Aggressive or Passive?
georgmicrodong
Just a fat, creepy old pervert.
Wednesday, August 1, 2012 5:44 PM
A comment on an article attracted my attention:
"Guys who suggest you should approach the dancer, rather than wait for her to approach you, are flat misguided."
Bullshit.
Life, and my time in the club, are too fucking short to sit around and wait for some possibly flaky, possibly popular, possible overworked, possibly crappy (or good, depending on how you view mine) judge of character, but otherwise desirable, dancer to get around to noticing me.
If I'm interested, I'm going to approach her and express my interest. So what if I "tip [my] hand" and she sees dollar signs? Of *course* she sees dollar signs; that's the reason she's *there*. It's no skin off my nose if she wants money, I'm there to give it to her. If expressing my interest so significantly strengthens her bargaining position with regard to mine, I'm doing it wrong. If that's the case, I should find another hobby, one that doesn't require any willpower or negotiation skills, like basket weaving, or jacking off to internet porn.
Since I *can* hold my own in such a "dick her"ing session, revealing my interest doesn't give her any advantage to speak of.
And if you still think feigning disinterest works better, I don't want to hear any bitching and moaning about how the dancers are ignoring you for their regulars...
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