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I know a couple of strippers who seem really honest, and don't make up a bunch of stuff, but then again I don't pry into things that could "expose" who they really are, so maybe I just haven't experienced their BS. Both have told me that it's just easier to be real. However both are excellent conversationalists so they could probably deal with anyone who was getting too personal or prying too much.

Are you in a position to give your neighbor's son a little tip on this?

I wonder whether my ATF and my mother ever met sometimes. My mother works at the high school my ATF went to, and she used to be the in-house detention lady, and it wouldn't surprise me if my ATF had encountered her considering what a bad girl she is. lol

I think one of there women I work with (well, her and a thousand other people in the same building) is a stripper I've seen at Trixie's. I could be wrong, but there's a strong facial resemblance, and she has the same dragon tattoo on her arm as the dancer. I so far haven't had the chutzpah to go up and ask her. :) I'm sure she wouldn't appreciate it anyway.

It is sometimes a small world. 8+ years ago I ran into a dancer in the Columbia SC Platinum Plus. She claimed to have gone to the same high school that I went to in Long Beach CA. Then she told me what street she lived on. That blew my mind. It was the same street that I lived on and that street is only 2 blocks long. She knew too much shit to be making it up. However she lived there 30+ years later than I. Talk about an ice breaker. She gave good dances too.

I don't normally deep drill into their personal lives and don't allow them to deep drill into mine. Who cares if she's got the degree or not? Even if I could "quiz her" with a potential mutual acquaintance, what's the point?

Strip clubs are a fantasy. I know several strippers OTC and we hang but don't delve into their personal lives. I just enjoy it for what it is, hanging with a banging girl that wouldn't give me the time of day otherwise.

On a related note had a long time fave that worked in a club in Vegas. She said one time she gave a guy some dances and was chatting with him afterwards as he expressed interest in getting more dances. Long story short it turned out he was a distant cousin from Rhode Island that she'd never met. She was weirded out and parted ways with him.

I did get in a similar situation but the chick was not that hot...so I was not really interested in getting extras from her (she did have a tongue ring though)

gk,

That is what happened with me and my ATF. Just talking and found out we both knew some of the same people. Always interesting when we meet at gatherings outside the club scene.

59, re "deep into a private life"...yes, it's not something that you would expect on a spontaneous basis in a first encounter. But that's where the conversation led and how it evolved naturally, no forced probing or anything like that which would be odd. That's why it was such an unusual first time and why I posted this.

Some dancers I just don't want to know too much about. But I admit that I know some very well. That's part of the hobby, and when that occurs, it's no fantasy.

I guess I put the dancers into two categories; fantasy and personal. Some I keep for fantasy and some I get to know better. It's always mutual feeling type of thing and I'm very selective about it. And even in column two, in general I don't share that much and I don't want to know that much. There are always exceptions.

Seems like about 10% of dancers claim to have a bachelor's degree. I've never met one where I got the impression they were lying about it. In fact, I think there may be a lot who have a degrees but don't say, because some customers think it's creepy or intimidating.

At the Flashdance elevated rail one nite, this dancer slides under the rail into my lap, and we begin a conversation. After a while she felt my bicep and says, wow, big! You work out? I say no, I waterski a lot. She sez she used to down in South County. I sez me too! She sez do you know so and so? I sez I knew her and her parents when she was little. It was the strippers cousin. She got up quickly, and never saw her again in Flashdance W. Palm.

I was introduced to a stripper's family the other day (don't ask) by the same commonly bogus name she's known me by all along. Think the family asked me more questions about myself in the time we were chatting than said stripper has asked over a few years. Fine by me. No sense in making a small world even smaller by oversharing.