Why do us young guys want to date strippers?
Clackport
I'll put myself in the young guys category, I'm in my early 20's. After reading some discussion threads about dating a stripper, it got me thinking about why we want to date strippers. I used to want to date a stripper, but now I now just stick to fucking strippers.
There was this ATF that I thought was the perfect girl. She was incredibly nice, sweet, beautiful. We were around the same age. She really opened up to me and shared some personal things that she probably wouldn't share with her best friends. We enjoyed a lot of the same things. Of course the dances were unbelievable too. We shared a mutual attraction. At that time, all this stuff made me not care if she was a stripper. I liked the fact that I had a girl that every guy in the strip club wanted to fuck. I wanted to date her, and I ended up dating her. When I started dating her everything changed. She had told me about some of her problems before, but with dating her I found out she had a lot more serious problems. All her stripper friends had boyfriends who were drug dealers or unemployed or working a shitty job. Everything was stressful in our relationship. She was living a double life, so most people she knew had no idea she stripped, and she would lie when they asked what she does for a career. Everything in her life was about money. It became too much for me, and I broke it off. I've dated a couple other strippers that were like this relationship.
I think that when us young guys see a stripper that's our
age and there's mutual attraction, some of us want to date the strippers. From my experiences, it's better to stick to fucking the strippers (even if it's P4P). It's a lot less drama.
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There was this ATF that I thought was the perfect girl. She was incredibly nice, sweet, beautiful. We were around the same age. She really opened up to me and shared some personal things that she probably wouldn't share with her best friends. We enjoyed a lot of the same things. Of course the dances were unbelievable too. We shared a mutual attraction. At that time, all this stuff made me not care if she was a stripper. I liked the fact that I had a girl that every guy in the strip club wanted to fuck. I wanted to date her, and I ended up dating her. When I started dating her everything changed. She had told me about some of her problems before, but with dating her I found out she had a lot more serious problems. All her stripper friends had boyfriends who were drug dealers or unemployed or working a shitty job. Everything was stressful in our relationship. She was living a double life, so most people she knew had no idea she stripped, and she would lie when they asked what she does for a career. Everything in her life was about money. It became too much for me, and I broke it off. I've dated a couple other strippers that were like this relationship.
I think that when us young guys see a stripper that's our
age and there's mutual attraction, some of us want to date the strippers. From my experiences, it's better to stick to fucking the strippers (even if it's P4P). It's a lot less drama.
I think us
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last commentNOT having a "young man's" mind, body & lack of Life experience any longer - I can't say why a young 20's something guy would want to date a Dancer. Many times I've heard the guys say they NEVER would engage in P4P. It was as if it was a smear on their Manhood to pay for Sex directly in $$$. Hell they're paying for it in other ways! LMAO
"it's better to stick to fucking the strippers (even if it's P4P)"
Do you really mean this deep down?
Now I know why this "old Guy" (ME) would think about dating a Stripper! And I have. LMFAO at myself!!!!
The simple answer is: They are often quite sexy and we let misconceptions about the job skew out thought process. I also think in this case "date" is synonymous with "fuck". Or perhaps dating would be the by-product of the fucking instead of the usual fucking a by-product of dating.
It's a real turn-on to have a hot girlfriend. I've had that and if she's sane, life's a ball. Not only can you hardly keep you hands off of her (which is a "buzz" I like to have), but her presence in your life influences many other aspects. Not the least of which is your status among others seems to go up. When I was dating a hottie, others (guys and girls) seemed to look up to me more.
When we were first dating, we attended a professional function of her peers. When my hot girlfriend stepped away for a moment, one of the senior guys who was wealthy and of high status, came up to me, put his hand on my shoulder, and said, "She's one in a million. You must be a helluva man to catch her attention."
Weird I know, but it was a kick. I also spotted other guys checking her out. So, it's kind of a heady experience; no wonder we want that, and smart, gorgeous, and sexy strippers seem to fit the bill.
"smart, gorgeous, and sexy strippers seem to fit the bill"
I kind of doubt Rich, High Status Mr Senior Guy would say the same if he KNEW it was a Stripper on your arm. LMFAO
Hey we all have our individual reasons & rationalizations for being with Dancers ITC & OTC. Life is too short & cruel too often! GO for it if it PLEASES you!
NOT a tough choice at all SC! LOL
I'd rather be with a woman who is at a minimum 20 years younger than I! I'm 57 1/2.
I've heard this on TUSCL many times before. But why? What's the attraction towards guys like this? Someone please explain.
So that attracts pussy to you, Heh?
Why do us old guys want to date strippers too?
Ranukam, strippers are young, hot, overtly sexual, and willing to interact with you. You are young, stupid, horny and getting led around by your dick!
That is very different from us more mature and experienced gentlemen. I am old, stupid, horny and love getting led around by my dick.
With my decades of experience, it only takes me a few weeks - after she lets go of my dick to go out and spend my money - to realize what a crazy loon she is!
So HE Speaks!
"strippers are young, hot, overtly sexual, and willing to interact with you. You are young, stupid, horny and getting led around by your dick! ..."
It is said that men fall in love thru their eyes and women thru their ears.
What guy, young or old, would not react and be affected by a beautiful sexually attractive woman that is "overtly sexual" (sex being the strongest/most-basic of men's drives/instincts) "and willing to interact with you" - it is not in a man's nature to turn down or not take advantage of any and all potential mates, i.e. sexual opportunities.
Rod- great points man
GoVikings- Alucard hit it on the head when she said they feel like they don't deserve better.
Shadowcat- I don't blame you, I'm gonna do the same thing when I turn 70.