Older vs Younger Women ?

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Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I know this has been discussed via comments in various posts but don't recall a thread specifically about it – although there probably has been one.

My personal preference is for older women. They just look more womanly (I know that it's not a word :)). I've been really turned on by older women even as a kid/teen.

Part of the reason is b/c I really like womanly looking women; I.e. soft and with curves – and it seems older women are often more shapely and/or curvy IME.

I also feel older women know how to treat a man better and better know what a man wants/needs, and what she wants.

Personally, I am more attracted to an attractive 40 yr-old woman that an attractive 20 year old girl.

Your thoughts?

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Estafador
12 years ago
^^^
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shadowcat
12 years ago
I like young spinners, although Christal was 46 and I liked her a lot. My ex wife was 14 years younger than me and that turned out badly.





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GoVikings
12 years ago
I strongly prefer the gals who are in their twenties. I don't think I've ever gotten a dance from an old stripper. Younger ones are almost always better looking to me.
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looneylarry
12 years ago
Funny how perspective changes. When I was in high school I saw the vast difference between the junior high girls and the high school *women*. The high school girls were easily slipping out and drinking in the bars. Only a few high school guys could even date any of our female classmates, since they were all dating and screwing the college guys. NOW I look at junior high girls as children, high school girls as girls and college girls even look really young. I honestly can't tell the difference between college girls and high school girls. If I am walking on a college campus, I have to assume they are all college girls and not high school.

To me, thirty-year-olds are young, and many forty-year-olds look pretty sexy. I remember the furor over Vicki LaMotta posing in Playboy when she was 52 or 53--she looked pretty good but everybody was amazed she was doing it at 52. In my mind NOW, what's the big deal? I have yet to lust after a 60-year-old woman, but it might happen. I guess nursing homes are fertile grounds for old people fucking (the old studs are in great demand by the numerous old biddies), but I sure as hell wouldn't want to see it.
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Tiredtraveler
12 years ago
Young is a relative term. Young to me means less than 35. So I guess I like younger dancers. However I seldom go for dancers less than 24 or so.
My age limits are not cast in stone. I have had dancers that were 20 years old that rock your world and 40 yo that look 25 and will wear you out. I prefer 24 to 35. Some younger dancers have not figured how to do it right yet.
I'd bet Shadow is one of those older sages the youngsters flock around while he hogs all the spinners to himself! LOL
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GoVikings
12 years ago
"To me, thirty-year-olds are young, and many forty-year-olds look pretty sexy"

I couldn't agree more, looneylarry

However, in a strip club it's different. In a strip club, 30 year old strippers would be considered up in age and 40 year old strikers (and older) would be considered old. The strippers in their twenties and younger are considered young.

Outside of the club, I wouldn't consider any of the ages I listed above as old. Hopefully I explained that clearly and it makes sense. I think it does. :)
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GoVikings
12 years ago
40 year old strippers*
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Clubber
12 years ago
I prefer mature, no matter their age.

My ATF is 32 now, but I met her at 20 and I was 51. My most recent fave says she will be 50 next birthday. I really didn't believe her. Then I was in another club and mention to a dancer I've known for about 10 years (42 now) and she was telling me about this 50 year old dancer in another club. Sure enough, my fave.

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snowtime
12 years ago
I have recently had dances from a girl that was 35, but prefer younger than that. Sometimes the younger girls do not give very good damces, but they seem to learn pretty quickly. I think the younger dancers tend to like us older guys because they know there is no chance they are going to be talked into a (non monetary) relationship with them. With guys their age, I suspect all of the guys expect them to be a potential GF. With us, all they want is our money, and that is fine with me, if I get a quality lap dance or VIP.
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Papi_Chulo
12 years ago
Hmm?

I guess I was incorrect in my OP when I stated “womanly” was not a word – it is. I guess I thought it wasn’t since when I use it, most people often don’t know what I mean. I use the word “womanly” as the female counterpart of when someone uses the word “manly” to describe a manly (masculine) type of guy.
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daddysgirl1
12 years ago
Papi, the only phrase that comes to mind w/you is "Stiflers Mom" You're awesome.
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Papi_Chulo
12 years ago
If that was a prop dg1 – thanks!

Wasn’t familiar with the term "Stiflers Mom" – had to look it up in urban dictionary and here is was it said:

1. stifflers mom
Well, Stifflers mom.(from American Pie)
Finch boned Stifflers mom.
milf boy 1-"Hey dude, your'e the guy who boned Stifflers mom."

milf boy 2-"Dude if i didn't need to pee so bad i'd shake your hand."

2. stifflers mom
N. A term exactly similar to milf but usually one who will actually get with the younger boys she attracts.
(obviously originating from American Pie Series)
CJ; oh my she is such a milf, do you think she's like stacey's mom or stifflers mom ?

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.ph…

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daddysgirl1
12 years ago
Stiflers mom is from American Pie. Finch had a thing for her. This movie is also where the term MILF hatched its egg. Yes, this was a prop.
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sclvr5005
12 years ago
who gives a fuck how old they are as long as they satisfy my needs.
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Ermita_Nights
12 years ago
"Womanly" is a perfectly fine word. It dates back to the 13th century, according to my dictionary.
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Clubber
12 years ago
E_N,

Check with SC, he was around back then, I think. :)
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jackslash
12 years ago
I like women who are less than half my age. But that now means early 30's.

I know a dancer who is in her 50's. She looks pretty good on stage, but the one time I got lap dances from her, I found that her skin looks old and lined up close.
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rl27
12 years ago
You would be surprised at how old some strippers actually are. Many of my favorites over the years have been in their mid to late thirties, all had been dancing for over a decade and their lap dances were great. Sure there are a few who may have just started dancing and are in their 30's but most are veterines, and wouldn't have lasted as long as they have if they weren't very good dancers.

I knew few over the years who were in their early fourties that looked to be in their early thirties at most. One who just turned fourty I thought was 25 when I first saw her.

Conversely, we have all seen a few dancers who looked to be in their mid 30's and early fourties and were only in their early 20's.
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Experimental
12 years ago
If a stripper is hot I really don't care how old she is as long as she's legal.
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gawker
12 years ago
One of my faves is 38. Her parents are both Chinese and she has a body ( augmented) which is out of sight. She's well educated,lots of tattoos and is very exotic. Age is not as important as attitude.
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Estafador
12 years ago
If shadowcatt is a sage who hogs all the spinners, then no beef he can have em. I'm into women with complete bodies and a sexy matuure face. Women with big booty or big tits (even better if both), their stomach is lean but not anorexic where your scared if you poke it, you'll put a hole in her. When I was young, all older women had these characteristics and not exactly those in my age group. I'm 21 and those 25-40(5) still got what my generation hasn't hit yet (not to say I haven't dated those in my generation the rarae and the regular). Maybe it'll change when I'm 30 but probably not or I'll be too faithfully married to care.
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gsv
12 years ago
Being rather young myself, I don't usually go for girls who aren't somewhere in their 20's. I'd even be fine with a girl who is 18, provided she was mature, which is pretty rare these days. Recently my favorite girl in a club was actually 33 years old, and I had a great conversation with her. It's not what I usually go for, but occasionally it's nice to spend time with a more mature stripper. Maturity doesn't always correlate with age, but in my experience the younger ones (especially low 20's) tend to have a greater chance of being complete airheads.
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Corvus
12 years ago
Hot and sexy knows no age limit. Of course they don't all have it. Genetics and also hard work help a lot. Maturity also knows no age limit. I've met a few very mature twenty year olds and more than a few immature 40 year olds.

Some of the best LDs I've ever had were from a extremely sexy 40+ dancer in Vegas last year. She knew what she was doing, was very good at it, and obviously worked hard to stay in shape. I'm sure makeup was also in play.

Bottom line for me is if they got it, they got it. Age is not a factor. Well, except of course on the low end. Keep the jail bait out of the conversation.
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staxwell
12 years ago
MILF'S!!! FTW!

I love an older woman. Always have. I'd have to go pretty deep to explain how it started, but damn they do it for me.

Lisa Ann and India Summer are two of my favorite porn stars for the simple reason that they're the embodiment of the MILF to me.

Lisa Ann's thick body, calves, thighs, inflated ass & tits that hang just right. As long she doesn't speak, she's amazing.

India Summer's plain aged face, matured lady swagger, long hair with hints of gray. She looks like she knows things.

I like all women, no matter age, race, height, tit size. But, I'd turned down many women for a summer night with India Summer.
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DandyDan
12 years ago
I've always had a thing for older ladies. One of my early OTC experiences, when I was still in my 20's, was with a woman in her 40's. There is a dancer at my favorite club who is 50 and still smokin'.
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minnow
12 years ago
Sitting here, I'd "like" a hot, tight 20 something. Lately, a lot of my faves have been in the 35-42 age bracket. Maybe, as an older guy ( I remember watching Apollo 11 moon landing on TV as a teen), I'm more effectively "targeted" by the older dancers. They're compatible for sure, and have long gotten over themselves. What they give away in a few "sags" to younger dancers, they make up for in maturity/compatibility.
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scatterbrain
12 years ago
I've said it before and I'll say it again...the best age for any woman/girl is half your age plus 7. For Example, if you're 20, it's 17. If you're 40, it's 27. If you're 50, it's 32. Works for any age.
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Papi_Chulo
12 years ago
"... best age for any woman/girl is half your age plus 7 ..."

LOL - is there any actual science to this or is this based on your own research/observations?
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goodsouthernboy
12 years ago
I'm 31, so take that into consideration. My girlfriend is 41, and I love it. She's mature enough to understand that I treat her well bc she's had the time I be in other relationships that haven't been as kind to her. And she has an amazing body, curves but still tight.

Having said that, a 40 year old stripper was chatting my ear off last week and even though her body was nice, I couldn't force myself to be interested. It could have been the personality, but he could have played a part. All in all, every 40 year old isn't created the same.
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