Based on 15 years of researching this, I have concluded that strippers would rather fuck than suck dick. Reason: Most Vip rooms are not that private and there are cameras and bird dogs. A head bobbing up and down is a sure sign of a BJ in progress. While discreet fucking can look just like a lap dance.
well i agree that screwing can be more discrete than a bj but i think if all factors are equal they would be more apt to take a dick in their mouth vs in their pussy.
Why is it that strippers/pornstars will fuck or blow a stranger but refuse to kiss? Is making out reserved for the cuck husband/boyfriend? You would think it would be the other way around.
shadowcat, I have had just the opposite experience. Most strippers I know will suck dick, but they are often reluctant to screw. They also charge more for FS than for BJ.
Once I was getting a blow job from a beautiful blonde who I had never had before. Although my natural shyness makes me reluctant to screw in strip clubs, I was suddenly overwhelmed by the desire to fuck this blonde. I asked her how much for full service, and she said $700! I told just to finish the blow job.
BJs have always been more reasonably priced than FS in my experience. And the girls I've dealt with don't see to be that discrete anyway. It seems to me some girls already have arrangements upstream and others don't.
Blow jobs are more reasonably priced than FS. Whether or not it is more affordable for us does not enter into the dancer's preference. That's probably why, as shadowcat noticed, dancers would rather do FS. They make more money that way!!
I've found that a stripper willing to make out with you is always willing to suck your dick or fuck. Also any stripper willing to suck your dick is willing to fuck. I don't think I've met any willing to do FS but not BJ. Some will only do FS but not DFK, but I would say about 75% willing to fuck are down for making out. In general getting all three is pretty much how it goes. If not, I cut my losses, and only see them OTC once.
As for which they prefer, I think strippers, like most girls, like to be fucked better than anything (including receiving DATY).
shadow is right - in some places girls prefer to do discreet FS to BJs. "Full cup" dances and ass back vagina to cock can be made to look like simple - albeit aggressive - full contact lap dances.
In places where nobody cares what happens in back, I would agree that BJs are at least as popular as FS, but even then there are some girls that prefer FS due to (1) the ability to charge more; and (2) the belief of some that the guy gets off quicker.
I think we are confusing a couple of issues here. Performers do not charge less for a BJ than FS because they find one harder or easier than the other. They charge more because they think (correctly) that men will pay more.
I've dealt with several strippers that will suck dick but not fuck ITC. they want to save that for OTC so they can charge more. never paid more than a $100 for BBBJTC but have occcasionaly gone up to $300 for FS (if girl fits all the criteria) no problem getting HJ or BJ in most clubs. the girls seem to expect an offer at the clubs I visit.
Another aspect that comes to mind is that to some dancers, a BJ is more work than FS. Depending on their concepts of safety, they might think of BJs only as BBBJs and consider CFS "safer" to do.
But since they seem to charge more for FS, I'd say that the dancers consider FS to be more work.
sinclair, some girls won't kiss because they want to keep something back for their boyfriends/husbands/girlfriends. This applies to soem escorts as well as strippers. I saw a well known girl that works as an escort in London, she was truly amazing in every respect, superb personality, super-fit body and terrific sex but she just did not kiss.
Shadowcat and Rick are right about girls preferring fucking to BJs, but mainly in those clubs where they have to be careful, in other words, where YMWV...because it's so easy to hide it all under a good lap dance. But where extras are a sure thing, the BJ is always the entry level model and usually offered first. If you want to updrade, you ask for more options and pay more, just like a car.
DejaVu city of industry Thursdays 100 30 minute VIP. I'm not sure for everybody the stripper acts differently but the girls offered BJ's & HJ's. during a lap dance you can touch whatever you want and suck on breast. No kisses. I'm the only one who got to touch V didn't go for A. Different for everybody but they're very willing.
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Once I was getting a blow job from a beautiful blonde who I had never had before. Although my natural shyness makes me reluctant to screw in strip clubs, I was suddenly overwhelmed by the desire to fuck this blonde. I asked her how much for full service, and she said $700! I told just to finish the blow job.
I've found that a stripper willing to make out with you is always willing to suck your dick or fuck. Also any stripper willing to suck your dick is willing to fuck. I don't think I've met any willing to do FS but not BJ. Some will only do FS but not DFK, but I would say about 75% willing to fuck are down for making out. In general getting all three is pretty much how it goes. If not, I cut my losses, and only see them OTC once.
As for which they prefer, I think strippers, like most girls, like to be fucked better than anything (including receiving DATY).
In places where nobody cares what happens in back, I would agree that BJs are at least as popular as FS, but even then there are some girls that prefer FS due to (1) the ability to charge more; and (2) the belief of some that the guy gets off quicker.
But since they seem to charge more for FS, I'd say that the dancers consider FS to be more work.
Lucky them, I'm only interested in BJs!
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