A stripper dating service? (A serious one.)
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So my ever enterprising "M" is thinking about starting a dating service.
This is not for guys who just want to bang hot strippers; but guys interested in long term relationships and marriage, and would be tolerant of their partner's career choice, plus other skeletons in the closet (past substance abuse, sex for money, drama, mental illness).
It's guaranteed that the women would be beautiful, put-together and classy looking, intelligent, and somewhat sophisticated. You could take them anywhere. Some would be well educated and/or have other careers. Most would be open and liberated about sex - after a relationship is established.
Maybe your dream girlfriend, or even wife.
How much would you pay?
$1000-5000 upfront, plus a few hundred a month? It would be pretty exclusive. Basically, M would round up about 20 women, and screen about 20 guys, do some matchmaking, and throw a cocktail party. Both women and men would report back. M would do further matchmaking as necessary. She figures she could round up another 20 women every 3 months.
The women would probably not put out until a real romantic relationship is established. None of these women are hard up for money, or sex.
Men would have to be stable, desirable, and marriage or LTR minded.
Any interest?
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I have been on match.com and others - the strippers are always easy to see because they dress up their ad like a stripper would (including pictures.) My reaction has always been, "self-employed alright!" and clicking "Next."
A guy looking for a LTR is going to be in his 30s+ and way past tolerating having some crew of dudes pawing at his wife. A guy in his 20s is looking for one thing, a guy in his 30s+ - for the most part, a very different attitude.
It might start out OK, but then there will be one who starts charging for dates - BAM. You're a pimp and gonna get busted. You have to be prepared to throw people out and contracts stating exactly what is OK and not.
They can easily go on Match.com, OkCupid.com, etc. for all the free dating sites. And even the online pay sites are reasonable (E-harmony does like $130 for 3 months, $200 for 6 months).
One of my past friends who hooked up with a different girl every week offered to give me the numbers of a couple of dancers. I declined right away. I once promised myself not to ever go out with any more dancers. I thought they had more drama and were more hassle. After several years, one dancer I met made me forget. I don't know. Maybe some rich guys would be interested. I think the 1000 bucks seems crazy for a long term relationship just to meet up.
In my humble opinion good quality men usually don't have any trouble finding relationships they are unhappy with. For women it can be a different story.
Additionally men like this (in a lot of cases) are NOT going to be okay with skeletons in the closet and career choices. Some might, but most aren't.
It's my "ridiculously-hot-and-expensive-steady-stripper-girlfriend-that-my-wife-doesn't-know-about" relationship.
And boy - does it cost me.
That leaves me out.
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Does this mean I would have to pay $5k just to take you out for dinner in Seattle?
But must be selective about the women that are picked for this service.
Many dancers have fit bodies and enterprising.
They can easily bring spice in man's life.
There should minimum entry cost. That will keep top women interested.
Perhaps the cost for entry increases (for both parties) based on the income of both parties.
Another check might be savings/assets. Few guys are going to tolerate a spendthrift in a LTR, especially if she makes good money and just pisses it away.
For LTR, the women are the ones who will need to prove themselves.
A specialized service like this certainly wouldn't appeal to me, even with a much lower cost of entry. From the other side, I suppose I can see the appeal, as it would ostensibly weed out the people looking for just another hook up with a hottie. I'm sure dancers meet a *lot* of date-worthy guys at work, but figuring out who they are amidst all the others, like me, looks like it would be...more time consuming that many would consider worthwhile.
Everyone could get a credit check, not for net worth or income but to screen for sketchiness - ie, have they run up credit cards and been bankrupt more than once?
gmd: it would be about dating a "person" but those persons happen to be strippers. Pricing is open for debate. It could be monthly, with or without an upfront fee, whatever works. There are plenty of guys in their 30s-50s with money to spend for this kind of thing. It does have to be worthwhile for the operator, say a couple of thousand a month for what would be a part-time job for her. And yes, dancers do meet dateable guys at work, but usually draw the line at customers or co-workers (most guys who work in SCs are lowlifes). The girls would gladly pay too.
I've met some of these ladies and except for their job and maybe some past issues - no worse than "civilian" women - they're definitely dateable.
Wow - 5 year old post came to the top !
When I first started reading I did not check the date March 2012 - so assumed this was posted today. I liked the idea - and was gonna respond. Then I saw my own response (back in 2012 ! ) - and would have responded the same way.