As a rule, I prefer to look at dancers who are at least two decades younger than my 50 years . . . but there are certain women I wouldn't mind seeing on stage in a SC who are even older than I . . . for example, Julianne Moore (51) <img alt="" src="//upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/t…" width="220" height="330">
As much as I usually lust after the 18-21yo set, lately I am finding myself curiously attracted to women in their early to mid 30's. I've decide not to try and analyze this....I'll just accept it and see where it takes me ;)
I remain a superficial horndog enjoying the eye candy of the youngsters in SCs, but my current enchantment is a 42 year old bombshell from a club in the Toronto area.
I'm in my mid twenties. The older dancers I see very rarely interest me. I almost always go for the one's that are my age or younger. Why? They're hotter. That simple.
My biggest faves right now, are all at least 30. I have two that are 41 and even 45, and they both look great! (The latter two are among my profile pics.)
Motor - I'm with you on Mariska Hargitay -- I will watch SVU just for her. I am also a big Angie Harmon fan. She turns 40 this year. I LOVE her voice, it is very sexy to me.
I think I've always gone for at least one dancer older than me. It was easier when I was younger, of course, but my second OTC experience was a woman who was at least 40 at the time and I was still in my 20's then. Even now, I am 39 and I still like some older dancers. I know my second favorite dancer at my favorite club is at least 45.
I freely admit that that I'm a shallow bastard who prefers the younger girls, but anybody who eschews older women *just* because they're older is just bat shit crazy. :)
The reason older dancers look "expired" is because they compete with the 18 - 25 group. If ALL the girls in the club were in their 30's and 40's we wouldn't notice the age gap.
I agree with Che that dancers should have an "expiration" date. But only because dancers are like pro athletes. You wake up one day and you just cant throw, catch, jump, run, or shoot as good as you once did. You are replaced on the team by a 20 something.
That being said, the BEST sex I ever had in my entire life was in the VIP with a 35 year-old dancer. I was 10 years her senior, but we went at it like we were both 17
Ill be honest and say I've worked at a couple clubs where I couldn't compete with dancers in their late 30's and 40's. Those girls really thought they were great and they were. Some still are as they are still dancing. There aren't as many strip club goers( in my opinion) that believe in an expiration date as one might think. If anything I had a hard time getting dances compared to the girls in their late 30's and 40's. It wasn't until I worked at a chain like Deja Vu ,where I was considered the older girl, did I really start having an abnormally easy time making money
I whole-heartedly believe that a woman/Dancer in her early 30s & mid 30s to mid 40s is at the "sweet spot" for attracting me. My experience is that these women/Dancers have matured emotionally & physically. IMO they tend to be more sure of themselves & more comfortable with their Sexuality & bodies. And IMO I think their "Worldly" experience & knowledge & intelligence allows them to deal with the spectrum of Male Sexuality & male Ego & Male age (Young to Older) in a variety of settings.
Just my opinion. There are those who believe that the 18 to mid 20 somethings possess those qualities I detailed about. It could well be. I JUST haven't found that to be true in my experience.
@Che: I'm gonna have to disagree. Some of the most relaxing times I've had in clubs is when one of the older dancers wants to just sit and talk. It's just comfortable. Note that I didn't say "most enjoyable", just most relaxing.
Yeah, if I'm playing the creepy old pervert that night, I'm going after the younger ones, but at the same time, if an older woman has it going on, I'm probably not gonna say no outright.
@Che: I don't hang in regular clubs because I don't want what most of those women seem to want. I'm not looking for that type of relationship. Don't get me wrong, I *am* at a strip club to see young, hot women get as close to naked as they are permitted, and to take whatever liberties with then that I can get away with. I'm just not prepared to automatically categorize an older women as "too old" to be in the club. As you point out, there's something for everyone, and if it ain't what you're looking for, nobody (well, nobody who counts) is going to gainsay that choice.
I'm with gmd. I'm not prepared to categorize an older woman as "too old " to be in the club either. If she's making a living , then so be it. Its not my place to judge, especially since many of the older girls, as I've said in my earlier post, can do circles around me. Not all the time,lol I have some pride, but I've met a few.
Its really not anyone's place to tell a 40 year old she can't dance. If she's been hired, is doing her job, and making ends meet, there is no shame.
I am an equal opportunity clubber. Age is not important to me. How attractive they are to me is all that matters. A favorite of mine is 41 and doesn't look it. Very hot, very sexy.
I like em all. I know I'm showing my age, but I'd like to see Raquel Welch, naked again. She was just on TV last Monday night and is still looking mighty fine.
To me, past 22, age is irrelevant....I'll take it on an "individual" case by case basis without prejudice....but, given that I have champagne taste, the women I'm attracted to are like fine wine - they get better with age....
"I like em all. I know I'm showing my age, but I'd like to see Raquel Welch, naked again"
Gee, where did you see Raquel Welch in her Naked glory Vince?
When I think of Raquel, I often think of the scene in "Fantastic Voyage", from 46 years ago, (This shows MY age) where the men are pawing at her Tits - under a wet suit - trying to get the rubber antibodies off her.
"the women I'm attracted to are like fine wine - they get better with age...."
Lots of fine women from our past, but I was never a big "fan" of Raquel. Not to say she wasn't many a man's fantasy, but just not mine. For me, give me Sophia anytime!
In my favorite club the top earner is 41. Although she looks good for her age, one can't hide the look of a forty year old when there are dancers half her age.
So how is she making the most money? She out works and out hustles (in a good way) the young girls who would rather party and think that all it takes is looks without any regard to attitude or customer service.
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My last 2 ATFs were both in the 37 to 40 age range. Both were great. My newest ATF is a bit younger by 10 years at 28 yrs old.
I can't convince her to move out West.
My most recent ex-ATF (Age 37) was about as HOT as I've seen!
I prefer the 30 year old version to the 20 year old. Just the right amount of aging helps Scotch, fine cheeses, and women
I generally prefer dancers who are less than half my age. Luckily, every year there seem to be more of them.
I heard this on the news this week. Well, duh? Couldn't all supermodels be described that way....and for that matter, couldn't all strippers...
Wait, let's not go there.
What is age appropriate may I ask?
I agree with Che that dancers should have an "expiration" date. But only because dancers are like pro athletes. You wake up one day and you just cant throw, catch, jump, run, or shoot as good as you once did. You are replaced on the team by a 20 something.
That being said, the BEST sex I ever had in my entire life was in the VIP with a 35 year-old dancer. I was 10 years her senior, but we went at it like we were both 17
I whole-heartedly believe that a woman/Dancer in her early 30s & mid 30s to mid 40s is at the "sweet spot" for attracting me. My experience is that these women/Dancers have matured emotionally & physically. IMO they tend to be more sure of themselves & more comfortable with their Sexuality & bodies. And IMO I think their "Worldly" experience & knowledge & intelligence allows them to deal with the spectrum of Male Sexuality & male Ego & Male age (Young to Older) in a variety of settings.
Just my opinion. There are those who believe that the 18 to mid 20 somethings possess those qualities I detailed about. It could well be. I JUST haven't found that to be true in my experience.
Yeah, if I'm playing the creepy old pervert that night, I'm going after the younger ones, but at the same time, if an older woman has it going on, I'm probably not gonna say no outright.
We're just getting fucking OLDER gatorfan. Time stands still for NO one! LMAO
Its really not anyone's place to tell a 40 year old she can't dance. If she's been hired, is doing her job, and making ends meet, there is no shame.
Gee, where did you see Raquel Welch in her Naked glory Vince?
When I think of Raquel, I often think of the scene in "Fantastic Voyage", from 46 years ago, (This shows MY age) where the men are pawing at her Tits - under a wet suit - trying to get the rubber antibodies off her.
"the women I'm attracted to are like fine wine - they get better with age...."
Likewise!!
Lots of fine women from our past, but I was never a big "fan" of Raquel. Not to say she wasn't many a man's fantasy, but just not mine. For me, give me Sophia anytime!
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/art…
This lady is SEVENTY SIX!
NICE legs indeed!
So how is she making the most money? She out works and out hustles (in a good way) the young girls who would rather party and think that all it takes is looks without any regard to attitude or customer service.
This is 1 of the reasons I generally prefer Dancers 30 years old to mid 40s.