Comments by CC99 (page 39)

"Sometimes when you are passionate about something it is difficult to understand why others are not as passionate or even opposed." Yeah you're right about that. I think its hard sometimes to really understand why everybody else doesn't feel the passion and sense of wonder you have about something. Or even just a topic you're really interested in. I get really obsessive about things myself and I sometimes struggle to remember my audience before talking about something.

Countryman absolutely has gone too far with it. PMing members threatening them, making threads about them and trying to fight them in real life is not acceptable. I think he mentioned somewhere that he is bi-polar so maybe his reactions are just a result of not taking his medications properly. It wouldn't surprise me since when I look at what sets him off like with GMD and RickDugan, I thought they were really tame statements. With GMD especially, I still don't understand what exactly got Countryman so pissed off. Yeah SJG does take that too far, I've tried to tell him before to not be so critical of guys who bought lap dances at the club and whatnot. I'm still not entirely sure why he cares so much, especially since we have strippers on here like NiceSpice who have said they don't mind LDKs. I do like SJG and I enjoy our conversations but I certainly don't agree with everything he says. We actually disagree a lot.

And yeah, I've seen girls walk around at nightclubs and parties in G-strings before too but its relatively rare. In Iraq or Afghanistan, I'm sure girls wearing the outfits I posted happens at some point but it is also relatively rare for a girl to wear that there.

"Its a normal amount of skin to show. A person should be desensitized to it....its not a big deal." Icey, statements like these are why people think you're a woman. A normal heterosexual guy is never going to look at hot girls wearing skimpy outfits and feel nothing. You can get desensitized to something like this... https://ae01.alicdn.com/kf/HTB1lw9SXpkoBKNjSZFkq6z4tFXaI/New-Autumn-Girls-Elegant-A-line-Faux-leather-knee-length-skirt-Woman-Casual-Plus-Size-Black.jpg In middle school, a girl sitting down in that outfit would've turned me on because I would be anticipating the skirt showing a little bit of her thigh. But how is a guy supposed to get desensitized to a girl wearing an outfit that shows off her entire legs? I mean c'mon this is literally fap material... http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DCxDsyygXZo/T_Fxy4QuHWI/AAAAAAAACsY/FJ4UP_mZmDg/s1600/Arizona+girls+2.jpg

"I'm glad he's having fun. He needs to remember all this fun he's having for the next time anyone else calls TJ a shithole. Obviously it's not a shithole to him and that's all that really matters." I think that's something a lot of us could do well to remember, maybe most of us don't have the issue to the extent that Countryman does but for some reason you have this little inner voice that tells you you can't have fun unless other people acknowledge that it is fun for you. I have some of that inner voice too but that inner voice is stupid, how much fun you have doing something is entirely subjective to you and your personality. If somebody is just as happy with an LDK as they would with intercourse then why do some members here feel the need to berate someone for not trying to get more? LapDanceKing has said he enjoys the teasing nature of lap dances more than actual sex, so why pressure him to go for something that he isn't looking for?

You make this thread yet criticize me for complaining that girls don't seem to want to be in committed relationships with one guy anymore. That's why it confuses me when guys here say they go to strip clubs or hire hookers because they only want NSA hookups. NSA hookups are all the rage right now with civie girls in their desired age ranges. Especially in their desired age range of 18-25 year old girls. I meet so many guys who are absolutely desperate for a girlfriend and I honestly have never met a girl who seemed to be in any rush to be in a relationship. They will date somebody if "it just happens," but I have not met a girl who seemed to be actively looking for one in a long time. I meet girls who actively search for hookups every weekend all the time though. If you're a guy looking for a committed relationship, you actually have to pretend to only want something more casual if you want success with girls now. If you act like you're falling in love or care about her more deeply, she will cut you off. If you are paying prostitutes under this idea that civie girls aren't into casual sex, then you are wasting a tremendous amount of money. Civie girls will objectify you and make you feel more used for sex than strippers do. Strippers always act as if you're special, even if it is a casual hookup. Civie girls won't do that, they will makeout with you and then walk over and makeout with another guy right in-front of you within the same minute. There's no shame in paying a girl because you can't pickup civie girls. Lots of people struggle with that. But specifically to the guys here who act as if they could easily get civie girls but pay hookers because they only want casual sex. At this point, that line of reasoning makes no sense, it makes much more sense to see prostitutes specifically to have pseudo relationships with. @JamesSD Because lots of NSA hookups don't actually help people have more sex. Not only does being in a committed relationship increase your time around somebody and your access to them, but having strong feelings for a girl makes you hornier and want to have sex more often because every time you look at her you want to start hugging and kissing her, next thing you know you're having passionate sex. That's how it happens naturally. NSA hookups aren't really natural. We're forcing ourselves to be less expressive and emotional with each other than we truly feel. Only in a culture that has overly glorified NSA hookups could we actually have the phrase "catching feelings." Imagine how much work it would take for even a relatively confident and attractive guy to have a one night stand every day? Unless you are willing to dedicate your entire mental space to finding hookups all the time, its impossible. Even my ridiculously good looking frat boy roommate doesn't do that. He has a one night stand once or twice a week which is still insane if you ask me, well beyond the capabilities of pretty much anyone else. Still though, he doesn't have anywhere near as much sex as a much less good looking, and lower social status guy I know who's in a committed relationship because he and his girlfriend see each other every day and have sex. If you have a girlfriend, daily sex isn't difficult to accomplish. You could can even have sex multiple times a day with a girlfriend without putting too much effort in to make that happen. If you actually love sex and value the amount of time you get to spend being intimate with girls and want to maximize the amount of time you spend doing so, you should be pursuing committed relationships or at least FWBs. NSA hookups are more suitable for people who occasionally feel like having sex but don't really want it all the time.

Its not coherent. It doesn't mean you have a comprehension problem when the vast majority of the forum has a hard time understanding her.

The fact that its normal doesn't mean its not a sexy outfit. That just means that most teenage girls in the US wear sexy outfits. If a girl wore those kind of outfits in a country like Iraq or Afghanistan people's reactions would be similar to if a stripper in the US was walking around on the street in a G-string.

Its not pretending, you're the only person here who can understand her every time. I'd say 80% of her sentences are coherent, the other 20% just don't make any sense. Take this sentence for example.... "Damn, the irony right ? I meant misogyny? LoL. Except that msiofny" What is trying to be conveyed here? When the grammar is so bad you can't understand what the person is saying then it does matter on an internet forum. Are people going to jump all over you for a misplaced comma or slightly misspelled word? No. However, when your sentences are so broken they don't convey meaning, or if you type out a huge block of text without separating it into paragraphs, then people might care.

Outfits like these for example are extremely common here... https://www.tillys.com/dw/image/v2/BBLQ_PRD/on/demandware.static/-/Sites-master-catalog/default/dw231484e1/tillys/images/catalog/1000x1000/333637597.jpg?sw=295&sh=380&sm=fit https://www.google.com/search?q=college+girl+in+short+shorts&client=ms-android-virgin-us&prmd=ivn&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjJ58yrvunhAhVrU98KHYZyA-AQ_AUoAXoECAsQAQ#imgrc=dwLe3n6Rh2xRIM https://www.google.com/search?q=college+girl+in+short+shorts&client=ms-android-virgin-us&prmd=ivn&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjJ58yrvunhAhVrU98KHYZyA-AQ_AUoAXoECAsQAQ#imgrc=dwLe3n6Rh2xRIM&imgdii=FVGzVC2FJf-vfM https://www.google.com/search?q=college+girl+in+short+shorts&client=ms-android-virgin-us&prmd=ivn&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjJ58yrvunhAhVrU98KHYZyA-AQ_AUoAXoECAsQAQ#imgrc=E-8TVZJLXT7OzM In the background of the last photo you can see a girl wearing shorts that show her ass.

I see girls in miniskirts all the time. Not just at parties but walking around on campus too. Something like 80-90% of girls at my campus on warm weather days wear shorts that come up the upper thigh and reveal pretty much all of their legs and are like only a couple inches of fabric away from showing their ass. It's not like all the girls are walking around with shorts that actually show their ass but it's definitely not uncommon by any means. I see like 2 or 3 girls doing that pretty much every day that I go on campus.

Seriously Nicole fix your grammar structure. You claim to be misinterpreted all the time which is really not surprising given sentences like this title. Everybody makes typos sometimes but you can't butcher a sentence so badly that you're incoherent. It's really not that difficult to write a little better. I type out posts on my phone while walking all the time and the grammar structure of my sentences are fine.

I don't try to stare without breaking away at all for like a minute or so. That might be too much, but I agree with primo that girls wearing really sexy outfits in public just seem to be asking for attention. Not harassment, not to be groped or have catcalls made. But if a girl dresses in a way that is obviously designed to provoke a sexual response from men then she shouldn't be surprised when they want to look at her because her outfit is sexy enough to provoke a sexual response. It's especially odd to me how so many people try to deny this basic fact when a lot of girls clearly push the limits on what can be worn in public without getting arrested. A lot of girls' outfits are honestly like one or two inches of fabric away from potentionally being illegal to wear but according to feminists women should be able to walk around completely topless and men should just look at it the same as if she was wearing anything else? It doesn't make any sense. Basic fact is that if you are attractive people are going to check you out. If you don't want that as much don't wear an outfit that draws attention to how attractive you are.

I find the best thing is to not look for longer than five seconds, after that you need to look away for 3-5, then you can look again. After the five seconds, take 3 second looks after that instead. Unless you got sunglasses, in which case stare away lol.

Yeah idk why tf so many guys wear those skinny jeans. It makes you look gay. I wouldn't necessarily say I look hip hop but I wouldn't be caught dead wearing form fitting shit. I mostly go for basketball and cargo shorts in spring and summer.

Lmao @Icey that's a good idea. Won't help during class though.

Oh god, that's not true. SJG I will schedule a meetup with you at my campus and you will see how ridiculously sexy the girls here dress, its seriously impossible to pay attention to anything else. I had to search for awhile but the girl on the bus I was referring to was legit wearing a skirt this short... https://as1.ftcdn.net/jpg/01/13/46/98/500_F_113469892_3wR2Ffzje4Jon3ODRqNdVaBDEVxWWJLP.jpg But she was a lot hotter than the girl in the photo, like much much hotter.

Honestly I'm not entirely sure if I'm okay with it though because around this time of year, the whole campus becomes an obstacle course. Hot girl here, hot girl there, I can't stop looking around, I worry I'm gonna trip on shit. Or I'll be in class and the girl in-front of me has tinie tiny shorts on and I can't focus on what the professor is saying because its just too hot. Even if I look away, I'm still thinking about her. Today I was on the bus and like 3 feet away from this girl was crossing her legs wearing a very short skirt that was riding up her legs remaining just one tiny movement away from showing her underwear and not once during the 30 minute bus ride did she bother trying to adjust it. And she was ridiculously hot, she was like an 8, I went the whole bus ride feeling weird as hell because I couldn't stop trying to look but knew I couldn't do it for too long without it being weird. My campus in the summer and spring has so many hot girls everywhere wearing basically nothing, expecting me to pay attention in class is like telling me to go to the strip club and then listen to a podcast on informational technology, how am I supposed to pay any attention when some girl's ridiculously beautiful sexy legs are staring me right in the face? People say teenage boys will be turned on by anything but its not true, a girl in revealing attire is 100x more distracting than a girl just being there. I don't think we should be like Saudi Arabia or something and dress girls up in burkas but jeez girls, give it a rest, you don't have to be so ridiculously sexy all the time. But idk, I do love looking at them. But I love looking at them too much and looking at them is dangerous, but also so tempting.

LMAO if girls aren't doing it to attract male attention then why are girls so passionate about being able to walk around half-naked in public? Never in my life have I seen a guy complain that he can't walk around in shorts with his ass hanging out without being judged but girls are obsessed with the topic. There is no way that they aren't aware of the effect that being half naked around guys has on them so if its not about guys then why is it so important to them and why are we supposed to accept the idea that they're not doing it for men when all their actions say the opposite? And don't say because its hot outside, I've seen girls walking around in tiny shorts and miniskirts in the dead of winter before.

Yes she is, lmao. Don't wear revealing clothing if you don't wanna be looked at.

I don't blame you. Spring rolling around all these girls are walking around in such revealing attire. It's so so hard not to just stare.

It was okay, I wouldn't say it tasted good. But I'm not going to turn down a free drink especially when I'm underage.

FLF that's not very fun at all now is it? I would never meet up with somebody who said they were going to fight me anyway.

I could easily believe that NiceSpice is able to fool guys about her age. 21 year old girls look pretty similar to 25 year old girls and NiceSpice looks younger than her age so I think its pretty believable.

Screw being "a coward." How immature do you have to be to actually try and have a physical fight with somebody you met on the internet?