I started visiting a club I hadn't frequented in 10 years. My first visit back wasn't very good, with the exception of one dancer (#2) I met on the way out. I got on here and posted a decent review ~7. I went back to the club a week later for 20 minutes looking for dancer #2. Just then dancer #1 that I spoke of negatively in the review, sits down next to me and just starts chewing me out for 10 minutes straight!
I guess I set myself up for it by coming back. Has this ever happened to you?
No. I do my best to conceal my participation here, including separating my visit and review post by a week or two. That and the low dancer participation level here has saved me from being "outed".
@GMD: I did skip a week, but my review must have been too detailed. I found out one of the male employees is a TUSCL member. He brought it to her attention.
@kingcripple: Well both visits were during the slow time, in the early evening on Tuesday nights. I definitely don't go around calling myself "HonestT", when I'm not on this board. lol But I did use her name to help other SC mongers. Maybe I should have left that out.
I review maybe 1 out of 10 times I visit, so sometimes I just compile info from a few visits into one review (no point in continually writing needless reviews every time I visit). Having details from different trips in one review probably helps.
You guys may be right about being too negative, and compiling reviews.
Funny thing is, the club corrected 3 out of 4 of my complaints! So the guy/employee/member must be able to take criticism that the dancer could not. Which would be no surprise.
Nice job, HonestT. You were able to use TUSCL as a medium to get positive changes at your club. I've rarely known anyone in the clubs I use that ever reads TUSCL or even SCL.
There are dancers at both of my favorite clubs that know that I am shadowcat and that I write reviews on here. It does not bother them because they trust me to not use there names and they are curious. Now I do occassionally bust a stripper for being a ROB, etc. She gets my "bitch of the month" award. Do I care? Hell no. They deserved it. There isn't much they can do about it. Scream, rant, etc. In one ear and out the other.
I intentionally do not post on my regular club... athough I guess I can't call it my regular club anymore considering how long it's been since my last visit there (after xATF situation)
Of all the dancers I know right now, only one knows that I'm a TUSCL member. I'd like to keep it that way. Occasionally, I'll mention to a dancer that I read something on line about a strip club. When I say that, I'm rarely asked which web site. Another strip club web site is better known here in Seattle (among dancers anyway), than TUSCL. Any negative reviews I post, tend to be of clubs where I don't have faves, and I'm experimenting with those clubs to see if they have improved any since my last visit.
There is one dancer who probably knows that I'm a member on here and her friend might know too, but it's unlikely. Other than that, my reviews are generic enough that it's highly unlikely that anyone will be able to figure out who I am, even the dancers who know my real name and have my cell phone number.
Like shadow cat. I know some strippers that come on here. They know who I am. Also they know I give a fair review onthe club,the dances. They look at my reviews as a way of makeing things better. For the club & them selfs.
@Gatorfan: You are funny. I was waiting for you to post a line like that!
@thesamurai: Yes, I did. I enjoy a good debate. In fact I bought her a drink because unwanted to hear what offended her and offer constructive criticism. But that was a waste of $5 and 10 minutes, as she could not take any criticism whatsoever. She just kept repeating her two sentence rant.
@3LeggedMan: I am surprised as you! lol. But seriously, they really did respond to some of my complaints.
Never in person, and never on TUSCL. However, both times I've posted a negative review on 'ECCIE,' which is an escort review forum, the escort sent me a PM asking why I posted it, etc.
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Funny thing is, the club corrected 3 out of 4 of my complaints! So the guy/employee/member must be able to take criticism that the dancer could not. Which would be no surprise.
@Gatorfan: You are funny. I was waiting for you to post a line like that!
@thesamurai: Yes, I did. I enjoy a good debate. In fact I bought her a drink because unwanted to hear what offended her and offer constructive criticism. But that was a waste of $5 and 10 minutes, as she could not take any criticism whatsoever. She just kept repeating her two sentence rant.
@3LeggedMan: I am surprised as you! lol. But seriously, they really did respond to some of my complaints.