Do you remember your 1st Lap Dance?

I remember my very first strip club visit, at the Admiral Theater in Chicago, had 2 air dances, one of which was by a girl named Rain, a fact I remember only because when I left, it was raining rather hard.

I didn't get my first actual lap dance until a few weeks later when I went to Heavenly Bodies by O'Hare Airport. I remember it was no touch and she wore lingerie for it. I think I had a blonde, but it may have been a brunette. I don't remember which was first.

Danny's, Memphis TN circa 1992. I was driving from CA to GA and decided to spend the night in Memphis. I asked the female desk clerk at the hotel where to go for a drink within walking distance. She named Denny's restaurant and that "bad girl place" 2 blocks down the street.

Naturally I decided on the "bad girl place". I had been to strip clubs in CA where it was just stage dancing. So that was what I was expecting. What a surprise I got. The place was rather brightly lit inside with wooden chairs facing the stage. Then I noticed dancers sitting on guys laps get dances with a lot of two way touching going on. I couldn't believe my eyes.

It was not long before one of the 30 or so dancers approached me for a dance and I eagerly accepted. I was shocked at how much touching I was allowed to do and she got me rock hard. I got so bold that asked her about coming to my hotel room. She simply replied "I don't know you well enough". Got a few more dances and then went back to my hotel room with blue balls.

Many of us senior citizens got our cherries busted at Danny's.

I don't recall the particular dance, but I know where it was and remember the dancer. As a side note, many years later, I was in the same location in a club by a different name. There I met the daughter of the previously mentioned first dance dancer.

I recall very little from 1975.

Any of you dancers wish to chime in here?

It would be interesting to hear of your 1st lap dance.

Given or received.

Two-song set at KOD in the summer of 2010 with this fine chocolate girl. Second song was "Fresh From Head to Toe" by Billy Blue. Every time I hear that song I think of the dance. My nose was so wide open (figuratively speaking) at the end. Current me would laugh at me from then.

When I was a young whippersnapper we had these things at some of the local dance clubs that I frequented called "reviews". Basically a team of 4-5 ladies that would strip on stage then walk around to the customers for tips. There were some creative ways to give the ladies their dollars. You could roll it up and hold it with your lips, stick it behind your ear, in your shirt collar and a few even dared to put it in their fly. They were wild times.

I'd have to say that it was during those times about 30 years ago that a stripper first put her hind end in my lap and wiggled it a little.

Eventually I progressed to other local strip clubs. There was no internet then, so you just sort of came upon them. The first LDK I can remember didn't happen until I was in my early 20s on a trip to Florida. My cousin took me out on my last night of visiting the south. We ended up at what I would now call your average strip club. We sat at the bar and tipped the girls after their dances. Eventually he prodded me to go get a lap dance (I'm pretty sure I'd had some by then but they were unmemorable). This girl took me over and gave me what was the best, most real lap dance I'd had to that point. Lots of grinding, stick shifting and eventually, I have her my last 3 twenties and told her to tell me when it ran out. She danced longer than she should have for that but made sure I left happy. A bit awkward walking out with the wet spot but it's a good memory.

1976 in a long since closed club on Peachtree Street in downtown Atlanta. Not really a lap dance as those really didn’t happen in Atlanta at the time. Still don’t for the most part. David Bowie’s Fame was the song. It was still a top ten at the time.

My first table dance would have been at Admiral Theater in Chicago in 1994. But first lap dance? I think it was Heavenly Bodies, but its hard to remember for sure.

I just hate to think of all the money I would have saved as young man without blowing it all on strippers and booze.

Buying dances is a chumps game. Front room makeout session, then when it is time for your own pants to come down, you invite her to the back room.

SJG

My first visit was early 1992 shortly after I had turned 21 in December 1991 - my 24 y/o coworker whom I hung out with outside of work from time to time invited me I guess sorta as a rite-of-passage but it wasn't something that was really on my mind.

This first visit was to what is now Deans Gold in North Miami - back then it was Solid Gold and owned/established by the guy that subsequently owned Solid Gold in Oakland Park near Ft Lauderdale (and now owns the new Solid Gold in Pompano after the Oakland Park location was forced closed by the city) - the original owner had sold it to this Dean guy and he subsequently changed the name but the club pretty-much remained the same M.O.

I was very-green and knew zilch about strip-clubs at that time in early-92 - my friend and I mostly sat stage-side and gawked - I don't even recall tipping much but didn't seem most people tipped at that time while sitting stage-side (at least at that club) - eventually towards the end of our visit my friend went and got a voluptuous blond to give us a floor-dance - she brought a mini-stand w/ her that she danced-on b/w us but we weren't allowed to touch - she was very attractive reminiscent of the upscale clubs back-in-the-day where mileage was low in many clubs and the girls were very-hot - she was blond and voluptuous w/ big full and firm natural Ds and a curvy-body w/ meaty-thighs and meaty hips and ass but was toned w/ a flat-stomach and a perfect all-over tan; she seemed mid-20s - IDK if contact dances were available at that time but that no-touch floor-dance was my first SC "dance".

Being that as far as I knew there wasn't any touching allowed, and I also didn't have much $$$ at the time, I didn't develop an interest for SCs at that time. About a year later (~1993) I went to my first black club, a small black dive at the time called Rolexx and now goes by Climaxxx - I went alone and again I was very green and was a PL-out-of-water - got dances from an ebony or two but they were kinda low-mileage, her standing in front of me at my table but not really grinding on me - I could feel her up some but not much - I saw a skinny dark-skinned girl grinding the shit out of some older black guy and I told my dancer that was I wanted to which she responded she didn't do that - anyway similar to my previous visit to Deans I was kinda underwhelmed and really didn't get the SC bug.

In the late 90s I was living in Palm Beach County (Boyton Beach) about an hour north of Miami since I was working in the area - I was away from my friends in Miami during the week so I visited a SC or two in that area out of boredom - that is where I think I got my first true two-way grinding lap-dance - it wasn't necessarily memorable nor amazing since at that time high-mileage dances seemed mostly frowned upon and most dancers didn't seem to provide them - that first grinding 2-way-contact LD was w/ a slim light-brown-skinned ebony in her mid to late 20s - she was the one that told me it wasn't a good-idea to wear jeans nor a belt to a SC (as it got in the way of a lap-dance) - I did a bit of SCing during that time in the late-90s while living in Palm Beach County basically out of boredom and something to do but the SC scene at the time didn't really blow me away - I didn't get hooked on SCs till I experienced Baby Dolls in 2000 when I moved to Dallas and got some quality lap-dances from quality-dancers in a quality-club.