Do You Stare ?
Papi_Chulo
Okay. This is not strictly a SC topic but I think is semi-related.
Background:
I live in Miami, FL where the year-round temperature is 80 deg. or greater (sorry to those in the north!).
Besides the warm weather, Miami is melting pot with many people from the Caribbean and South America. This means a lot of hot Hispanic women – and one thing about Hispanic women (since I am Hispanic myself) is that they LOVE to attract attention and show off their looks.
This means that if you just go grocery shopping – you will see women wearing high heels, tight-ass jeans, low cut blouses showing a lot of cleavage, etc.
I love women (yeah I know that's kind of rare!) and I LOVE to look at them. But often I feel uncomfortable looking (actually staring) at these women that dress very provocatively in many of the public places (not to mention the malls on weekends). I love to look at them as if I am going to eat them, but feel like a bit of a creep (or creepy) doing it – but hell, why do you dress like that in a public place and the put a face like it bothers you when you are stared at (it's not like I'm peeking thru your window to look at you in your house – you are in a public place)?
Question:
Does anyone else struggle with this?
Do you take a position; i.e. hell yeah I stare, WTF! Or no I don't?
Or, it's not much of an issue for me.
Thanks.
Background:
I live in Miami, FL where the year-round temperature is 80 deg. or greater (sorry to those in the north!).
Besides the warm weather, Miami is melting pot with many people from the Caribbean and South America. This means a lot of hot Hispanic women – and one thing about Hispanic women (since I am Hispanic myself) is that they LOVE to attract attention and show off their looks.
This means that if you just go grocery shopping – you will see women wearing high heels, tight-ass jeans, low cut blouses showing a lot of cleavage, etc.
I love women (yeah I know that's kind of rare!) and I LOVE to look at them. But often I feel uncomfortable looking (actually staring) at these women that dress very provocatively in many of the public places (not to mention the malls on weekends). I love to look at them as if I am going to eat them, but feel like a bit of a creep (or creepy) doing it – but hell, why do you dress like that in a public place and the put a face like it bothers you when you are stared at (it's not like I'm peeking thru your window to look at you in your house – you are in a public place)?
Question:
Does anyone else struggle with this?
Do you take a position; i.e. hell yeah I stare, WTF! Or no I don't?
Or, it's not much of an issue for me.
Thanks.
Comments
last commentThanks for the health tip! Now I know why my eyesight has deteriorated so much over the last couple of years!
I agree, I think it's semi-related. Before I started clubbing, if a hottie caught me staring I would look away sheepishly.
Now when it happens I just meet her eyes and give her my best strip club smile. It's surprising how almost all smile right back, as if they're pleased you checked them out.
First, I LOVE Hispanic women, they're my favorite. They're also the one's I seek out at the club, but sadly I don't find many because the Hispanic population isn't very high in Virginia from what I can tell.
Second, I do stare- not purposely, but sometimes I just can't help it.
papi, being from the Northeast sucks...I'm moving to Miami, and who needs an SC.....just going to the grocery store every day is all I need...
In Houston we have a very large Latino population. I can't tell you the number of Latinas, and especially Mexican girls, that catch my eye all the time.
Unfortunately, the climate here is a little colder than Florida, but damn when it's hot you can't look hard or fast enough to keep up with the beautiful Latina tits and ass available for your eye candy.
I practice the 3 second rule. I look for 3 seconds then either speak or go on to the next girl. This works best for me.
I stare all the time. What mrs m00tpoint says is right on point!
I could write a novel on vm's comments, women, and his S. Florida travels. :)
I missed my friend this winter. :(
Gold Rush, My Favorite Club
April 27, 2004
I am giving this place an average mark because I don't think it could be as bad as it was, on a regular basis. Granted I was there early afternoon, but the girl at the door said they were open. I would expect, if that were the case, someone would be dancing and attending the bar. I sat at the bar a couple of minutes before someone came to serve me a $6 beer. No one danced and none of the 4 or 5 dancers bothered to leave their conversations with each other to see if I was interested. I drank the beer and left.
http://cnn.com/video/?/video/w…
Get to the Seinfeld clip and you'll see Jerry agrees with the 3 second rule.
You may have just stumbled on to something. maybe they do "stare". You know how a blind man "sees".
It's some sort of standard response and is very interesting to watch.
(If they stare back try starting a conversation - like, "Excuse me but I couldn't help noticing the scarf you have on (the belt - the shoes, whatever) It's beautiful. Would you mind telling me where you found it?" And if that leads to a conversation make sure you buy a lottery ticket that same day.
http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/ab…
Not the same for him as if you or I got caught. :)