Married Dancers ?
Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I imagine there are a fair # of them. But to me, this is something that rarely enters my mind when I a w/ a dancer. Previous to joining TUSCL and getting more educated about the game, it was hard for me to phantom a woman being married and doing this type of work. I mean, if I was to think about it “intellectuallyâ€, I would assume that there would be – but the thought of it being the case does not come naturally to me.
Of course there is no way to know – but I wonder how many dancer may *be* married? In reading stripper web from time to time, it seems the dancers there are more open about saying “bla bla bla my husband bla bla bla; in their comments – where I would imagine they would be more guarded about disclosing this info to custies in the SC.
When I first started SCing, I would say I would get a little bit more “emotional†with the dancers and the fantasy – so I really didn't like hearing them talk about their BFs, even less a husband. Being a member of the TUSCL DB has of course enlightened me as to the realities of the game and I take it for what it is.
What are your current, or previous, thoughts, to married dancers being in this game? Does, or did, it shock you at first? Are you turned off by a dancer letting you know she is married? Or you don't give a shit either way?
Any comments welcomed.
Of course there is no way to know – but I wonder how many dancer may *be* married? In reading stripper web from time to time, it seems the dancers there are more open about saying “bla bla bla my husband bla bla bla; in their comments – where I would imagine they would be more guarded about disclosing this info to custies in the SC.
When I first started SCing, I would say I would get a little bit more “emotional†with the dancers and the fantasy – so I really didn't like hearing them talk about their BFs, even less a husband. Being a member of the TUSCL DB has of course enlightened me as to the realities of the game and I take it for what it is.
What are your current, or previous, thoughts, to married dancers being in this game? Does, or did, it shock you at first? Are you turned off by a dancer letting you know she is married? Or you don't give a shit either way?
Any comments welcomed.
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IMHO any dancer who is with a S.O. in a serious way is not a good OTC candidate due to possible logistical difficulties. And may not be a good candidate for ITC Xtras. It has been my experience that most dancers with a S.O. in their life...Well the S.O. is a parasite & the relationship is bad at best. IMHO, you have a better chance of getting what you want from them.
It has been my limited experience that dancers who are married have a "husband" who is:
1. Clueless and stupid or,
2. A badass MF who doesn't give a fuck that their "wife" strips for men who are always trying to have sex with her.
As long as she comes home, these badass types get a perverted sense of sexual pleasure that men desire to fuck their wife.
So, in other words, we have something in common. Awesome. :)
Her marital/dating status doesn't really bother me either way, unless I get some indication that the husband or SO will get upset enough to do something about me having sex with his wife/gf. I've been reasonably sure of a few.
As for the "moral" side of the question, *I* am married, and I'm not hypocritical enough to condemn a girl for having sex with someone she's not married to, especially when that "someone" is me.
I had a fav who retired from dancing in her mid 30's. She often talked about her 2 kids, but I only learned she was married after she retired. I wouldn't want my wife doing what she was doing in a strip club, but different people have different values.
Kingcripple, whenever I believe you are making up stuff I'll mention it in a post.
"It has been my experience that most dancers with a S.O. in their life...Well the S.O. is a parasite & the relationship is bad at best. IMHO, you have a better chance of getting what you want from them"
This is an exact quote from above. NO where in the quote do I say that I've had any sexual contact with these dancers. The last sentence and thew word "You" refers to the audience &/or patrons in GENERAL. I did not say "I", referring to myself. If you can't read well enough to figure it out, well that is your problem.
If a dancer remains SILENT regarding a S.O. then a person would need to be able to read minds.
Lol! Come on, Eileen.
"I have only been with one dancer who was married.
IMHO any dancer who is with a S.O. in a serious way is not a good OTC candidate due to possible logistical difficulties. And may not be a good candidate for ITC Xtras. It has been my experience that most dancers with a S.O. in their life...Well the S.O. is a parasite & the relationship is bad at best. IMHO, you have a better chance of getting what you want from them."
^^^^This is exactly what you posted.
"I have only been with one dancer who was married."
"I have only been with one dancer who was married."
"I have only been with one dancer who was married."
Should I post it a couple more times. Now when people say they've "been with some one" in a conversation like this, it usually means "I had sex with someone". If you DIDN'T have sex with her (which wouldn't surprise me because you act like a frustrated virgin) fine, my mistake. But, when you say "I have only been with one dancer who was married." you can't be surprised if someone thinks you mean sex.
"If you can't read well enough to figure it out, well that is your problem."
Don't insult my teachers like that. They did nothing to you. And stop being so passive aggressive. Just say "Staxwell you can't read , you fuckin idiot". Thankyou for your time.
-Herald Staxavelli
So Drac my man, you see that Stax just read yo' words, not yo' mind. He didn't mean no harm, so peace out and relax bro...
Shit... I feel like mothahfucking Ghandi here. Bringin' peace to Alucard and Stax. Before ya know it I'll bring peace to ol' Alucard and tha Dougsta. I once made Jesus kiss and make up with Lucifer at a party. So I'm sure I can bring peace to Dougsta and Shma-la-shmard. Well, actually I dressed up as Jesus at a party back at my uni days and met a hot chick dressed with devil horns. Made out for a while but it end when I did the miracle of converting everclear and Kool-aid to vomit in the bushes. One of Jesus' less well known miracles from his rebellious teen years. Cool days, cool days...