Why do us young guys want to date strippers?

Clackport
Washington
I'll put myself in the young guys category, I'm in my early 20's. After reading some discussion threads about dating a stripper, it got me thinking about why we want to date strippers. I used to want to date a stripper, but now I now just stick to fucking strippers.

There was this ATF that I thought was the perfect girl. She was incredibly nice, sweet, beautiful. We were around the same age. She really opened up to me and shared some personal things that she probably wouldn't share with her best friends. We enjoyed a lot of the same things. Of course the dances were unbelievable too. We shared a mutual attraction. At that time, all this stuff made me not care if she was a stripper. I liked the fact that I had a girl that every guy in the strip club wanted to fuck. I wanted to date her, and I ended up dating her. When I started dating her everything changed. She had told me about some of her problems before, but with dating her I found out she had a lot more serious problems. All her stripper friends had boyfriends who were drug dealers or unemployed or working a shitty job. Everything was stressful in our relationship. She was living a double life, so most people she knew had no idea she stripped, and she would lie when they asked what she does for a career. Everything in her life was about money. It became too much for me, and I broke it off. I've dated a couple other strippers that were like this relationship.

I think that when us young guys see a stripper that's our
age and there's mutual attraction, some of us want to date the strippers. From my experiences, it's better to stick to fucking the strippers (even if it's P4P). It's a lot less drama.

I think us

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Clackport
13 years ago
Don't mind the last three words. I wish there was an edit function.
JuiceBox69
13 years ago
Good points man.....I'm headed to 30 and love dating these girls.....I do it cause I'm just as damaged as they are and I feel like we get each other and ooo ya I'm a peace of shit.....lol.......good points man I can agree
sinclair
13 years ago
Probably because it's an ego-stroke being with a girl every guy wants to fuck and the thought of lots of free sex with a hot piece of ass. But reality sets in, and you learn dating a stripper is not worth it.
Alucard
13 years ago
"Why do us young guys want to date strippers?"

NOT having a "young man's" mind, body & lack of Life experience any longer - I can't say why a young 20's something guy would want to date a Dancer. Many times I've heard the guys say they NEVER would engage in P4P. It was as if it was a smear on their Manhood to pay for Sex directly in $$$. Hell they're paying for it in other ways! LMAO

"it's better to stick to fucking the strippers (even if it's P4P)"

Do you really mean this deep down?

Now I know why this "old Guy" (ME) would think about dating a Stripper! And I have. LMFAO at myself!!!!
bang69
13 years ago
Trust me its not worth daten a stripper. Its better to be FB's
JuiceBox69
13 years ago
Like I said bang juice is a real peace of shit and will burn in hell for it ! If their is one lol ! Gotcha bitches !
jester214
13 years ago
Some of us don't.

The simple answer is: They are often quite sexy and we let misconceptions about the job skew out thought process. I also think in this case "date" is synonymous with "fuck". Or perhaps dating would be the by-product of the fucking instead of the usual fucking a by-product of dating.
Rod8432
13 years ago
I think you hit on a big part of why guys want to date strippers with the statement, "I liked the fact that I had a girl that every guy in the strip club wanted to fuck."

It's a real turn-on to have a hot girlfriend. I've had that and if she's sane, life's a ball. Not only can you hardly keep you hands off of her (which is a "buzz" I like to have), but her presence in your life influences many other aspects. Not the least of which is your status among others seems to go up. When I was dating a hottie, others (guys and girls) seemed to look up to me more.

When we were first dating, we attended a professional function of her peers. When my hot girlfriend stepped away for a moment, one of the senior guys who was wealthy and of high status, came up to me, put his hand on my shoulder, and said, "She's one in a million. You must be a helluva man to catch her attention."

Weird I know, but it was a kick. I also spotted other guys checking her out. So, it's kind of a heady experience; no wonder we want that, and smart, gorgeous, and sexy strippers seem to fit the bill.
JuiceBox69
13 years ago
Rod right the fuck on bro !
Alucard
13 years ago
"one of the senior guys who was wealthy and of high status, came up to me, put his hand on my shoulder, and said, "She's one in a million"

"smart, gorgeous, and sexy strippers seem to fit the bill"

I kind of doubt Rich, High Status Mr Senior Guy would say the same if he KNEW it was a Stripper on your arm. LMFAO

Hey we all have our individual reasons & rationalizations for being with Dancers ITC & OTC. Life is too short & cruel too often! GO for it if it PLEASES you!
shadowcat
13 years ago
Beats the hell out of me. When I was in my 20's & 30's there weren't any strippers. So now that I am 70, I have the choice of dating 50-60 year olds or 20-30 year olds. Though choice. Huh?
Alucard
13 years ago
"So now that I am 70, I have the choice of dating 50-60 year olds or 20-30 year olds. Though choice. Huh?"

NOT a tough choice at all SC! LOL

I'd rather be with a woman who is at a minimum 20 years younger than I! I'm 57 1/2.
stenton1
13 years ago
Just keep your head screwed on straight. These are the best or worst long term temporary relationships you mat ever have. Just know that it WILL end! The problem is that dating a gorgeous woman gets addictive, go we go off to dare yet another set of damaged goods. It's like the classic definition of insanity!
rh48hr
13 years ago
I think Rod hit it one the head. It feels good to have a hot girlfriend. Your friends are jealous, you enjoy being seen with her and the sex is incredible. Trust me, it is a blast. My hot ex-girlfriend was not a stripper, but the principles were still the same on why you want to date them.
GoVikings
13 years ago
" All her stripper friends had boyfriends who were drug dealers or unemployed or working a shitty job."

I've heard this on TUSCL many times before. But why? What's the attraction towards guys like this? Someone please explain.
Alucard
13 years ago
Poor self esteem & a belief that she doesn't deserve better. A belief that a "Normal" man is too fucking BORING! And so on. ???
JuiceBox69
13 years ago
Drac............fuck yes man ! And this is how I get the pussy !
Alucard
13 years ago
We know you"re not "Normal" Juice. LMAO

So that attracts pussy to you, Heh?
jackslash
13 years ago
"Why do us young guys want to date strippers?"

Why do us old guys want to date strippers too?
georgmicrodong
13 years ago
@jackslash: Well in my case, it's because they fuck more readily than civilians, and for the most part, don't want anything more from me than my money.
dallas702
13 years ago
I'm late coming to this thread, it seems no one actually hit on the main point.

Ranukam, strippers are young, hot, overtly sexual, and willing to interact with you. You are young, stupid, horny and getting led around by your dick!

That is very different from us more mature and experienced gentlemen. I am old, stupid, horny and love getting led around by my dick.

With my decades of experience, it only takes me a few weeks - after she lets go of my dick to go out and spend my money - to realize what a crazy loon she is!
JuiceBox69
13 years ago
Drac baby for some damn reason the girls love my fat crazy ass
farmerart
13 years ago
Triumph of hope over experience.
Alucard
13 years ago
"Because you are idiots. If you still want to date strippers in twenty or thirty years then you can start to call yourself an old fool. Same thing but it sounds a little better"

So HE Speaks!
Papi_Chulo
13 years ago
Along the lines of what dallas702 was saying:

"strippers are young, hot, overtly sexual, and willing to interact with you. You are young, stupid, horny and getting led around by your dick! ..."

It is said that men fall in love thru their eyes and women thru their ears.

What guy, young or old, would not react and be affected by a beautiful sexually attractive woman that is "overtly sexual" (sex being the strongest/most-basic of men's drives/instincts) "and willing to interact with you" - it is not in a man's nature to turn down or not take advantage of any and all potential mates, i.e. sexual opportunities.
Clackport
13 years ago
Juice- I feel you man, I used to be like you until I realized how crazy strippers are.
Rod- great points man
GoVikings- Alucard hit it on the head when she said they feel like they don't deserve better.
Shadowcat- I don't blame you, I'm gonna do the same thing when I turn 70.
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