If you had nothing to do on a particular day and your ATF couldnt get a babysitter and called you up asking you to babysit, whether there was no type of compensation or if there was, would you do it?
I have thought about this and maybe i would. It may lead to her asking for other things, which I personally, know where i would have to draw the line on what I would do, and I could lie easily about whether or not i COULD do something
See, Alucard, I AM a nice guy.
Of course I would babysit for my ATF. I owe her much more than that anyway. And simular to Drac's ATF, she is a good woman most of the time.
I think I'd pass. I am a good guy (for the most part) but I'd have enough concern with her boyfriend showing up. LOL
Why would anyone ask me to babysit anything?
If she wasn't living with her boyfriend, I would. Since she is, he can do it. :)
"Why would anyone ask me to babysit anything?"
You wouldn't babysit EVEN for family members?
I never had kids. Would you ask your doctor to install a dishwasher?
....I would try if asked. But I might feed them brats and kraut and hot wings. Is that ok?
"What woman in her right mind would let anyone here anywhere near her child?"
And what would said woman have to be concerned about with TUSCL members acting as a babysitter?
Nope. Unless the person I was gonna babysit was her hot dancer friend.
No.
The list of people I would babysit for outside family is very short.
Hell NO!!!
I love kids & all (used to baby-sit for my cousins all the time) but coming from a former 24/7 nice guy, fuck no.
That just leads to a push-over / tool status.
currently without an ATF but, the most recent would be a hell yeah. Of course she ended up moving in & the daughter & I got along fine. The one before that......... OH HELL NO!!! Other than her bf not liking or trusting me, half her family kept turning her into Children's Services and there's no way I would want to be there when they showed up.
I am baby sitting my 4 yo grand daughter tomorrow but neither of the two dancers that I am seeing OTC right now have kids. So I dunno.
HB13, hows it lead to tool status? i could see it being pushover status but tool? i dont know
"but neither of the two dancers that I am seeing OTC right now have kids"
That's a first. I honestly have not met a dancer that did not have a child.
motohead - yes it is rare. One of them is 35 and has been married twice. How many women are there in the world like that?
Depend on circumstances. I have kids so depending on the age of her kids, it would be easy to keep them entertained.
KCripple, depends on your meaning of tool: urbandictionary.com
You're just going to get used, push-over, atm, loan, etc. Sure there are oddities but those are "exceptions" to the rule.
NO
"What woman in her right mind would let anyone here anywhere near her child? "
Exactly. I shudder to think of anyone here babysitting a small child. Poor kid would probably be scarred for life, lol
Baby sit for my ATF? You mean while she's at the club shaking her boobies at guys? No thanks. That's what loser boyfriends are for.
There is also a lot of risk for a man to baby sit a child who is not a relative. You could be accused of molesting the child and have your life ruined. Of course, no stripper would ever accuse a man of molesting her child to get money out of him.
If it were my current ATF, probably not, because I know for a fact her youngest has serious issues and without elaborating further, I wouldn't want him to die on my watch. As for the 4 before that, 3 of them didn't have kids and the other had a daughter who was already a teenager and probably didn't need babysitting. Who knows, by now, daughter may be a dancer somewhere. I could probably babysit her now. And yes, I knew 3 dancers who didn't have kids, actually 4, but that one isn't an ATF.
No, babysitting would open a whole new level in the relationship where I would not go.
No my ATFs are all over the age of 18 they don't require a babysitter but they do need a sugar daddy
I've never been asked. Not sure if I would. I've house sat and car sat but a kid is a lot different.
I don't think I'd do it. My ATF is a great girl, but she's much more of a "taker" than a "giver." It's not that I'd expect to be paid, but it could easily get out of hand whenever she needs help.
Would you ask her to watch your kids (assuming you had some)? Do you honestly think she would do that for you? If so, great--you've found a gem. Otherwise, think twice.
I didn't even wish to babysit my own kids!
I'm with clubber on this one lol
Jackslash you make a VERY good point.
OH MY GOD!!! juice agrees with me!!! I am doomed!!! :)
"There is also a lot of risk for a man to baby sit a child who is not a relative. You could be accused of molesting the child and have your life ruined. Of course, no stripper would ever accuse a man of molesting her child to get money out of him." -- jackslash
Exactly - we live in a country where a man will drive by a child in need because we don't want to be accused of something. One is immediately considered guilty and even if proven innocent there is always "Well, I heard that guy..." Unfortunately, it is a far sicker culture than strip clubs in my opinion and we are getting exactly what we deserve.
I'd baby sit Clubber's kids.
vm,
Sort of not "kids" any longer, and they can handle themselves even with a bad Uncle Vince! :)
If a stripper asked me to babysit, and I took her up on it, I would turn her bedroom upside down looking for naked pictures, self-made porn, basically anything illicit on the computer or tucked away in a drawer on a CD or thumb drive.
I'd also steal a pair or two of her worn panties.
Just saying, you might as well make it worth your while.
Vm clubbers ? But not my 37kids ? Well fuck you 2 buddy : )
Clubber lol ya if I agree with you then ya your royaly fucked dude !
Damn, juice. You really do get around. :)
I'm jealous, I don't even have one. :)
Bring em over some night, I'll learn the kids right !!
vm,
"...I don't even have one."
I have another bit of envy for you now. Your traveling for strip clubs, well that's still #1!
"See, Alucard, I AM a nice guy."
IMHO you're not nice person regarding your opinions about women & Dancers as expressed on this Forum. I don't believe you would do it.
I WOULD Babysit for my ATF. She's a very nice woman.