Threats From A Significant Other
tenisbum1776
Have any of you ever received threatening phone calls from the signficant other of a stripper. Just had an event last week where my ATF (who I was steering toward a physical OTC) assured me that she was divorced and had no father in her kids life; however the husband turned out not to be an ex at all. Using the phone I bought for her he gave me a call and let me know in no uncertain terms that he took great umbrage at the attention I was paying to his wife.
Anybody have a similar story?
Anybody have a similar story?
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"The only thing an ATF or dancer can “assure†me off is that she will try to take all of my $$$."
So true Papi. The wise man said, "Some people come into your life as blessings, others come into your life as lessons".
Trust me my friend, this ATF (former) was DEFINITELY the later.
I would “think†it happens less w/ dancers b/c either they are sort of experts at doing what they do (and hiding it); or their SOs are more or less aware of what she does; or support her in what she does; or push them to do what she does.
It is a natural reaction from the SO IMO. Just leave it alone and there should not be a problemo.
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I'm very wary of giving any stripper my number. Always use a Google Voice number. The sad truth is, many strippers have an abusive man (or three or twelve..) in their lives and chances are good that her cell phone is one of the first things he goes for when they have a fight.
1. A jealous ex-husband of a dancer called me, while under the influence of whatever drug he was on to try to convince me she was no longer dancing. The dancer told me he was supposed to be babysitting and dog watching at her house at the time. He found her customers' phone numbers and apparently started calling them.
2. A dancer's boyfriend called me once after I texted her, to inform me that she had recently committed suicide. I could believe it. I never saw or heard of her again.
Another example of why dancers seldom have workable relationships.
What you guys should be concerned about is nobody following you home, specially if you have families, these guys are really shady, and will do whatever it takes if they sense you have money.
Despite being 6'6 300lbs with a large frame being pretty intimidating guy, once I started messing with strippers I changed my ways to a lower standard. Bought a cheaper car, stopped carrying much money with me. Remember, telephone threats aren't exactly harmful, what's harmful is the really psycho dude who will find a way to get to you.
He and I actually became friends in an odd sort of way.
I would say that raises the ante a bit
"I would say that raises the ante a bit"
Let's just say I didn't use any of the clever cavalier responses that were suggested by previous posters while talking with him on the phone. My responses were more like addrssing my drill instructor back when I went through USMC Officers Candidate School in 1977.
I'm trying to decide if 3 months or 6 months is long enough "cooling off period" before I set foot by myself in that club again.
"If the 1% statement is true, DO NOT FUCK WITH HIM! I'm speaking of the true 1%er, not the wanna be's that are out there."
No my former ATF told me that he was a member of a rather notorious 1% mototrcycle club; a fact that he made certain I was aware during our brief phone conversation. I did record the conversation and made it clear to him that I'd provided copies to people that would know what to do if any harm befell me. He texted me back saying I had nothing to worry about so long as I left his wife alone.
No problem there dude. Forgot her name already.
Just FYI, I am part owner of a bar/night club in Moscow and one of the people I notified was the Brooklyn connection for the people that provide, shall we say "protection" for the club in Moscow. He asked for the lady's phone number and I have no idea what if anything happened since then.
Of course, use your own method of dealing with the situation. What worked for me may not work for you.
As for me, I never make threats.