A thank you and request for advice
Tuesday, October 4, 2011 2:25 PM
First off, I would like to thank the members here for there many post re OTC. I have been lurking for about 2 months now, and have read all the accumulated wisdom on the subject here. This has resulted in two successful OTC experiences with the same dancer. It took about 10 LDs and 2 CR (close to $800) total) until she agreed to meet OTC. I am sure I overspent, but it was my first time. Now we have a pretty decent relationship/understanding going.
I am a just shy of middle age, late 30s. Now I am ready to move on, except this one according to what I read here may be quite the challenge. She is a 20 y/o college student who "is going to quit in december" We will call her Stacy. Stacy already has a sugar daddy, a "well connected" gentleman who between shopping and just spending time ITC (no ld or cr) spends thousands on her. Stacy does not offer this guy full service I have confirmed this with other dancers in the club. This guy will give stacy $800 to sit with him for 3 hours.
So one night, club is sort of busy, I get a LD from her. Incredible. No extras, but honestly don't care. Get another LD, then let her know to stop by later. Well the club gets really slow, and she ends up spending about 3 hours with me, (no tips) talking about everything from movies to her dog. When she goes on stage, (once again blown away) I tip very generously. The college guys with the baseball caps on are not tipping at all. (how one sits at the stage and doesn't tip is beyond me) so I look pretty good to the other dancers who keep pestering me for dances. I tell them I am waiting for Stacy, and they leave me alone.
So after Stacy gets off the stage we do 4 more LDs. During these lds she tells me a story about a guy who just said, "if I give you $50 I expect a BJ" (this is not that type of club) I really started laughing, it was just the way she said it cracked me up. I sit with her for another 1/2 hour after, but have to leave. She takes my cell phone number, and gives me hers. I immediately text her, and yeah it her number. She gives me a hug and I leave.
So of course I do the PL thing and text her the next day asking if she is working that night. She says yes, but she is spending about 3 hours with her sugar daddy. I show up around 12 mid, and there she is waiting for me. So we sit at the bar talking about a 1/2 hour. We talk about how much money she has received from this SD, which dancers are on heroin, her dog, her mom, etc. So I look at the clock and notice the club is closing in 30min. I ask her for a dance, end up doing 5. These LDs are nude, and did not involve extras beyond me touching boobs, but were some of the best LDS of my life. I was wearing my traditional "pajama like pants" she was straddling me, and I could feel her "private area" sliding up and down my private area, only 2mm of cloth separating us. Best strip tease ever. So during all this I explain I am not as wealthy as her SD, and made many jokes about the cheap things we could do together. She was spilling SS, but at one point I said. "seriously, how do I get to see you more?" to which she replied, " well your doing a good job so far"
LD over, we walk out of the club together. She says, "your going now?" and gives me a hug and a full kiss on the lips. I text a thank you, and she texts back "lol your awesome, had a fun time"
Listen, I am not naive, I know there is SS involved here. I do not want to make this girl my girlfriend. I just want OTC. Asking directly will not work with this one, and I do not have the $$$$ to compete with her SD. I feel I need to build up a trust between us, but I cannot spend thousands to do it.
Any advice appreciated....
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