Ran into potential ATF OTC ... with her boyfriend

1/7/2013 11:47:10 PM

I've been seeing a particular dancer for a couple of months and have been prodding her to see me OTC, only to be completely stonewalled by her. She's beautiful, funny, intelligent and gives a great dance (no extras, though), but I guess it's the PL in me that keeps me coming back for, ultimately, blue balls.

Well, tonight I got my OTC wish ... I ran into her at an event, while she was there with her boyfriend. I wish I could say that he was what I pictured the "typical stripper boyfriend" to be and maybe take some comfort in that, but he was young/handsome/well-dressed/looked well-off and basically smirked at me as he walked up while she and I were having an awkward 'fancy seeing you here' conversation. Then, he whisked her away and I realized that the countless hours/hundreds of dollars spent in VIP were all for naught.

Nothing like having your fantasy girl ruined by the reality that strippers actually have lives outside of the club.

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gsv

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12 years ago

Dang bro, it's a harsh way to learn the lesson, but at the end of the day that's how it works. Usually the *more* money you spend in the club the *LESS* likely it is the girl will see you as someone they'd actually date OTC. You are in the customer 'zone' of sorts at that point. Don't spend money in VIP rooms in hopes of something happening outside. Only spend money in VIP rooms for stuff that actually happens in those rooms, so you can walk away happy regardless of whether there is OTC or not.

gsv

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12 years ago

Of course, if your goal was to just pay for play OTC, and not to date her, spending money in VIP is still bad because it shows you value her time so much in the club even when there is no sex involved. Why should she see you outside?

jackslash

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12 years ago

Every stripper has a boyfriend or husband. How long does a beautiful girl have to go without a man? But that doesn't mean she won't do OTC. My ATF lives with a boyfriend who is younger, taller and better looking than me. But I fuck her once or twice a week.

Experimental

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12 years ago

mas0n, he may have smirked on the outside but inside that head of his he was thinking "is she fucking this guy?"

How do you know his nice attire and well off appearance weren't all the product of having a stripper gf with cash rolling in? She'll get tired of him eventually, or the lack of trust between them will cause problems. You aren't out of the game. Offer her a little more...what do you think sack time with her is worth? If she keeps shutting you down or eventually won't dance for you anymore you aren't really losing anything. You're in a no lose situation here now.

Clackport

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12 years ago

It is true that most strippers have "boyfriends", but that don't mean shit. I've fucked some strippers that had boyfriends at the time, but it was no big deal to the strippers. Go for it, you got nothing to lose. I know you said you weren't getting extras in VIP, but what were you getting in the VIP (kissing, sucking on titties, fingering her pussy, DATY)?

mas0n

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12 years ago

Ranukam - Actually none of that in VIP, the most I got was getting to feel on her tits. She gave a good dance, though, and I'd usually end up busting in my pants from the friction/dirty talking.

Experimental - Something tells me that's not the case, the event was a company party for an advertising firm that he works for (that I was invited to for the work I do for them).

It was just an awkward situation that I've never encountered before and thought I'd share. Most likely I'll continue getting dances from her, but look for another OTC prospect.

deogol

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12 years ago

All boyfriend has to do is a couple bad words and subtle championing of your competition ... you got no money and he got no worries. Advertising firm? Definitely a backstabbing game player - the meme of that industry is to play with people.

Alucard

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12 years ago

Should have congratulated him for have such a good looking Stripper as a GF!
LOL

azdd

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12 years ago

It depends on the circumstance of course, but I would never approach a dancer outside a club if she's with a BF or group of friends, and I hope they extend the same courtesy to me. I've seen a few regulars out and about, and I just try to make eye contact and smile. Once I was on a Southwest flight that included my ATF and her husband. We had seen each other in the gate area, but I didn't approach her. On SW you get to choose your own seat, and when I boarded, the aisle seat next to her was empty! She was in the middle, hubby at the window. I considered it for about two seconds, and decided to pass up the seat. That would have been awkward indeed!

deogol

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12 years ago

Should have sat down and asked what she did for a living. You know, small talk.

ButterMan

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12 years ago

Yea I don't think I would have went up to her with her BF. Maybe I would have waived or something and laughed about it next time I was at the club. You never know who actually knows she strips. But I agree with what everybody else said a stripper having a BF means nothing.

georgmicrodong

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12 years ago

If she's truly been "stonewalling" you, you should probably take the hint and move on. It's usually not gonna happen. She *might* change her mind if you stop spending money on her in the club, but if her BF is really a highly paid ad guy, she doesn't need the money, she's stripping as a lark, or to build a nest egg, or because she gets off teasing guys, or some other reason that really means "I don't need *your* money; there'll be another PL along in a minute after you leave."

inno123

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12 years ago

Any dancer who does not do anything extra inside the club VIP room is not going to do OTC ever. In addition any dancer willing to do OTC will drop a hint to that regard with only the most minimal suggestion.

If your real goal is OTC why not just go straight to the escorts and avoid the nonsense?

HowdyPilgrims

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12 years ago

I think georg has a good post there. I'm also wondering, @TlkDo is waiving her slang for ignore? lol

she_is_covfefe

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12 years ago

Mas0n, have you been my customer before? I had danced in the both PMs in RVa, and you sound like a regular I had in summer of 2011.

ilbbaicnl

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12 years ago

There are escorts who are 10s. They charge 400 - 600 per hour depending on where you live. You will waste a lot of money at first, because of fake pictures. After you find a few with real pictures, no more wasted money. There also many escorts who are 8s who charge under 300 per hour.

I never had a fav who's dances got better. They get lazy, you have to threaten to stop just to keep the dances from getting lamer.

mas0n

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12 years ago

JayJaydancer - Knowing absolutely nothing about you other than your handle: I don't think so? I don't know if how dashing and debonaire I am translates well over the internet so you may have me confused with someone else!

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