as I hate when girls have really short hair. But I realize it's just a matter of personal prefernce, so it's all good.
By the way Papi, I wished I lived in Miami like you,, so I could choose from all those sexy Latinas with long, black hair. :)
Alucard, red hair is your choice, but ask Stiletto why blondes rule in the better clubs, why blonde escorts command the most money. Pretty much around the world. Must be a reason, hmmmmm?
I like it when the stripper wraps her long soft hair around your dick and uses it while giving you a hand job. It's so soft and smooth - it feels TREMENDOUS!
I have waist length dark brown hair; I usually wear it straight, but I would let it "au naturale" every now and then (it's actually curly, like Shakira the Colombian singer). I had a customer who loved pulling my hair in VIP while I rubbed his nipples. Fun times!
Estafador, that's the main point of the post! I was surprised my dancer told me she was turned on by having her hair pulled. Now one of our own female TUSCLers, JayJaydancer, is saying she likes that also! So yes, there are women who like having their hair pulled.
Esta pulling a girls hair while she is turned on makes her wild. Some like it better than others. When she is on your lap cowgirl, reach back behind her neck, massage it a little, then run your fingers up into her hair and if she doeant stop you grab a whole fist full of hair. Pull it down gently but firmly pulling her head back and kiss her neck. You will know if she really likes it. She will go nuts
"Alucard, red hair is your choice, but ask Stiletto why blondes rule in the better clubs, why blonde escorts command the most money. Pretty much around the world. Must be a reason, hmmmmm?"
I'm just hard wired that way. Blonde hair is just NOT initially attractive to me. I have NO idea why anyone finds it particularly attractive. LOL
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last commentThe sisters are another deal. Because of the unique properties of their hair, the longer between visits to the salon, the more frizzy. A full bushy Angela Davis afro would be sexy and you could get lost in there. But most of the sisters prefer straightening, coloring, adding extensions, and throwing in the kitchen sink. So, most of the time you are not sure if it is one huge wig with lots of bells and whistles. And they don't want you to touch it because of the tons of product, the hours in the chair, and the hundreds of dollars invested in it. I just about crapped one time when I heard how much it cost for cornrows. So I don't blame them if they don't want you to run your hands through their hair and they just want you to leave it alone and marvel at it.
Most dancers, and women in general, don’t like their hair been touched mainly b/c they don’t want you to mess it up, IMO. This has been even more so with black dancers IME since it takes a lot for them to keep their hair nice.
I think the contrast is kind of sexy and I also appreciate the fact that they go out of their way to make themselves look more attractive and/or sexy.
It has also been my personal experience that I have gotten better (less-ghetto) treatment from black girls/dancers whom dye their hair blonde/red. I thought this may be b/c they are into/like more Caucasian features but that is just an assumption on my part.
I am Obsessed with Red Hair! I prefer it to be curly and just past shoulder length. Generally I don't find Blonde hair attractive, I prefer in order:
1. Red
2. Brown
3. Black
"Some females get really upset when you are giving them a facial and some of it gets in their hair."
In the dancer's shoes, wouldn't you be SC? Hmm...
But there possibly are some that probably don't care.
NOT!!!
An ear man heh! That's a new one for me. Must be fun.
I can understand women not wanting their hair touched (even though their stupid for assimilating). Whenever I get my hair freshly braided (and its up to my back btw), I don't want anyone but me and my salonist (is that a word?) Touching my hair. Everyone else is bound to fucking it up even if it is hard not to run your hands through my braids (I have had women, regs and strippers alike do this). I'm sure its the same when the young guys go to their hair place and get their do all spiked up aor whatnot.
I usually don't like it when girls have noticeably short hair. I just don't think most girls can pull it off.
I've never had a girl in this situation tell me to not touch their hair. The seasoned pros know we are visual creatures.
Sorry Papi, you da man and all, but I agree with Esta on this one. To me, black dancers who dye their hair blonde do not look good at all. I hate that almost as much as I hate when girls have really short hair. But I realize it's just a matter of personal prefernce, so it's all good.
By the way Papi, I wished I lived in Miami like you,, so I could choose from all those sexy Latinas with long, black hair. :)
Oooh, that's hot!!! Call me a PL if you want, but I'm instantly in love with you, JayJaydancer! ;)
I'm just hard wired that way. Blonde hair is just NOT initially attractive to me. I have NO idea why anyone finds it particularly attractive. LOL