Comments by Ruby3456

It all depends. I have seen some girls not make it past their first day and in their early 20s. I know other girls who dance in their 40s, 50s and even early 60s. Most guys assume the older dancers are younger and most older dancers are pressured to lie about their age. Dancers are often told that guys want younger women. The burnout rate in the industry is very high. It's also hard to leave.

Yes Marilyn is still there

That's Opal

@decline - that's my style even on stage. Sensual

From a dancers perspective, I think these girls are way too aggressive. I can't imagine doing that to a customer. I make my rounds and friendly to everyone. If you're not interested in a lap dance, it's best to be straightforward and polite. I'd rather hear a straight no anytime rather than wasting my time. If a dancer is being too aggressive and crossing the line, she's asking for it. Complain to management. Don't accept a dance from her otherwise she'll think it's working.

@tetradon - as for me, I cannot imagine turning down a lover who's willing to go down on Mr.

Not sure about cultural stigma. I haven't heard of it. It could be self consciousness. Some women are worried about how they look down there and afraid you'd be turned off.

Good idea but that'd be difficult. That sari is very sheer that you can see right through it. I'll have to remove the sari first. Otherwise it's impossible to dance and remove bikini. It's a fully nude club.

If any of you are in Boston, come to the The Club in Tyngsboro, MA where I dance on Fridays and Saturdays. I’m an Indian stripper.

After growing up in the US, I too smell that BO from fobbish Indians. I wear deodorant and perfume. I see the cheap behavior that’s ridiculous. Life in India is tough and money is tight, so there’s this survival mindset that’s drilled into most Indians minds. Unless you’re well off, being frugal is taught to us from a young age. Even my mother occasionally comments about the things I buy to treat myself. I splurge on makeup, lingerie, and perfumes. One group of Indians came in, argued over the $10 cover, then complained that there aren’t enough girls and felt that the cover wasn’t worth it. We had 25+ girls. The manager told them he’ll refund only if they leave and never come back. They stayed. One buys a $5 Miller and they all share it. No tipping dancers even when sitting on stage. Not just asking for extras but demanding. And constantly asking even after no. Then bargaining for vips and lap dances. I kid you not. All the negative stereotypes rolled into one. Of course they got ignored and eventually left the club. Shitty customers are of all ethnicities. But how they express their shitty behavior varies. A cheap white customer for example would just have a few drinks, watch tv, not talk to the girls. I see guys coming in just to hang out. No tipping or dancing with any of the girls. Why are they in a strip club? Then I get guys asking me out or wanting to marry me. Hey, I don’t want marriage…slow down. First pay me well for a dance. And give me money. I’m speaking like a true stripper. Hehehe….what about us Indian women and smells? At another club, there was a customer who loves sniffing armpits of the dancers. I ended up being his victim a few weeks ago, so I’m probably not bad in that area.

I’m a thick Indian dancer and I got hired. Taking your clothes off on stage is the easiest part. The most difficult part is getting vip rooms and lap dances. I’ve seen many guys come in just to hang out, won’t tip on stage, won’t buy lap dances, but wanna talk to you for hours. Being able to connect with others is what makes you stand out. I had experience in marketing/sales before so it helped. Also my advice: be nice, friendly to other strippers but stay far away from stripper drama. Some girls are just full of drama. Set your boundaries.

I never saw myself doing this. I was intrigued. After my divorce, I needed extra income and I took pole dancing and Floor work classes and I love it. I went for an amateur night and loved it. I auditioned at a local club and enjoyed it. I’m in my 30s and thought I’m too old. I’ve been dancing for a month.

I'd recommend Rhode Island Dolls. They are hiring bbw dancers. Every year in March they have Fat Tuesday or BBW amateur nights. Good luck.

Indian stripper here as in the 7-11 people or engineers. I laugh hard at stereotypes. I just started stripping. If you're in Northern Massachusetts, I dance at The Club in Tyngsboro. I didn't think anyone would care for an older indian stripper. Was I pleasantly surprised..I thought you gotta be early 20s, blonde, slim. I'm still sure they make the most. I realize guys have different preferences but just thinking about industry standards.