Dancers I've been hanging out with must be running out of stock compliments. The other night, dancer said, "I really enjoy spending time with you. You're so (pause while she seems to struggle for the right word)...pleasant." Pleasant, WTF?<br type="_moz" />
<span style="font-size: larger;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">Hey, would you prefer that she say:<br />
"You're quite an ornery cuss, aren't you?" </span></span> <img src="/editor/images/smiley/msn/wink_smile.gif" alt="" /><br type="_moz" />
About fifteen years ago, I was in a N.O. club and hit it off with one dancer. She didn't have a purse, but she actually trusted me to carry around her mounting wad of cash-until I got tired and decided to bail at 3 a.m. Nothing says PL like carrying around her money.
I also get the dreaded "nice guy" comment all the time<br />
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Her: You're such a nice guy.<br />
Me: Ah, you know I'm married, sneaking out behind my wife's back, and spending my kids college money, right?<br />
Her: You're so funny, too. <br />
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MG: I almost *would* rather they say something like that. At least they'd be honest about it. And closer to correct than not, frankly.<br type="_moz" />
Would you rather have had her call you an ASSHOLE? I've always gotten MUCH better results by treating Dancers with respect & politeness. Acting like a FUCKING ASSHOLE just doesn't work IMHO!
I prefer to go to the SC when there are enough other customers that the dancers will generally want to dance and move on. If I think a dancer might really want to hang with me (and I want to hang with her) I ask her to meet me OTC for dinner or something. If she says no, means she doesn't really like me.<br type="_moz" />
My atf calls me sweetie, the best, baby, hunny,Mikey, theres a lot of naughtiness between us, but she brings out the nice guy in me. She even lays down with her head in my lap and asks me to rub her head. Guess shes comfortable with me.
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"You're quite an ornery cuss, aren't you?" </span></span> <img src="/editor/images/smiley/msn/wink_smile.gif" alt="" /><br type="_moz" />
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Her: You're such a nice guy.<br />
Me: Ah, you know I'm married, sneaking out behind my wife's back, and spending my kids college money, right?<br />
Her: You're so funny, too. <br />
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Bullshit. Dancers can like you just fine without being prostitutes.