My question is this for you: Would you rather have a awesome GFE (Girlfriend Experience) with a hot stripper that you really connect with? Where you are having drinks, laughing, and getting hot grinding mutual touching dances, but no Full Service. Or would you rather have just ok, rushed Full Service from a ho from Adelitas?
I went down to TJ for the first time and it was a blast. However, the Adelitas experience was just ok. Sat at a booth solo with plenty of empty bench next to me. A fairly hot latina sat down and we had drinks. Seemed like there was a bit of chemistry but hard to tell since my espanol is only so so. Decided to take her upstairs for the usual $60 ya ya. The mood turned decidedly rushed as she was determined to suck me off as soon as possible. Worked me like a jackhammer and complained a bit that it took me so long to cum. Not that I cared but was not that exciting. I know YMMV, and MM was not great.
I was thinking afterword as I ate some great street tacos with my buddy that I have had way more enjoyable experiences in L.A. at bikini bars where I connected with a dancer that rocked my world even though there was no FS or even topless laps. I guess in retrospect that having a dancer that is (pretending probably) interested in you and giving a good GFE is pretty enjoyable compared to a rushed Full Service ya ya at Adelitas.
I think I need a door # 3 here. FS has to last at least an hour to be satisfying to me. But for just company, what does it matter if it's with a hot woman or fugly person of unspecified gender? Just matters if they have something interesting to say.
GFE. Minus the DFK. You never know what just came in then out of that mouth. Shadowcat's story scarred me. I don't ever want to know what another mans cum tastes like. I guess that's just me though, Alucard.
I had a great Girl Friend Experience with a stripper last week. I took her to an expensive restaurant and a romantic movie. Then when we got back to her place, she said she wasn't in the mood.
I find GFE ITC much more satisfying than FS ITC, which is always rushed and feels like high school. Haven't done FS OTC yet. If I do, I envision an overnighter with dinner and maybe some entertainment/shopping.
The favs I've experienced so far are gorgeous, highly intelligent and very sensuous. Intimate two-way touching is continuous from bar to LD to VIP, with hours passing like minutes. Beyond the basics, important GFE elements for me are never hearing the word "No", not being asked for money (they know I'm generous), FIV and light kissing. If a fav has a real orgasm or provides a fake one, or two, that really enhances the GFE.
Thanks for the post LL. BTW, the favs I've enjoyed so far have all been latin ladies! :-)
It's tougher to get non-rushed service out of Adelita Bar. Some people have more look doing that in Hong Kong where they sort of sit and develop some degree of connection with the girl first.
I think the story that stax's is referring to is this one. Several years ago I was in the Columbia Platinum Plus with 2 other TUSCLers. I took a dancer(vincemichaels knows her too)to the counch room for a BBBJ. When I came out I went straight to the mens room to finish cleaning up. When I got back to our table my buddies were laughing their asses off. Seems my dancer came right out of the couch room, jumped in some guys lap and started kissing him. Better him than me. LOL.
LL69 - My Adelita's experience was similar. Girl was hot, but mechanical. All about getting you in, off and out as fast as possible. I will be pickier next time.
I'd rather not rush anything I'm enjoying unless I'm having fun driving a race car.
That would be like getting the high score on a laser disc arcade machine about 20 years ago getting happy I navigated an alien fighter craft through the gorge past enemy targets, past several barriers on an enemy alien planet and looking forward to playing again amazed that I still did not get to the end of the game. Then I come back the next day and the machine is gone never to be seen again. I really enjoyed the photo realism. It was like I was there. Just saying you feel disappointed later on but you might enjoy it while it lasts.
GFE experience? A 64 year old traveling road warrior like me is going to have a GFE with a hot 22 year old stripper? Get real! I will happily settle for a bout of even mechanical FS.
At my age, 'rushed' does not enter the picture. Even with my buddy, Mr. Cialis, accompanying me, nothing between the girl and me is ever rushed.
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last commentBut if I *have* to choose, I'll take the sex. I have a wife at home for the rest.
The favs I've experienced so far are gorgeous, highly intelligent and very sensuous. Intimate two-way touching is continuous from bar to LD to VIP, with hours passing like minutes. Beyond the basics, important GFE elements for me are never hearing the word "No", not being asked for money (they know I'm generous), FIV and light kissing. If a fav has a real orgasm or provides a fake one, or two, that really enhances the GFE.
Thanks for the post LL. BTW, the favs I've enjoyed so far have all been latin ladies! :-)
Your question is an either or.
In that scenario, I will take the sex. And repeat as necessary.
That would be like getting the high score on a laser disc arcade machine about 20 years ago getting happy I navigated an alien fighter craft through the gorge past enemy targets, past several barriers on an enemy alien planet and looking forward to playing again amazed that I still did not get to the end of the game. Then I come back the next day and the machine is gone never to be seen again. I really enjoyed the photo realism. It was like I was there. Just saying you feel disappointed later on but you might enjoy it while it lasts.
At my age, 'rushed' does not enter the picture. Even with my buddy, Mr. Cialis, accompanying me, nothing between the girl and me is ever rushed.