Dancer: "I can't believe you cheated on me"

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• troop

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  14 years ago

  yes but my answer to that is, when i'm your exclusive i will consider you as my exclusive. that will shut them up quick.
• georgmicrodong

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  14 years ago

  "If my *wife* can put up with it, so can you."
• samsung1

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  14 years ago

  hahah nice line gmd
• mmdv26

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  14 years ago

  Where's that "dumbest things dancers say" discussion when you need it.
• gatorfan

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  14 years ago

  Reply: I can't be you fucked 100 customers last week. No I mean it, how is your pussy feeling because my balls still hurt from fucking the other dancer.
• Player11

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  14 years ago

  I have been fed that line from both dancers and escorts. Hilarious, considering all the men they have been with.
• sharkhunter

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  14 years ago

  I remember a dancer that acted pissed off big time accusing me of sleeping with another dancer. I thought that was a ridiculous attitude especially considering how many guys she had probably been with in her past. I never realized sleeping with a dancer would make her think you had something exclusive going on with her. She was probably just pissed that I spent over 30 minutes with another dancer. I never saw it coming and didn't know I was being watched the whole time I was in the club. I set her straight afterwards.
• gatorfan

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  14 years ago

  It's plain stupid. I'm surprised there hasn't been 1 topic about how we can use this economy to exploit the dancers for sex cheaper and better.
• Dudester

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  14 years ago

  That was an issue I had with the onetime ATF that I saw a few nights ago. If I came in on her night off (on purpose),she'd leave her family and run to the club.
• DandyDan

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  14 years ago

  There are a couple ladies at my favorite club like that. For one of them, it's always a joke, but for the other, I think she gets genuinely offended, in part because she believes I am not like most of the other guys (or so she says). I frankly wish she would go away, but I don't see it happening soon.
• gk

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  14 years ago

  Yes, and it makes me laugh. I always tempted to say something like "and don't wait up for me either!" There was one at Bugsys who used to do that. She was a little possessive until I conditioned her.
• glen_livet

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  14 years ago

  I'm reviving this topic because this recently happened to me - a favorite dancer at a favorite club has started getting possessive. She is hot, and we have developed a good rapport over time. She is very fun to hang out with. Lately, however, she has been getting pouty and making catty comments if I get a dance with another girl in the club. She says things like "I can't believe would choose her over me." I usually respond with a joke like "Hon, this wasn't the girlfriend experience I had in mind." I think Carolinalocal hit the nail on the head - it is about control and keeping me as an exclusive source of revenue. (In the back of my mind, I think that if it isn't SS, then she's nuts) I figure I have three options - 1) quit going to that club. 2) tell her to fuck off and pick a new fave 3) become her PL ATM. The thing is, I want to have my cake and eat it too. (Isn't this why we go to SC's in the first place?) I want to continue to have fun with her as well as any other dancer I choose without any drama. I'd like to hear more from those who have had success at this.
• georgmicrodong

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  14 years ago

  pompatus: 4) Tell her you're not exclusive, and have no intention of being so. She can then make the choice of whether or not to keep taking your money when you offer it.
• steve229

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  14 years ago

  Pompatus, Don’t know if this will help you or not, but I recently came to an agreement of sorts with said dancer to give her “first dibs” when I get to the club. Or as she put it, “at least let me dance for you first, so I don’t have to smell the other girls on you.” (Apparently some strippers don’t like sloppy seconds, lol).
• LeeH

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  14 years ago

  I don't have an ATF these days, but the closest thing would be with T. She is about to switch clubs, which we've both known about for a while. She's also the only real reason for me to go to her current club. At least she was. One night, T had to hang with another regular for a long time. I was sitting at the bar, watching a bit of eye candy and nicely blowing off other dancers that hit on me (not out of loyalty to T, but just b/c they didn't interest me). She saw this and excused herself from him for a bit and came over to me. She felt bad b/c I had told her in advance that I was coming to see her, whereas this other guy just showed up. But he's a freakin' ATM and she *was* at work, so I told her that it was OK. But she didn't want me to be alone, and she knew of a dancer that hadn't hit on me, that she (T) was pretty sure I would like. She went and got A and introduced us. And T was right - I instantly liked A. The next time I was with T, I told her that I was a bit pissed at her, because she *had* been the only reason I came to that club before she introduced me to A. She smiled and said with mock sternness, "Now when I go to (the new club), if I find out you're coming down here and cheating on me ..." I told her, "Don't worry. You'll always get the vaaaaaaast majority of ..." and I got no further b/c of the big hug she gave me that was a cross between "thank you" and "I *was* joking -- mostly, anyway."
• steve229

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  14 years ago

  LeeH - That was a nice T&A story.
• rickdugan

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  14 years ago

  This is not uncommon. I just went through quite a drama with a girl that thought I was her regular. She was passing it off as a joke but you can believe that she was trying to do exactly what you suspect.
• LeeH

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  14 years ago

  steve, ROTFL!