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M is a dancer who is very sensual and very popular. I've known her itc for 4 years & have had the pleasure of FS
& BBBJ several times. She vanished about 18 months ago & other girls told me she had found a sugar daddy. Several weeks ago she returned to work, told mmme she had been with a married billionaire whoo brought her on business trips in a private jet. Things got messy and they split. Then she stopped working again and has called me several times asking for help. I've helped her with $$ and with medication. I brought her some aid today, she looked fabulous but her mother was there. She sent me a text thanking me and saying next time she'd like us to get a hotel room. Should I plan on paying her? I'm 67 and she's 24. Clearly, its not a May/ December romance. But maybe its her way of saying thanks. I'd like others thoughts.
& BBBJ several times. She vanished about 18 months ago & other girls told me she had found a sugar daddy. Several weeks ago she returned to work, told mmme she had been with a married billionaire whoo brought her on business trips in a private jet. Things got messy and they split. Then she stopped working again and has called me several times asking for help. I've helped her with $$ and with medication. I brought her some aid today, she looked fabulous but her mother was there. She sent me a text thanking me and saying next time she'd like us to get a hotel room. Should I plan on paying her? I'm 67 and she's 24. Clearly, its not a May/ December romance. But maybe its her way of saying thanks. I'd like others thoughts.
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There's one of her coworkers who I've been seeing OTC for 3 years and has started taking me for granted. This chick took M aside, said stay away from me or else. She told her to fuck off and I'd see whoever I wanted to. Why didn't I have these choices years ago when I could handle them?
Let her either say no this one is on me or try to arrange a a cheaper follow up experience.
As a general rule in life (not just when dealing with strippers) loaning money or helping someone out should always be written off as a loss. I have helped too many people move and never seen any reciprocity and never expect it either. If you loaned you guy buddy some money you wouldnt expect sex with him for repayment and you wouldnt rush to stop dealing with him until he repaid either, but you would probably not lend them something so quickly next time.
speak for yourselef.
Sure, she did.
Don't give her a dime, and just tell her you don't want to her about it anymore. Then if she calls you a "jerk" say "thanks!"
I'm also in my 60's and my ATF is in her 20's. Sometimes she plays the sympathy card, and I fall for it. I give her extra money or help her out. But of course she's fucking young guys for free and spending my money on them.
It's OK, I think, to let yourself be played a little bit. It helps us old guys to indulge in the fantasy that a beautiful young girl loves us. But when she asks for a $5000 loan or a BMW or money for a start-up business or a condo--then it's time embrace your inner cynic and realize she's basically a whore.
The only reason a beautiful woman with no tats hangs out (evidenced by FB) with the ghetto crowd is because she is really a junkie. It is hard to believe she just simply likes the rap lifestyle or the music or the posse. She is getting her habit fed. Now, for you, if you want the strung-out drama of a desperate junkie (which will surely come as the rising sun tomorrow), you can follow-through. But if you think that she has turned the corner and you will be getting that sophisticated hottie that all the other Forbes 500 guys would clamor for, I say you're wrong. All too often, we know deep down that we aren't getting the sleek Lamborghini but will wind up with the broken-down Corolla that is always in the shop. And we do it anyway. Either way you are going to be paying. Not all girls can be like our Carolynne--sleek, sultry, saucy, stunning, and having a raging libido.