So now I'm "pleasant"?

Must be the negative effect of the recent biker influx?

Was called a gentleman the other night.  Is that better or worse?

lol - next will be "sweet" followed by, "you're like my big brother" ;)

Hey, would you prefer that she say:
"You're quite an ornery cuss, aren't you?"  

About fifteen years ago, I was in a N.O. club and hit it off with one dancer. She didn't have a purse, but she actually trusted me to carry around her mounting wad of cash-until I got tired and decided to bail at 3 a.m. Nothing says PL like carrying around her money.

I also get the dreaded "nice guy" comment all the time

Her:  You're such a nice guy.
Me:  Ah, you know I'm married, sneaking out behind my wife's back, and spending my kids college money, right?
Her:  You're so funny, too.

Well, next time you get the nice guy thing, tell the dancer you want a reward for so being of 33% more groping...

Next time come back with "I bet you say that to all the guys".  If fact, she probably does.

MG: I almost would rather they say something like that.  At least they'd be honest about it.  And closer to correct than not, frankly.

Would you rather have had her call you an ASSHOLE? I've always gotten MUCH better results by treating Dancers with respect & politeness. Acting like a FUCKING ASSHOLE just doesn't work IMHO!

I like hearing the comment "You have a big dick" Most of the time I know it has to be SS, but still, it's a nice thing to hear.

I prefer to go to the SC when there are enough other customers that the dancers will generally want to dance and move on.  If I think a dancer might really want to hang with me (and I want to hang with her) I ask her to meet me OTC for dinner or something.  If she says no, means she doesn't really like me.

" If she says no, means she doesn't really like me."

Bullshit. Dancers can like you just fine without being prostitutes.

My atf calls me sweetie, the best, baby, hunny,Mikey, theres a lot of naughtiness between us, but she brings out the nice guy in me. She even lays down with her head in my lap and asks me to rub her head. Guess shes comfortable with me.