Being Offered Her Phone#? What does it mean?
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Some of y'all who do regular OTC stuff will probably laugh at me for naivite, but this is a real question.
There's a dancer at a local club who has quickly become a favorite-- maybe even one of my ATFs. Last time, after spending some quality VIP time with her, she asked as i was leaving, "Would you like my phone number?"
I wasn't really expecting this and said something kind of stupid like "Wow, thanks. I'd love that.... but I'm not sure that's a good idea." I'm now kicking myself for acting like a stupid schoolboy, but that's just how it was.
Anyway, I'm now wondering, what significance I should ascribe to her askign this?
No, I'm not stupid enough to believe she's asking for a real date in a romatic way-- I know that. But,, I'm just trying to figure out: Is it her way of saying, "Hey, I'm available for OTC stuff, if you want?" Or is it just her saying, "Hey, I might change clubs soon. Call me if you want to stay in touch and follow me, or to make sure of my schedule?" Or something else?
Or I am I just overthinking this?
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There's a dancer at a local club who has quickly become a favorite-- maybe even one of my ATFs. Last time, after spending some quality VIP time with her, she asked as i was leaving, "Would you like my phone number?"
I wasn't really expecting this and said something kind of stupid like "Wow, thanks. I'd love that.... but I'm not sure that's a good idea." I'm now kicking myself for acting like a stupid schoolboy, but that's just how it was.
Anyway, I'm now wondering, what significance I should ascribe to her askign this?
No, I'm not stupid enough to believe she's asking for a real date in a romatic way-- I know that. But,, I'm just trying to figure out: Is it her way of saying, "Hey, I'm available for OTC stuff, if you want?" Or is it just her saying, "Hey, I might change clubs soon. Call me if you want to stay in touch and follow me, or to make sure of my schedule?" Or something else?
Or I am I just overthinking this?
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last comment90% chance that it's a ploy of "Hey, I'm giving him my number so that he'll come into the club more often, but tomorrow morning, it will be hard for me to remember him."
It means jack shit.
I bet your girl had a good laugh over that.
As to what it means, I agree with the consensus - she sees you as a nice, fun, non-creepy guy she would like to keep as a "regular" customer, most likely ITC. It may mean she's available for OTC, or it could lead there later. Either way you'll need her number. So next time you see her, apologize for being a dumb-ass and exchange digits.
Strictly speaking, "there can only be one" ATF.
Your ATF should be the stripper equivalent of the WWE's Bret "The Hitman" Hart: The Best There Is, The Best There Was, The Best There Ever Will Be.
Cynics! lol
However, if you're going to get into the habit of giving out your number to strippers, don't give them your real one. Get yourself a throw away google mail account, and st up Google Voice on it. Give them that number. I wrote an article on that a while back; you should be able to get to it from my profile.
Bottom line, what it means is what you make of it.
Being a drug dealer priceless
Having a supply of what she wants, guarantee's....Love and devotion
LOL. I'm not saying she wanted a date, but why just take yourself out of the game like that. You could talk to her and see where her head is at before you decide if she's trying to play you or not.
9 times out of 10 they'll try to play you, but shit happens. I've had girls who fucked me for free and never mentioned me coming to the club or anywhere else to spend money on them. Maybe they were trying to play me by trying to get me hooked on them with sex, but if so, it didn't work. And 2 of them I still hook up with every now and then for no money. So it can happen.
Anyway, when she offered the number, you could've just asked "why?".
It is in Portland, OR. Why does that matter?
Crap.. I'm doomed.