Some of y'all who do regular OTC stuff will probably laugh at me for naivite, but this is a real question.
There's a dancer at a local club who has quickly become a favorite-- maybe even one of my ATFs. Last time, after spending some quality VIP time with her, she asked as i was leaving, "Would you like my phone number?"
I wasn't really expecting this and said something kind of stupid like "Wow, thanks. I'd love that.... but I'm not sure that's a good idea." I'm now kicking myself for acting like a stupid schoolboy, but that's just how it was.
Anyway, I'm now wondering, what significance I should ascribe to her askign this?
No, I'm not stupid enough to believe she's asking for a real date in a romatic way-- I know that. But,, I'm just trying to figure out: Is it her way of saying, "Hey, I'm available for OTC stuff, if you want?" Or is it just her saying, "Hey, I might change clubs soon. Call me if you want to stay in touch and follow me, or to make sure of my schedule?" Or something else?
Or I am I just overthinking this?
This


10% chance that she is giving you the number for an OTC hookup, and NOTHING ELSE.
90% chance that it's a ploy of "Hey, I'm giving him my number so that he'll come into the club more often, but tomorrow morning, it will be hard for me to remember him."