babehunter90

I could see something like this for escorts where girls are listed along with their pictures/contact info/etc. in a sort of offline Backpage. If law enforcement appears, the tablet can be discreetly picked up off the bar and tucked away underneath.

The upcharge game will only continue as long as people are willing to pay into it. The second she refused the $25 dance, I would have just moved on. Even if you argue and she does give in, I have a suspicion that it won't exactly be the lap dance of the century. Demanding more money after the fact, however, is completely inappropriate regardless of the circumstances. If, after the dance, you decide to tip her, that's OK, but any type of house fee or other mandatory surcharge is to be disclosed up front. To use the gas station analogy again, this would be like setting my pumps for $3.49/gal, then telling you AFTER you filled up that the real price is $3.59/gal and that you need to pay the difference. Ladies, remember: If you don't take care of the customer, someone else will!

One of my favorite clubs has 3-for-2 pricing. Usually, I pay for the first dance up front and then, at the end of the first dance (assuming it was acceptable) I'll then pay for the second dance, which will then be followed by the (free) third dance. I can understand having to pay up front for at least the first dance. In fact, I prefer the setup where you pay for the dance at a central location such as the bar or DJ booth as it prevents the girl from coming out after and (falsely) accusing me of ripping her off.

The lap dances always seem better when I pick the girl myself, rather than settling for whichever one happens to drop by and ask.

The most I've ever spent in one night was $350 if you count the $270 speeding ticket I got on the way home. If we're only counting money spent at the club itself, probably about $150.