Married Dancers ?

I have only been with one dancer who was married.

IMHO any dancer who is with a S.O. in a serious way is not a good OTC candidate due to possible logistical difficulties. And may not be a good candidate for ITC Xtras. It has been my experience that most dancers with a S.O. in their life...Well the S.O. is a parasite & the relationship is bad at best. IMHO, you have a better chance of getting what you want from them.

I am. I usually joke about it if a customer ask me, if a custie don't ask I don't reveal it.

Truth is about 99% strippers are either married or have a boyfriend/girlfriend. I have no way to verify that statistic. i made it up. But today i over heard one girl talk about hiking with her boyfriend. so id assume the number of strippers with SOs is high

I would think the # w/ BFs would be high – but to me, being married is a bit of a different ball game – just me.

Well this is NOT the 1st time you have made up statistics kingcripple. I REMEMBER the last time.

I think married dancers would constitute from 1/4 to 1/3 of the group. Just a guess on my part. Those with boyfriends, much higher averages.

It has been my limited experience that dancers who are married have a "husband" who is:

1. Clueless and stupid or,

2. A badass MF who doesn't give a fuck that their "wife" strips for men who are always trying to have sex with her.

As long as she comes home, these badass types get a perverted sense of sexual pleasure that men desire to fuck their wife.

I know several dancers that are married. To them its a job

I think that a lot of them are probably in some kind of long term commitment with a bf or gf. I just don't ask about it. I like to keep the fantasy.

Alucard, still bitter? i mean its a pretty good guess. my theory is that all the attractive ones (the ones i find attractive) have an SO. its just a theory, but how can i be wrong

Im married

Nothing like a double standard for old Alucard. Chastise men on here for clubbing if they are married but he's got no problem fucking a married stripper. And married strippers having otc sex no prob because he assumes their man is bad. lmao what a clown.

lots of double standards on this board. both from us custies and from the 'entertainers', such is life...

@Tortilla, you know the White Knight lives on his High Horse. When he does things, he does them RIGHT.

I know several dancers whose husbands and/or SO's are incarcerated. I dated one gal for a couple of years and when the bf got out of jail they invited mms to their apartment for dinner and then I paid them both to let me watch them have sex. It was a great show with her starting him off with a lap dance, then a great blowjob, sex in 5 or 6 positions, etc. Different strokes....

My experience indicates that most have boy friends but the actual number of married ones is very low. I guess less than 5%. I could care less about their status. As long as they are providing what I want, why should it bother me?

One of my favorite dancers is married. I told her if she fucks her husband anything like she grinds, he must not make it a minute. She also has one one of the cutest pussies I've seen on a chick. Damn, I hope they get divorced.

Married for green cards

Years ago, a fellow that worked for me had a wife that danced. I knew this before he "outed" her when we were in the club. End of story, she moved in with a customer, divorce and all the rest of the BS. Last I saw her after all the "rest", she looked about 50 years old and quite haggard. Drinking, drugs, hours, whatever really took a toll on a young pretty woman. Sad!

I might mention that she became quite famous in the news back in 1996.

This has never really crossed my mind. It doesn't matter to me since I'm just there for the entertainment. But if I had to GUESS, I'd say most probably have boyfriends but aren't married. The fact that most strippers are really young is what leads me to believe most AREN'T married.

@Stiletto: "Im married"

So, in other words, we have something in common. Awesome. :)

Her marital/dating status doesn't really bother me either way, unless I get some indication that the husband or SO will get upset enough to do something about me having sex with his wife/gf. I've been reasonably sure of a few.

As for the "moral" side of the question, *I* am married, and I'm not hypocritical enough to condemn a girl for having sex with someone she's not married to, especially when that "someone" is me.

I think most strippers don't mention husbands or boyfriends to customers because they don't want to ruin the fantasy. They're more open to talking about their children.

I had a fav who retired from dancing in her mid 30's. She often talked about her 2 kids, but I only learned she was married after she retired. I wouldn't want my wife doing what she was doing in a strip club, but different people have different values.

None of them are married. I've been going to clubs for years and have never once seen a stripper with a ring on her finger.

I have only met two strippers who, in the course of their stripping career, admitted they were married. One of them got married and eventually quit the business less than a year later. The other I only found out about after I had a minor incident with her husband, where he essentially told me never to get a lapdance from her again. She eventually quit the business, divorced the loser husband and went back to stripping. I did find out after the fact that a few strippers were married, a fact which didn't deter one of those ladies from letting use her mouth as a deposit box. I think it may be more typical of strippers to be like my current ATF, who stripped, got married and left stripping, then divorced and returned to stripping, all the while not stripping while married.

Reread my post. I didn't say that I FUCKED or had any type of sex with the married dancer. That's your stupid assumption.

Kingcripple, whenever I believe you are making up stuff I'll mention it in a post.

To Staxwell:

"It has been my experience that most dancers with a S.O. in their life...Well the S.O. is a parasite & the relationship is bad at best. IMHO, you have a better chance of getting what you want from them"

This is an exact quote from above. NO where in the quote do I say that I've had any sexual contact with these dancers. The last sentence and thew word "You" refers to the audience &/or patrons in GENERAL. I did not say "I", referring to myself. If you can't read well enough to figure it out, well that is your problem.



If a dancer remains SILENT regarding a S.O. then a person would need to be able to read minds.

When I see threads like this, I think about how I have only ever known one dancer who ever seemed to have any interest in being honest with me. Even in her case, she had such problems with wishful thinking sometimes, and paranoia at others, I had to wonder about most things she told me. We can learn bits and pieces about these women, but we will never know what's really going on in their lives, who they really are.

To Shma-la-shmard:

Lol! Come on, Eileen.

"I have only been with one dancer who was married.

IMHO any dancer who is with a S.O. in a serious way is not a good OTC candidate due to possible logistical difficulties. And may not be a good candidate for ITC Xtras. It has been my experience that most dancers with a S.O. in their life...Well the S.O. is a parasite & the relationship is bad at best. IMHO, you have a better chance of getting what you want from them."

^^^^This is exactly what you posted.

"I have only been with one dancer who was married."
"I have only been with one dancer who was married."
"I have only been with one dancer who was married."

Should I post it a couple more times. Now when people say they've "been with some one" in a conversation like this, it usually means "I had sex with someone". If you DIDN'T have sex with her (which wouldn't surprise me because you act like a frustrated virgin) fine, my mistake. But, when you say "I have only been with one dancer who was married." you can't be surprised if someone thinks you mean sex.

"If you can't read well enough to figure it out, well that is your problem."

Don't insult my teachers like that. They did nothing to you. And stop being so passive aggressive. Just say "Staxwell you can't read , you fuckin idiot". Thankyou for your time.

-Herald Staxavelli

C'mon Stax... Cut da ol' Drac-man some slack. Remember, he has been tagging along on our "Justice League: Strip Club Unit" meetings and he thinks EVERBODY has superpowers. You see, he thinks you have telepathy and can read his mind when he says "I have only been with one dancer who was married" he thought you got his telepathic signal saying "by been with I mean we JUST played monopoly ... The Ferengi version of the game o' course 'cos that's what the cool kids like me play..."

So Drac my man, you see that Stax just read yo' words, not yo' mind. He didn't mean no harm, so peace out and relax bro...

Shit... I feel like mothahfucking Ghandi here. Bringin' peace to Alucard and Stax. Before ya know it I'll bring peace to ol' Alucard and tha Dougsta. I once made Jesus kiss and make up with Lucifer at a party. So I'm sure I can bring peace to Dougsta and Shma-la-shmard. Well, actually I dressed up as Jesus at a party back at my uni days and met a hot chick dressed with devil horns. Made out for a while but it end when I did the miracle of converting everclear and Kool-aid to vomit in the bushes. One of Jesus' less well known miracles from his rebellious teen years. Cool days, cool days...

LOL peace. I'm relaxed now, zip.

Fuck yeah Stax... You da shizzle.

zip - Ferengi didn't have telepathic powers. lol. Betazoids did tho. I know, I know. It's the star trek geek in me.

@rh48hr: I thought they weren't true telepaths, but rather empaths?