Do's and don't's if you hook-up with dancers outside of the club (OTC)?
Sammy63
YMMV
Wednesday, November 2, 2022 9:40 PM
Covid created an unusual dynamic at strip clubs. Dancers who would normally not give you the time of day started offering to give you their phone number to get together outside of the club (OTC). There are many things to consider before hooking up with a dancer OTC. I have done it many times, and here are a few do's and don't's.
A few don'ts
1. Never invite a dancer to hook up with you at your home.
If things don't work out between you, she might stalk you or threaten to show up at your home at an inopportune
time. It is safest to get a hotel room at a hotel where you are not likely to be recognized by anyone you know.
2. If you get a hotel room in a hotel that offers room service, never let the dancer spend the night in the room without you. In other words, don't just fuck her and go and leave the room to her.
If she is in the room after you have left, she can order room service you are not aware of. This happened to me
once. The dancer ordered $100 in room service after I had left and gone home. Another dancer smoked in the room
after I left and I got a $250 charge on my bill because it was a non-smoking room.
3. Unless you don't care about money, don't show up without a clear understanding of how much you are paying for what you
want to do. For example, if you want to fuck raw, some dancers charge more for that, if they will be comfortable
doing it at all.
Is she expecting a tip? Does she expect you to pay for her Uber to get to the hotel and back home? You get the
idea.
4. If you are hooking up at the dancer's house, never, never, never spend the night with her.
You never know if she has a boyfriend or a girlfriend, an ex or relatives who might just show up at her place
while you are sleeping there. No good would come from that.
A few do's
1. If a dancer agrees to hook up with you OTC, be respectful and on time. Dancers are people too, and deserve to be treated with care, especially since they are going to share their body with you...a total stranger.
2. Confirm how the dancer wants to be paid....cash, venmo, cashapp. No brainer, right?
3. If you hook up with her at her house, treat her place with respect too. Don't throw your used condom on the floor or
do anything else to her home you would not do to yours.
4. If you are hooking up at her place, check out the neighborhood a day or two in advance of your date. You want to know what the neighborhood is like and if you will feel safe there.
Final thoughts
Hooking up OTC is my preferred way to spend any considerable time with a dancer. Most clubs are dirty, and it is questionable what is on the furniture in the lap dance room you might be using. I have had FS in clubs, but I always prefer to take the time to hook up with a dancer away from the club if we are going to do more than just a quickie. The dancer gets to keep all of the money (she doesn't have to give the club a fee). You have more faith the surroundings are clean. And there is not a clock ticking, distracting you from taking your time to enjoy the dancer of your choice. YMMV
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