"Extras" at strip clubs?
ames86
Let me preface by stating I'm a noob to stripclubs.
Gone to my first one a week back.
While going over reviews, I noticed some people mentioning "extras"
In all honesty I didn't even consider anything "extra".
I thought you basically pay for a lap dance, and that's about it.
In my mind as far as "extra" goes, I thought that was pretty much being able to touch the chick while she danced for you.
So was I right to presume "extra" just meant being able to touch the chick, or does it entail more?
Gone to my first one a week back.
While going over reviews, I noticed some people mentioning "extras"
In all honesty I didn't even consider anything "extra".
I thought you basically pay for a lap dance, and that's about it.
In my mind as far as "extra" goes, I thought that was pretty much being able to touch the chick while she danced for you.
So was I right to presume "extra" just meant being able to touch the chick, or does it entail more?
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Scroll to very bottom of this website and look for "Glossary".
They can't bloody advertise something like that so I'm left to my own devices :S
Anyone know if there is a list that exists online I can check out, so I know if the clubs in my vicinity
allow "extras" and it isn't against policy; so I don't have to ask face-to-face then get kicked out by a morbidly obese 6'4" bouncer for suggesting such a think?
So "extras" are just egotistical rambling of dudes with egos enlarged after a club visit?
If you're talking about the States, though, there is no place, with the possible exception of some areas of Nevada, where "extras" are legal, and you could be inviting jail time for even asking. Likely? No, but still possible.
How to find the "right" dancer is left as an exercise for the reader...
Are you a shy guy?
Maybe I should just man up and bluntly ask about it...
On the other hand, I'd probably pussy out...
It's not like I can just say mid dance "soooo, are we gonna fuck?" Jay and Silent Bob style :D
guess I gotta go stripclub hopping instead of club hopping
to see whats the general policies of each stripclub in my area.
I'm not shy in my day-to-day life social settings. (school, work, pubs, etc.)
This scene is kinda new to me so I don't know what's the norm social behavior just yet.
So Farmer, you're telling me to check out your reviews right?
I was thinking of having a go at a strip club for the my 2nd time this Wednesday; which will be my time off in a while due to my hectic schedule.
Hope your reviews are accurate, cause it might just be the deciding factor here for this lost noob (myself).
lmao.
Well, as mentioned before, I'm thinking of going to a SC this Wednesday,
and it will be quite awhile before I visit another SC, hell it might as well be my last time...
So I'm willing noticeably lighten my pockets for a memorable night.
Unless you want to pretend it's the equivalent of picking up girls in a nightclub. Then when you do it you can fancy yourself some kind of player as many here do it. Your choice if you want to be in tune with reality or live in fantasy land and get the ego boost. If the later talk to RickDugan, he spent ten years developing a system to get extras. Given a mind like his could pick up string theory in a couple of weeks if he was so inclined, you should get a sense of how difficult a problem it is and how much he accomplished when he cracked that code. Turing award material.
lol, you don't seem to like the RickDugan character.
I have no illusions about what kind of vocation the dancers chose, but my head is filled with "idealogical BS" (as one of my friends put it lmao).
Even if they're "whores" they still deserve at least the general respect you'd give any stranger on the street, no?
Anyways, I guess I'll try to grow some balls by Wednesday and try bluntly asking lol...
I don't even know how to word the question though...
Do the girls know the lingo as well and know wtf I mean if I just asked them "do you do anything extra?"
You can figure out what kind of environment you are in before you even bother asking the girls for anything. Generally it's not hard to predict whether or not girls would do extras in a given club.
oh that brings up an interesting question I forgot to ask.
What's considered "VIP"?
Am I once again naive to think VIP is just a personal lap dance?
I gotta say the word "VIP" is too generalized an vague these days like "organic" food...
Meaning of it is never consistent lol
Thanks for the reply
One thing that seems to be a problem though is SCs in my area don't have very descriptive sites
(some of them, which are well reviewed on here don't even have sites anymore)
Well, I have at least 48 hours to figure this shit out, so I think I should be fine lol.
You can also ask the girls if they will meet you outside the club for fun. A motel may be better than VIP.
You can also ask the girls if they will meet you outside the club for fun. A motel may be better than VIP.
And Outside The Club (OTC) can certainly be a lot more fun than the VIP room but not always.
Since you guys stated, one of the hints is the layout, wouldn't want to pay a cover charge to get in,
just to find out the layout of the place x)
Really?
I don't know... Then again, I've been to only one SC lmao...
mjx01, are you speaking from your own experiences in the area?
@Stilletto
Are you saying you can't be a "good guy" when you go to strip clubs?!
Damn it, now I have to give this quest up :P
I'll have my last go at a SC this year this coming Wednesday.
I'm thinking to myself, I should stop when I still genuinely show respect to the dancers,
before I get jaded and cynical.
I would think some people on this site would "choke a bitch" - Chappelle reference, if they paid like
me on my first day at the SC.
I didn't mind at the time, but after reading this site, a little whisper in the back of
my head is saying "WTF, you got ownt shon, you better wise the fuck up"
I should quit before that whisper becomes a loud voice dictating my perception of women in general.
Sure assume the best until they show you otherwise, but they often do that in less than a minute, and don't cut them much slack in the meantime.
(Interesting that txtittyfan says he used to be a stock broker, and just loves being constantly disingenuous . Maybe the reason he takes any negative comments about the whores so personnally?)
lol, you don't seem to like the RickDugan character."
LOL. he's just bitter and resentful. If you stick around for a while, you'll understand soon enough that advice from him amounts to the blind leading the blind. He has about as much real-life experience in clubs as you do.
"But in your particular case, his "just ask" mantra might actually be the right approach. I guess that even a broken clock is right twice a day. ;) Mississauga clubs are known to be pretty friendly places. However, if you move around a bit then do your research. In less extra-friendly locales, "just ask" will get you just booted or even worse.
no, unfortunately I have not been to canada clubs yet. However...
YES, farmerart is telling you to read his reviews damnit. If I remember correctly some girls in Toronto area clubs are very forward and well certain Toronto clubs have a reputation for these sorts of things.
And sorry about my original comment... I totally missed the fact you were not referring to puritian ass american locations.
Tip the attendant tho! You don't want anyone opening that curtain/door.
If you ask the wrong girl things might go downhill.
lmfao... that line is like something from a bad porn movie hahaha
On another note, loving all the love up in here on tuscl
rickdugan & dougster bffs :D
C'mon Ames, we're dying to know how the big night went!
LMAO...
In case anyone is interested as 3LeggedMan, here is a summary:
Went to one around my area that had a "reputation".
Stayed there approximately 4 hours, scouting for potentials.
Found 3 during the span of 4 hours.
Took each of them for a dance.
1st one (facially a 7.5/10 brunette), I subtly asked, and she did offer, but overcharged through the roof.
Negotiated but the prices were too damn steep, so just took a dance.
2nd one (facially 7/10 dirty blond), she offered. Same deal with the overcharging.
Negotiated, but once again too damn high.
Took 2 dances this time because she had an all natural banging body.
3rd one, (facially 7.5/10 blond) she offered. Same deal with the overcharging.
Negotiated the prices down, it was still too damn high, but I've already wasted around 3 1/2 hrs at this point,
so impulsively I said fuck it, and went for it.
What a mistake x) ...
The whole ordeal was so bloody mechanical...
Up and down movement, no grinding, minimal eye contact, just going through the motions.
On average I last around 15-20 minutes. (Thank you years of porn)
So I'm sitting there after the 3rd song (~9 minutes) and she give me a deadline after that...
hahahaha, fucking hilarious.
In one instance she was vigorously handling ames jr. for about 2-3 minutes, realizing that if I wanted, I'd last another 15 minutes.
Anyways, being the empathetic chump I am, I obliged and I utilize her to aggressively meet the deadline...
All-in-all not a great experience.
It felt mechanical, impersonal and bland.
I felt hurried and bored.
Several of the guys I've talked to online during my endeavour into the adult oriented entertainment industry
facepalmed and told me I should just go see a bloody SP, because what I experience is pretty much the norm
when it comes to stripper territory.