Daddy Issues

Yes, younger dancers but all like validation.
It is a trade with money prompt.
Older dancers need more sophisticated validation.

Part of me thinks it's wishful thinking on your part; and part of me thinks you're full-of-shit and maybe just writing this to get the free VIP.

It’s not “daddy issues”; it’s money issues – in strip-club/P4P bizarro-world often times up is down and down is up – more often than not the older and/or uglier you are, in bizarro strip-club/P4P world that actually makes you a “better catch” (read easier $$$) – not uncommon to see hot young chicks with handsome broke young guys; but you will rarely see a hot young chick with an old broke guy – many of these girls have the equivalent of older sugar-daddies they use for $$$ then have a young guy they fuck on the side that is who they really wanna fuck – not uncommon in strip-clubs to see the older guys getting most of the attention – it’s busine$$ - the older guys are usually better $$$-prospects as that is what these girls are in the club for; the $$$; not some “daddy-issues fantasy”.

Try going out to a singles-bar and see if these the same chicks will give you the time of day or if they will be “as interested in you” (unless they are trolling for a sugardaddy) – having a stripper in the club be interested in you is like shooting fish in a barrel then pretending one is a good fisherman.

Might some particular stripper have “daddy issues”; I guess; just like it’s possible you find one that will invite you to her place then have her ex-con BF rob you; anything is possible – but 99% of the time it’s just “follow the $$$” – and many guys think they are the 1% exception but they are not.

Could not agree more papi. SC are not the place for anyone to develop or think they have “game”. It’s bizzarro world as you noted.

I can hope the young ladies actually like my old ass.

Papi is right. I'm super confident and engaging in clubs and have money. Decent looking but I'm a big boy in my 50s with money. I tried my skills in a regular club with hot college girls and they treated me like a turd on the floor lol. But I did have a promising conversation with a professional milf my age

Older guys have game though it is different than younger guys. It is effective and females have a biological attraction to older guys as well. An attraction is not a choice. In any event, if you feel it that's all good.

I don’t think any strippers ever warmed up to me because I came across and a kind and gentle daddy or grandpa. It’s far more likely they warmed up to me because of the way I dress or because they noticed my expensive wristwatch and assumed I could spend some money on them.

Since I tend to return repeatedly to a small number of clubs where I know I can reliably get what I want from women I find appealing, it’s also highly likely that waitresses have alerted them to my presence and encourages them to take good care of me and expect me to return the favor.

That said, I enjoy telling stories about my outrageous escapades and sexual antics of my youth. I know I’m a decent story teller and it’s clear enough that some of the strippers I meet enjoy my stories especially since now, as an old man, I certainly don’t look the part.

Some of them undoubtedly just pretend to enjoy my stories because they want that green, folding money I have in my wallet. But most of these young ladies are lousy actresses. An older guy like me can usually tell which ones are truly captivated by my outlandish stories about traveling, living, working and fucking all over the world and which ones are just putting up with an chatty old fart.

Some of them continue to waste their time listening wide-eyed to tales of my egregious bad behavior, asking questions and staying with me after I’ve told them I’m not getting any more dances and need to leave before the traffic gets any worse.

I’ve run into some dancers at clubs other than the one where I first met them years before. I’m amazed at the details of my past that they can still remember from the stories I shared with them.

It’s a fun way for an old guy like me to relive those deliciously outrageous shenanigans from my past that I am spectacularly unlikely to enjoy again.

Hey, my delusions of adequacy depend on my ability to make myself believe that young women like me more than my wallet!😂

I like young gals; they like my wallet. This begets one of the most honest relationships possible. Why fuck it up with illusions?
Well said ATACdawg & Papi