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What's the secret to a great blowjob? I heard a comedian once describe his gym and the gay men who worked out there. Describing the layers of rippling muscle on their chiseled physiques, he said: I've never given a blowjob, but apparently you have to be very strong. If only it were that easy... Because many of us know all too well…

After my divorce, I felt much more free to explore and focus on myself. My awful marriage just drained me. When I discovered stripping, I discovered that's just what I needed. I have two traits that would be helpful in stripping: exhibitionist and extrovert. From my upbringing, I thought strippers were girls from broken homes and so desperate for cash…

Sociology, history, and economics have always seemed fascinating. It’s not clear how the economics and sociology of this industry is related to what’s going on outside. But it does seem pretty clear that economic and social forces must be changing the nature of the PLs and dancers who are a part of this industry. Believe it or not, this…

How do you explain what you like in women? And in particular, what drives the attributes you find sexy in the various providers of adult entertainment you pursue? Have you ever given it any thought? Beyond ‘“umm, tits good’ or “me like pussy” is there a certain reason you like redheads or fantasize about Asian women? I have contemplated this a…

One of the byproducts of the pandemic is that dancers seem more willing to meet with mongers outside of the club (OTC). I have never had as many dancers interested in getting together OTC after over 10 years of going to clubs. I personally prefer meeting a dancer OTC to getting dances from them in the club, even if the…