Have you guys ever arranged OTC with a dancer only to find out about her bringing along a "driver"? This is an obvious red flag things are going to be rushed and possibly dangerous but understandable for first encounters with a dancer OTC due to safety reasons
Never experienced it But I know from another dancer of a certain girl who brings along a driver and says it's "her brother" when in fact it's her pimp/boyfriend.
I don't do OTC with any dancer until I feel that I know her fairly well, and we have developed something that resembles a trust level. I would not agree to a "driver" as a condition of our tryst, and If she showed up with a "driver", I would refuse to continue with the planned outing unless the driver was another hot dancer who was "just along for the ride" and didn't want any money.
I remember a dancer friend of mine wanted to go to the beach. She brought along a female friend she didn't say anything about before. I didn't complain because we were just going and didn't discuss what we were going to do after we got to the beach. Maybe we did. We partied in the clubs, turned out to be partying in the non strip clubs. Dancer I was with suddenly thought about making an agreement when we got close to the beach. I drove. She said, ok, we'll all agree to stick together and no one run off and skip out, agreed? I said ok. I had at least 2 girls on me and sometimes more in one club.
I did once. I had done OTC with her 3 times previously so I trusted her. The driver was her best and they were car pooling it. I fixed us drinks and after a short while the friend asked do you want me to go wait in the car? My dancer said no I want you to join us. Then she whispered in my ear that this was not gonna be an extra charge. She would split my tab with her friend. That has been my only 3 some OTC.
As I've said in the past, I've done some OTC. There was no sex going on but I've met customers outside, even to watch golf on TV. Most of the time I'll bring a driver. I set the amount of time with the customer. I tell the driver what time ill be back to the car. He waits fifteen minutes after the time is up to hear from me. If I don't respond, he comes to get me
I've never had a dancer actually tell me she was bringing a driver. I've had a few who had to had a friend drop them off at my house, but there was no time limit situation. I did have one dancer tell me once that she had notified someone exactly where she would be with me, and if that person didn't hear from her by a specified time that they were to come and get her. However, she gladly told me when it was time to text that person, and she showed me the text before sending it, indicating that she was very comfortable where she was and their was no need for concern about her safety. I'm usually comfortable enough with my OTC girls and vice versa, that they don't feel the need for a body guard.
Her bringing a driver doesn't bother me in the least, as long as he waits in the car park and doesn't come into the room and read a book etc while I am on the job. She's got to think of her security as much as I do. I respect that.
@alucard- many times drivers do equal danger. In my case, the person who comes with me is just as financially motivated as me. If he screws up, I lose customers. Pretty soon I'll have no more customers and I won't need him and he doesn't make money.
Ha. I've been that 'driver'. Usually escorting a girl to a bachelor party in which case its pretty much expected.
But I have driven and escorted a few dancers going about OTC stuff. They were extremely professional about it, no drugged out lunatics (OK, maybe one) and they informed any new guys that they would be accompanied by me until the rapport had been established and I was no longer necessary.
On the other side of the coin I know of two confirmed incidences where customers at clubs I worked at got set up and robbed by a dancer who agreed to meet him OTC.
My advice is insist the initial meet is somewhere very public. It makes if difficult to rip you off and should (if she's legit) set the girl's mind at ease. Go from there and happy fornication!
I have never had a girl bring a driver, but I had one girl who used to like to bring another dancer with her. I had 4 instances where this girl brought a friend and two of these instances were awesome as the other girl joined in. The other two times sucked.
There is something very odd about having a dancer sit in the corner of your room while you are banging another dancer. I was drunk enough that it was all just a party to me anyway, but there it is. In both cases, I put my girl doggie style so I could keep an eye on the other one - LMAO.
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But I have driven and escorted a few dancers going about OTC stuff. They were extremely professional about it, no drugged out lunatics (OK, maybe one) and they informed any new guys that they would be accompanied by me until the rapport had been established and I was no longer necessary.
On the other side of the coin I know of two confirmed incidences where customers at clubs I worked at got set up and robbed by a dancer who agreed to meet him OTC.
My advice is insist the initial meet is somewhere very public. It makes if difficult to rip you off and should (if she's legit) set the girl's mind at ease. Go from there and happy fornication!
There is something very odd about having a dancer sit in the corner of your room while you are banging another dancer. I was drunk enough that it was all just a party to me anyway, but there it is. In both cases, I put my girl doggie style so I could keep an eye on the other one - LMAO.