Comments by Titus23 (page 4)

^^That's just a fun side effect. One of my favorite aspects of going to the club is the socio-psychological aspect. I'm a people watcher, and occasionally, influencer.

Ignoring that the OP has troll-like characteristics, I do something similar to what he's talking about. I usually go into a club with about $40 in ones. Throughout the night, I stage tip about $200 in ones. At the end of the night, I leave with $40 in ones. I'm friendly with a few dancers, and when they're on stage and the tipping is slow, I'll go throw out $20 or so to try to get the crowd going. It usually works. The guys at this club tend to be younger and they don't like to be upstaged. After her set, the dancer comes over and passes me my money back so I have it for the next set. I get dances with them and tip for their time outside the VIP, so in the end they make out alright.

She definitely started the laughing. It was pure and real and amazing. I just joined in because it went from super serious to totally relaxed in the span of a few seconds. It was the cutest stumble ever. Didn't fall flat on her face, as she caught herself a bit. But ruined the perfect plan she had that probably wouldn't have worked well on me. I'm pretty sure I'm going to see her on Saturday again, so all in all, it worked out for her.

Check out the Hilton Honors program. Great rewards, and you can book super last minute. I use it to determine if I'm going for the suite or the cheap double bed depending on how the nights going with my dancer friend.

Agree. I'm very much living in the moment. I really like this girl and we have a great connection, but I'm not a fool. She's ghosted on me for over a month before. I know she has some stuff in her past that causes her to run at any hint of something difficult. I'd hate to lose her, but I'm not going to be destroyed if I do. Hurt maybe. I'm human after all, but it won't break me.

A21, I love the eye contact. I had a dancer (same as above) do the same thing during a table dance with a guy near me. Just locked eyes with me the entire time. We teased each other the entire night. At one point, she took a guy into the VIP that was behind me, and on her way by, leaned down and told me she'd be thinking about me the entire time. I can't wait to see where this goes.

Cash, I haven't gotten dances with her yet. I was witness to a few table dances though, and she definitely looks like she could be fun in VIP. Just gotta figure out some schedules so I don't accidentally burn any bridges.

Yup. Surprised it took to the second comment. As soon as I saw the title after I hit submit, I just thought, fuck, I know where this is gonna go.

@Flag - in the club when we're together? Yah. But when I go back to the club on her off days, it makes up for it. They seem eager to try to make up for lost time. @Cash - Normally, I'd completely agree with you. But, this girl doesn't get my money. I think I tipped her $50-60 on stage throughout the time we were in the club together. Typically we don't even go to the club. We spend the day going out, having fun, doing normal couple shit. And we spend our nights in more exotic ways. Now, she knows I have money, so maybe that's part of it and she just wants in on that. I'm cool with that. But, I don't pay her for her time. I'll buy dinner, cover travel expenses when we go somewhere, get a nice hotel room for us, etc. This girl legit just likes to spend time with me, and I with her. It feels more like dating than anything else, so she may be legit (in her own way) with what she's saying.

Sort of orange. More like a dancer FWB with some feelings sneaking in. I'm pretty sure she fools around with a few other people (I know of one, her ex), and that's fine. But she did tell me she loved me last night when she was drunk. It's an interesting situation.

Not sure if I count as an RIL. Sure, I met her in a club, but after my second visit, we started going on OTC dates, overnights, etc with no money involved. Now, the only time I see her in the club is when I'm her ride. She's got the owner to give me a free year membership, and my two drink minimum is on the house. She doesn't want me dancing with anyone else when she's there, but tips are ok. It's actually created a fun situation with a different girl where she tries VERY hard to get me to dance with her. I feel like at this point, if I said yes, it would ruin all the tension we've built up!

@papi - I don't know if you're serious, but I'm pretty sure you're referring to a filter. Pretty much everyone uses filters these days on their pictures that add the ears/nose, smooth's out the cheeks, etc. It's like make-up, without the effort or expense.

I like Sven. Can we keep him?

Well, in that case, to the person that wrote a review that simply repeated "This club sucks!!!" for about 50 lines, I hope my feedback of "This review sucks!!!" was clear enough. If not, please let me know by replying below so I can clarify.

^^That's a great point. I dunno how many people would listen, but I bet some would. And maybe even resubmit the review with the info we request in the feedback.

Well, that makes sense for you. I'm generally not interested in reading about another mans rock-hard, throbbing cock. I can read a little of it, but if I start to suspect the reviewer is beating off while writing his review, I gotta start drawing a line!

Pricing is important for me. Unless you walked in and walked out, you should have some idea of how much cover, drinks, dances, VIP, etc all cost. Or at least some of those. If I don't see that info, I'll scroll right by it. Someone else can determine if the reviewer's erotic (non?)fiction is worth publishing.

I feel like if they are to come on here, it wouldn't be that difficult to drum up business. Public posts are definitely not the way to go though. Instead, comb the discussions for people in your area (we all very kindly post our locations), and see if they post about loving extras and escorts. If yes, DM them. Now it's all behind the scenes and two individuals can more discretely discuss a business arrangement.

Exactly.

Nope. Our locker room doubled as our gym. Lots of weight training. Lots of hard work. If you made it into that room, you had earned some serious respect. And you were treated accordingly.

I think you and I have different experiences from being in locker rooms lol

@25 - She said she didn't like the standards at a club. I don't see anything wrong with that personally. We do it all the time right? Don't like who's working at a club, we leave. She did the same. Why does that deserve harsh treatment? As for bros before hos, the two people I consider to be my best friends are both women. I guess you could say my bros generally are hos. @flag - I can appreciate equal-opportunity asshole. My dad always said he doesn't discriminate, he hates everybody.

Your words, not mine 25.. I was just saying I don't like to act like one. :)

@flag - I'm not sucking up to anybody. I just don't understand the need to treat someone like shit over the internet. Maybe it makes you feel good about yourself. Maybe you don't even realize you're being a dick. I dunno. I've seen other posts from you that were fine, and some where you're an asshole. You do you. I just thought the sequence of events was funny and wanted to call it out. I did read all the posts. Just in case I missed something, I reread them. She made a comment, you jumped up her ass about it. She attempted, calmly I'll add, to clarify. Other folks jumped up her ass about it. She then, rightly, commented about how y'all were acting weird about a fairly innocent comment. More guys continued to be assholes about it. You even called her thin-skinned, when frankly, she remained calmer than most others. Like I said, maybe you get your jollies from insulting women. You wouldn't be the first guy. Me, I prefer to be respectful to people, regardless of gender. I find it often gets me further than I'd get by being a self-centered prick.

@Flag - so, lemme get this right. You play for OTC, she shuts you down, and then you start questioning her and insulting her? Sure. I guess that mentality does fit TUSCL. Me? I think she just wants to find somewhere to maximize her earnings in as short a time as possible. Exclusivity provides that. I doubt she's looking for the $100 one pump chump. If she finds an exclusive club though, with her look and attitude, I can easily see somebody snatching her up for a lengthy and expensive VIP.