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    5 years ago
    MackTruck
    God Bless Dancers
    BlahBlahBlah
    đŸ”ȘđŸ”ȘđŸ”Ș vs đŸ’©đŸ’©đŸ’© blah FTW!!! And fuck you, Mackie!
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    5 years ago
    Interesting Encounter—Possibly the future of the dancer directory and this site?
    @TFP note that nicespice and I negotiated everything in PM - dance prices and mileage limits and overall expectations of each other and timing of arrivals - so there were absolutely no surprises once we met. End results for me were perfect visits - no waiting, no ambiguities, a perfect 10 in my lap in the main room, and awesome dances. To me if you don't reach out beforehand, then you run the same risks as you get not having the dancer directory.
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    5 years ago
    Interesting Encounter—Possibly the future of the dancer directory and this site?
    @Ishmael As an example I just went to EndlessSummer's profile, then I clicked her club (Lust) because she linked it, then on the Lust site I see her and another dancer, Pantera, are working there, and then I clicked on Pantera to check her out. Now with knowing hotties like her and Summer are there, I just might have to check out Lust if I was ever in the area.
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    5 years ago
    Interesting Encounter—Possibly the future of the dancer directory and this site?
    @EndlessSummer that's exactly what I'm talking about! Another win-win between you and PL because of you being accessible and showing pics through your profile. 👍 It's just like nicespice and I did because she has a good profile. LOL I like calling it lurking but whateva. And yes I met a real unicorn named 'nicespice'. đŸ†đŸŠ„đŸ€—
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    5 years ago
    Interesting Encounter—Possibly the future of the dancer directory and this site?
    My guess is that the guy called nicespice a unicorn because he saw it on her profile which means he was recently lurking it. It's interesting he used that as his intro rather than straight out mentioning TUSCL or asking her if she's 'nicespice'. I wonder if he read blah's thread which is where I called her a unicorn. Point ultimately being is that he's likely reading this thread.
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    5 years ago
    gSteph
    The view from the other side of the room
    Do you remember your 1st Lap Dance?
    ^ posting to a strip club forum but not actually going to a strip club in real life this century is the ultimate chump's game
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    5 years ago
    samiel
    DFW, Texas
    Discovering Extras
    Oops. Copied too much. Sorry!
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    5 years ago
    samiel
    DFW, Texas
    Discovering Extras
    i Liter Phoenix mark94 Arizona The Front Room October 16, 2019 Comments: 47 Last Comment: 22 Hours Ago by san_jose_guy Hi Liter Phoenix Breaking news: a dancer told me that owners are considering taking out the VIP booths. They need to get Liquor Control off their back and this may be the only way to do it. Discussion Comments san_jose_guy Thank You Founder for reopening our threads, this will make for a big improvement October 16, 2019 Taking out VIP Booths, DRAT! Thanks for letting us know, and please do let us know what you might learn about the other clubs in that region. 1. Front room makeout sessions 2. Front room DATY 3. Back room FS 4. Walking girls out the front door, mid shift. :) :) :) SJG Subraman Sitting in the back doing tequila shots with your ATF October 16, 2019 5. Front room ass-to-mouth 6. Walking girls out the side door, last third of shift 7. Back room auto-erotic asphyxiation san_jose_guy Thank You Founder for reopening our threads, this will make for a big improvement October 16, 2019 ^^^^^^ you are a little more kinky than me. SJG rh48hr Wakanda October 16, 2019 Why not just close the club? No reason to go if there is no VIP. Most guys don't even bother with floor dances anymore because they are so tame. Meat72 SJG, VH_Kicks, and RandomMember are dingbats! October 17, 2019 The liquor license is due to renew in January. san_jose_guy Thank You Founder for reopening our threads, this will make for a big improvement October 17, 2019 Strip club can always be a place to meet women. Anyone have experience with other clubs in the Phoenix Metro? SJG nicespice Sowing dissent. October 17, 2019 Hmm...a girl on the internet (so I don’t 100% know for sure, but I don’t see why I should doubt her yet) said that Hiliter lets girls come and go as they please. As in, they are allowed to leave the club and return anytime they want without paying another house fee. Even if bleeding over into night shift. If so, then it seems like OTC would be ridiculously easy if you’re considered trustworthy enough to the right dancer. So if one is on the hunt for naughty activities... đŸ€·đŸŒâ€â™€ïž TrollWarnBot I identify trolls to lurkers October 17, 2019 WARNING - The following accounts are considered to be forum trolls and may not be trustworthy: san_jose_guy - Commonly referred to as SJG this forum member may have some sort of mental illness and is usually mocked or ignored. SJG has a long history of posting incendiary comments including being pro-rape. His comments should NOT be taken in any way as legitimate. san_jose_guy Thank You Founder for reopening our threads, this will make for a big improvement October 17, 2019 Yes nicespice, that does sound really good about this Hiliter. SJG nicespice Sowing dissent. October 17, 2019 ^ Yeah. I did want to eventually try out Phoenix. And despite the, erm, reputation that club has—hearing that made me want to audition there. The more a club respects dancers as independent contractors, the more I respect a club. san_jose_guy Thank You Founder for reopening our threads, this will make for a big improvement October 17, 2019 My position has always been that it is best just to let the women do it they way they want. So that might include FRMOS's, Front Room DATY, Backroom FS, and walking with a guy out the front door mid shift. By all accounts that is how it goes in TJ. And I have seen it go like that at clandestine US places. Anybody got an info about other Phoenix places? :) :) :) SJG nicespice Sowing dissent. October 17, 2019 There’s quite a bit of Phoenix intel out there. www.tuscl.net san_jose_guy Thank You Founder for reopening our threads, this will make for a big improvement October 17, 2019 People haven't posted many accounts of their other clubs, except perhaps in reviews. Most seem to go for just a few clubs. My interest is in some of the others which could be more anything goes. SJG nicespice Sowing dissent. October 17, 2019 ^ Yeah, I can imagine that it’s frustrating for you that most of the TUSCL crowd just like to go to clubs to get grinded on or maybe even airdanced on with strippers. For whatever reason, dudes here don’t seem to like having sex with or meeting strippers outside the club. Jascoi Supporting single moms and college age girls... (Jascoi is MisterWonderful) October 17, 2019 it’s all a crazy mess. I can say is that I am going to be at bare elegance on 30 October and then I will be down in Hong Kong Tijuana on the 31st. san_jose_guy Thank You Founder for reopening our threads, this will make for a big improvement October 17, 2019 Right you are nicespice! That is the basic rift. Though I am not totally alone. Some others see things the way I do, but they just don't need to post about it. Actually our local strip clubs are the most tame, no touching, really no private dances to speak of. But the women are for real, they are exactly what they appear to be. Just need to get them outside of the club. And most of all, need to treat them in a civilian manner. Most all of the girls in our underground circuit are highly regarded OTC providers. And as they know that such clandestine clubs are short lived, they are always lining up all the OTC regulars they can. I found early on that if you just treat the women who dance in strip clubs as you would any other women, most of the time they really open up and most of them are extremely available. And then as life went on and I had to make some hard decisions about my marriage, I came to see that I liked some of the OTC providers much better than I liked the women like my wife who were into strict monogamy. So strip clubs are a great venue, for meeting women and for imbibing an aesthetic. But they are not good for regular sexual gratification. The women who dance in strip clubs, seeing them outside, that is wonderful. And most of them are bored and lonely, even though they are young sexualized hotties. That's okay, the PL's and Chump's can keep the strip clubs in business. But I'll be the one who is doing photo sessions and MSOG TLN's with the women outside of the club. SJG san_jose_guy Thank You Founder for reopening our threads, this will make for a big improvement October 17, 2019 Also, just like it was on TJA, we have no a bunch of guys who regularly go to TJ. A vastly superior venue. But most of these guys are still Chumps and PLs in how they related to the women. SJG TFP Adventures of Assjobman October 17, 2019 Jesus, Nicespice, this dude can't even detect your sarcasm. Now you got him started up on a Dennis Miller type rant. Mark94 might wanna go ahead and cancel those email alerts right now, least his box be overloaded with 'San_Jose_Guy has posted a message in your thread' mails. TFP Adventures of Assjobman October 17, 2019 LMAO this dude really said " The women who dance in strip clubs, seeing them outside, that is wonderful. And most of them are bored and lonely, even though they are young sexualized hotties." Dude really talking out his ass like he knows the status of every stripper in America. Jascoi Supporting single moms and college age girls... (Jascoi is MisterWonderful) October 17, 2019 do you mean he doesn’t ??? MackTruck God Bless Dancers October 17, 2019 "Right you are nicespice! That is the basic rift. Though I am not totally alone. Some others see things the way I do, but they just don't need to post about it. Actually our local strip clubs are the most tame, no touching, really no private dances to speak of. But the women are for real, they are exactly what they appear to be. Just need to get them outside of the club. And most of all, need to treat them in a civilian manner. Most all of the girls in our underground circuit are highly regarded OTC providers. And as they know that such clandestine clubs are short lived, they are always lining up all the OTC regulars they can. I found early on that if you just treat the women who dance in strip clubs as you would any other women, most of the time they really open up and most of them are extremely available. And then as life went on and I had to make some hard decisions about my marriage, I came to see that I liked some of the OTC providers much better than I liked the women like my wife who were into strict monogamy. So strip clubs are a great venue, for meeting women and for imbibing an aesthetic. But they are not good for regular sexual gratification. The women who dance in strip clubs, seeing them outside, that is wonderful. And most of them are bored and lonely, even though they are young sexualized hotties. That's okay, the PL's and Chump's can keep the strip clubs in business. But I'll be the one who is doing photo sessions and MSOG TLN's with the women outside of the club. SJG" ^^^ Amen brother txtittyfag TEXAS BY GOD! October 17, 2019 ^^^^^^^ Nyet #MONGOLOYD! TFP Adventures of Assjobman October 17, 2019 Misterwonderful what's funny is if you made a general statement about the bargirls in HK I'd be more inclined to believe you since you've been there so many times. Yet I bet you still wouldn't do it because although you've probably bedded a lot of women there, there's still A LOT more that you haven't. Because there's just so many girls, and so many different girls all the time. Yet this asshat, who doesn't even go to clubs, presumes to sit up here and determine that most of the girls dancing in clubs are bored and lonely. If that ain't the epitome of talking out of your ass then I don't know what is. Just because that's your fantasy and what you wish the situation of all dancers was, doesn't mean it's the case. SirLapdancealot nicespice's ATF masseuse đŸ†đŸŠ„đŸ€— October 17, 2019 LMAO I wonder if san_jose_creep would post to TUSCL as much if he actually went to strip clubs. But that's like wondering what he'll freezing over is actually like. 😆 san_jose_guy Thank You Founder for reopening our threads, this will make for a big improvement October 17, 2019 ^^^^^^ I guess TFP that it is hard for you to hear basic simple truth. But it is true. Most of the women who dance in strip clubs are outsiders, they marginalized. When it comes to sex appeal they are strong, but as far as social and civil standing, they are marginalized. But I like them better than those like my ex-wife and her GFs, who are strictly committed to monogamy. Their commitment is really about money and social status. SJG SirLapdancealot nicespice's ATF masseuse đŸ†đŸŠ„đŸ€— October 17, 2019 ^ *hell freezing over* mark94 Arizona October 17, 2019 The ignore button is a blessing. Just saying. nicespice Sowing dissent. October 17, 2019 SJG —>”But I like them better than those like my ex-wife and her GFs, who are strictly committed to monogamy.” If your ex wife had multiple girlfriends, I don’t feel as if her commitment to monogamy was very strong. 😼 san_jose_guy Thank You Founder for reopening our threads, this will make for a big improvement October 17, 2019 Her GF's were just friends. But they all were trying to set up strict monogamy, and my wife was one they looked to for advice. But their monogamy, what it was really about was property and social status. Sex was at best only a means to an ends. I think this is generally true, a girl who is really into sex is not going to be into strict monogamy. The ones I call "The Beloved Latina Escorts", the core group from our underground clubs, they were pretty much ready to go with anyone anytime. SJG TFP Adventures of Assjobman October 17, 2019 SJG, prove anyway you can, that your statement is true. You post links to all kinds of hogshit all day every day on this forum anyway. So posting some links to whatever evidence that supports your claim that 'most strippers are bored and lonely' should be no problem for you, right? TFP Adventures of Assjobman October 17, 2019 @Mark94 so you don't get email alerts when blocked people post in your thread? san_jose_guy Thank You Founder for reopening our threads, this will make for a big improvement October 17, 2019 Proving what goes on in the head of another person is impossible. But I can just reference my long history of interaction with the women who dance in our local clubs. One factor to consider here is that our clubs are softer core, so the women can just sell LDKing in the back room. There is more talk which goes on, and often at little cost. That is the most I can say. But I believe that if others talk to the women in civilian ways, then they will find that the women are very available to them. SJG san_jose_guy Thank You Founder for reopening our threads, this will make for a big improvement October 17, 2019 Also, a couple of other things which work in my favor is that I do not drink. They girls get tired of people who are intoxicated, and so they do comment positively on my sobriety. Also they know that I am treating them like civilians. Some girls on stripper web have posted that they are smarter than 90% of the customers. I have no doubt that this is often true. Very often I can see that a new girl is favorably impressed from just briefly talking to me. The women who dance in our clubs are softer core. But even with those who are known to do OTC and who seem to be hustling for that, they and I get along well and they respond well to being treated in a civilian manner. SJG san_jose_guy Thank You Founder for reopening our threads, this will make for a big improvement October 17, 2019 One thing about our local clubs is that they are no mileage. And then one, Sunnyvale Hip Hugger, was really set up to promote talking. And so it is low mileage girls, and there can be lots of talk for low cost. So the manger told me that their girls were not just strippers, they were also pursuing education and other careers. I agreed and told him that they always had the smartest girls, and that mainly this seemed to be because it was more of a talking job. But I have had good results in every strip club I have ever been to. Not always good every visit. like we have had clubs which only have one or two girls at a time. Not always good, sometimes crossed wires. But the vast majority of visits and each and every club, usually very good. Now the worst clip joint in San Francisco is Deja Vu Centerfolds. It is intended for tourists, leading with the DV name. Girls can extract a lot of money. Very hard and expensive to get them to sit and talk. And harder to get any DFKing out of it. But still possible. If you intend to be waking up with the girl in the mornings, then still worth the costs. And we have had other high mileage girl venues, very nice to deal with the OTC providers. So I have learned from both types of experiences, mostly though by talking. That is how one gets to know a girl and some kind of rapport is established. But if it can be an onsite UHM and FRMOS experience that is even better, eliminates the need for car keys and wallet dating, the girl has already given up all she had to give. SJG san_jose_guy Thank You Founder for reopening our threads, this will make for a big improvement October 17, 2019 Most of the girls who dance in our local clubs, like the now defunct hip hugger, they show their stuff, all dolled up, and guys throw money at them. But they are still sleeping alone, still getting very little sex. So when they find a guy who treats them like a girl next door, they are likely to respond very positively. They will say things like, "This is my social time", meaning that they should not be seen as on duty pros. SJG SirLapdancealot nicespice's ATF masseuse đŸ†đŸŠ„đŸ€— October 17, 2019 All san_jose_creep's ways with stripper and AMP whores are a system of denial that he's paying them for GFE because his ego is huge. If he acts civilian with them, they want to be his real GF rather than give him GFE. If they kiss him, it's because they like him as a GF rather than it's part of GFE. These are simply forms of paid GFE that he doesn't want to admit. He even has denial as he pays them. It's not payment for the GFE. It's payment out of respect and care for her time as a real GF rather than a GFE service. His ego doesn't allow him to admit he's resorting to GFE with whores because no woman, civilian or otherwise, wants anything to do with his creepy ass in real life. Furthermore, it's so bad (his ego and his denial) with him that he has to believe that he's figured it all out over TUSCLers that just want to go and get lapdances. He doesn't even want to believe that others actually just want to have fun with strippers and get lapdances. Even that hurts his ego because it takes him back to his personal frustration of strippers that just wanted to do that only and NOT give him GFE. He's overly obsessed with getting GFE and pretending it's real.
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    5 years ago
    Interesting Encounter—Possibly the future of the dancer directory and this site?
    In all seriousness, if TUSCLers want the dancer directory to work and also more dancers in general to participate on the boards, then they need to do the following: 1) Reward and support it! Go see a stripper that posts her pics and schedule on her profile and support her at the club while also mentioning that it was great that she posted it all in her profile. 2) Don't be a creepy stalker to her in real life and don't push her for extras or anything beyond just stripping if you do engage her through PMs for the first time. 3) Interact with strippers on the board in a light hearted way and don't be a male chauvinist pig. Show respect. None of this is chemical engineering. 😝
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    5 years ago
    Interesting Encounter—Possibly the future of the dancer directory and this site?
    @nicespice LOL yeah I dicked around thinking about you in the comfort of my own home. But then again I also dicked around during our massages. Oh wait, that's the wrong kind of dicking. My bad. đŸ€·
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    5 years ago
    Interesting Encounter—Possibly the future of the dancer directory and this site?
    ^ that's why I'd rather TUSCL just be an unmoderated place for BOTH PLs AND strippers to simply share their perspectives. I hope that the TUSCL mentality doesn't become one as "anti Stripperweb" which in some ways it is.
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    5 years ago
    Interesting Encounter—Possibly the future of the dancer directory and this site?
    ^ you don't speak for them either. Of course we both speak for ourselves and of course everyone should use caution over the internet.
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    5 years ago
    Interesting Encounter—Possibly the future of the dancer directory and this site?
    My intent as a lurker is no different than having an account and doing the same thing: to check out a stripper to decide if I want to go see her. I don't see it as stalking and it's no different than being at a club and seeing a new stripper across the room and then deciding that you want to approach her. Either way, you're coming at her out of the blue.
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    5 years ago
    Interesting Encounter—Possibly the future of the dancer directory and this site?
    Also @nicespice FWIW there's a decent amount of Portland strippers that manage their own Instagram and Twitter accounts. It's not a majority percentage but they exist. And note that they can make those accounts private so they are only "out" to those that they choose to share info with. For example if you go the SinRock or Golden Dragon Instagram/Twitter sites you can find links to the individual stripper accounts through the posts. Some of those accounts are open, but many are private. LOL I know because I've tried to lurk them out of interest to go see them.
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    5 years ago
    Interesting Encounter—Possibly the future of the dancer directory and this site?
    @nicespice that dude is not really any different than some of us here that lurked first before making an account. By your description he's a young PL. Maybe not a n00b but still 'unseasoned' like many of us regulars here. I was no different when I was just getting into going to strip clubs more regularly. And I don't see any of it as creepy. He used TUSCL exactly as you intended by posting your info for both lurkers and active members to see.
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    5 years ago
    Interesting Encounter—Possibly the future of the dancer directory and this site?
    ...and let's not forget that by us PMing each other that we found the ideal club for both of us to meet...which in turn is where the dude in your OP went to go see you...
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    5 years ago
    Interesting Encounter—Possibly the future of the dancer directory and this site?
    So anyway @nicespice regardless of how strippers get here, I think the way you managed your profile during your trip out here would be ideal for all. One could find you by perusing the clubs that you posted you were working at, and then once they found you they could look at your pics and see the other club you worked at. Or, one could go to the dancer directory or see you post to the forums to find you. And if more strippers did this, even locally, it would help generate more site activity and more business for them. Both lurkers and active members would be able to get stripper information for their local clubs and those strippers would, in turn, benefit from possibly more potential business. The only downsides to all of this are the potential creepy TUSCLer and revealing oneself publicly.
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    5 years ago
    Interesting Encounter—Possibly the future of the dancer directory and this site?
    @nicespice so what made you decide to advertise your club and post pics of yourself and also invite PLs to pm you? Was it just nicole1994' posts? LMAO there is irony that she drew you in. When that happened you had a nice avatar pic which is what drew me to you. Then your posts and profile hooked me. Then I trolled nicole1994 and it set up our PMs. Then we met up. LMAO all because of her it turns out. đŸ€”
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    5 years ago
    Interesting Encounter—Possibly the future of the dancer directory and this site?
    @nicespice before you became a member, did you lurk the forums? Did you find value and safety in the site just as a lurker? I would think a stripper could get some perspective and learn things about PLs and clubs just from lurking. So to them it's enough just to do that rather than feeling the need to be more public about herself with an account and pics and such.
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    5 years ago
    Interesting Encounter—Possibly the future of the dancer directory and this site?
    @Muddy I think TUSCL should be for anyone involved in strip clubbing. I would hope that someday there's a better balance of dancers and PLs rather than mostly PLs.
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    5 years ago
    rickdugan
    Verified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
    Dancer touching two guys at the same time
    It's only happened once and with my ATF DS. One time I came in and sat next to her at the bar and I didn't realize that she was with another customer already. When I realized it, I messed around on my phone and ignored her. But then as I sat there and she was entertaining the other guy she would reach back and rub my leg but not let him see it. LOL in turn I rubbed her ass in one hand as I messed with my phone in the other. I didn't mind this because technically it wasn't my time to be with her.
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    5 years ago
    Interesting Encounter—Possibly the future of the dancer directory and this site?
    Forgot to mention that I found my ATF DS through lurking xoticspot.com. She worked at a club that I would have never gone too if it weren't for her posting pics of herself and being on their schedule. The TUSCL dancer directory has the same potential. However, FOSTA is what caused xoticspot.com to voluntarily shut down, so I dunno...
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    5 years ago
    Interesting Encounter—Possibly the future of the dancer directory and this site?
    Real chemical engineers don't need fucking suits. Hmph. đŸ€Ź
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    5 years ago
    Interesting Encounter—Possibly the future of the dancer directory and this site?
    @nicespice that you have a good reputation and you have integrity is why being known online is working out for you. If you were an ROB hustler your online presence might go against you. For being a member here I certainly exchange both good and bad interactions with other TUSCL PLs that I trust. In fact prior to meeting you another fellow local TUSCLer had told me you were a cool chick (LMAO and that you had incredible tits 😍).