Solicitation by a 19-yr-old

4/15/2010 6:36:45 AM

Okay, I'm at this club I've been to a few times before and a dancer I like & had dances with in the past comes 'round to say hello and fish for business.   After turning down her couch dance offer because I wanted to sit for a bit, dancer throws out I can "date her but I'd have to pay her."    I'm taken aback.   She then quickly follows up with "I need money as I'm having trouble paying my bills" and then "I smoke pot" (I guess she was trying to warn me of a negative?)    
 
A little background:  She's good-looking, most guys would probably say an 8 and maybe a few 9s.   I think she's somewhat 'modelesque' in appearance and is pretty tall.   She surprises in the couch dance because she's very agile and as thin/light as she is makes for high mobility/maximum grindage during a lapper.   I asked her for a kiss at the end of our set of dances with her still on my lap, and she reached around to secure my head with her hand before delivering a big smooch right on the lips in a very deliberate fashion.   And she has a full set of lips most gals desire.   Very nice. 
 
Then on a different visit I find out her new dog has been diagnosed with some mysterious ailment which will most likely prove fatal.   Sad, and she's pretty broken up about it.   But from her reaction I get the idea she's younger than I thought she was.   Turns out she's 19!    I had thought she was 23 or 24.   
 
So now back to the offer.    I know she's 19 when she pitches it.   Besides being surprised, I'm beginning to mull over "How the hell would this work???" in my head.   In true stripper fashion, she gets annoyed with my lack of instantaneous response and bolts.   
 
When I think back on it now, I wonder whether I should've said yes and tried one "pay date", just to see what it would be like.   Hopefully it wouldn't have cost me any more than $100/been on par with a strip club visit.   If I ever see her again I guess I should try for the heck of it (as I've never done that before...)

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MisterGuy

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15 years ago

"How the hell would this work?" 
 
You pay her, you fuck her...simple & easy.  Everybody wins!   <img src="/editor/images/smiley/msn/teeth_smile.gif" alt="" />

steve229

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15 years ago

Just put on some Steely Dan while you're on your date: 
 
Hey Nineteen 
That's 'Retha Franklin 
She don't remember the Queen of Soul 
It's hard times befallen 
The sole survivors 
She thinks I'm crazy 
But I'm just growing old 
 
Hey Nineteen 
No we got nothing in common 
No we can't talk at all 
Please take me along 
When you slide on down

Dudester

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15 years ago

I've bedded 4-18 year olds and 1-19 year old. In my considered opinion, teenagers are lousy in bed. 
 
With that said: 
 
"date her but I'd have to pay her."  translation "I want at least four hundred, but it's an escalating scale." 
 
"I smoke pot" translation-I have a court date and I expect you to pay my lawyer (and bondsman) and you better not expect anything in return. You're helping me with a gift. I like and expect gifts." 
 
"I need money as I'm having trouble paying my bills" (see above) 
 
her new dog has been diagnosed with some mysterious ailment which will most likely prove fatal. translation- "I expect for you to give me money and expect nothing in return. You are giving me money so that I'll answer your call for the next pay date." 
 
 
You may not realize this now, but you just saved yourself several thousand bucks, for which you would've had one, maybe two fucks. Also, don't forget what I said about teens in bed. Two lousy fucks for three to four thousand. You ducked a bullet buddy. Go buy a lottery ticket.

rickdugan

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15 years ago

Diddo on the belief that the young ones do suck in bed. 
 
I also agree with Mister, except that you fuck her THEN you pay her (not the other was around).  If/when she asks you to pay for something else, you politely tell her to fuck off.

jabthehut

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15 years ago

I believe her SS was a multiple choice question in that she is giving you a number of reasons she needs money and you can chose the one that you are most comfortable with. 
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CTQWERTY

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15 years ago

I could be wrong, but I don't think sex was on the table.   Hence my willingness to venture only $100.   Besides, would've been odd trying to figure out what we could possibly do on a date given our age difference (my gray hair and her youth.)   Probably would have an interesting story or two to tell if it ever happened.   And I sure would hope she'd leave her drug of choice at home...

rickdugan

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15 years ago

CT, my rather dirty mind assumed that pay date = sex.  I guess I didn't know all of the particulars. 
 
If I am going on a "pay date" then I am getting laid.  Of course these terms need to be worked out clearly up front so that there is no confusion.  Of course, I am not sure that $100 would cover it, but that all gets worked out in the upfront discussions :)

CTQWERTY

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15 years ago

Rick, I know I think most would assume that.   Who knows, maybe she had more fund-raising in mind???   Course that got me to thinking, rather than shelling out money for sex, asking her whether she cleans?   $100 for 5 hours of cleaning help?   I bet I'd get an incredulous look...  

rickdugan

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15 years ago

Lol - you'd probably get a worse reaction than if you asked for sex.

CTQWERTY

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15 years ago

THAT'S an understatement!    She'd probably be like "You want me to clean for 5 hours?!   I'd rather be on my back for 15 minutes of forgettable sex and make 3 times as much (or more).    You're on my "no likey" list buddy!!!"

saltlickkitty

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15 years ago

Every date is a pay date. Even if the girl is someone you pick up at a bar or you meet at elsewhere, you buy dinner, you buy gifts, etc. This is straightforward, you know what you are paying for. What is the big deal. If she is as cute as you say, just do it. Don't hesitate. Who cares.

CTQWERTY

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15 years ago

Salt, I suspect a premium as in cash donation upfront, would've been required in addition to all of the traditional costs (dinner, etc.)  Yes, I guess I should've done it once for the experience, but I was never expecting it in the first place (the offer.)   A little hard to think about being seen in public with a gal so much younger on the spur of the moment.  

Alucard

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15 years ago

19 is too Fucking immature! Give me a nice 30+ stripper for sex any day. She's going to know what she is "doing" in bed.

StormBringer

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15 years ago

Three times within three weeks at two different clubs, I got propositioned by strippers. One offered to "go for coffee" with me for $350, another told me a tale of woe about needing to pay for her car after it was repaired and she needed $350, and the third "needed to pay her rent and didn't have enough" and she needed, you guessed it, $350. 
 
At the time (several years ago), the top escorts in town were getting half that per hour and none of the three dancers who tried hitting me up for money would have been even close to qualifying as the better escorts in town. They were NOT worth $350 for an overnight or even a weekend and I know that if I'd handed over the cash, not only would I have never seen it again, I would never have seen that dancer again. 
 
Yes, lots of strippers have problems in their lives and genuine tales of woe, but if they start telling those tales to you and asking for money, sit on your wallet.

troop

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15 years ago

regarding the 19 yr olds are bad in bed comments.. 
many are, but if she's cute and in good shape the appearance of a naked 19yr old is like natural viagra to an older guy so i say give her a try if she's willing to accept the amount that you're wiling to pay.