Dancer won't give you a dance

Ever have a dancer that wouldn't give you a dance?

Scouting out a club, doing my best to get dances from every girl on shift. One dancer tells me she needs to finish her dollar parade, then she'll be right over. Never shows. Later I see her having a drink with a guy, so I figure she got sidetracked by a regular, or maybe came looking for me when I was in the back with another dancer. No big deal.

Run into her again on my next visit. She's friendly, I kid her about being a tease. She says she has to go on stage, but will come get me after that. Once again, no show. I see her in passing a couple times and she smiles and waves. Again, no big deal, but I am curious. Spacey? Forgetful? Playing hard to get? Or could she (gasp) actually not like me? (lol)