Comments by Beat100

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I wrote the hashtag a long time ago. Mainly I wrote it because back in the day people on forums would "jump on me" which time I said anything controversial. They would immediately say, "You are just like X, Y and Z" and focus on arguing with me as opposed to giving me answers. Nowadays, I became better at writing threads. And also, I ignore people who are into arguing and "ad ad hominem" responses. I focus on the few people who write replies with substance. Any way, I deleted the hashtag since I view it as no longer necessary.

@sinclair 100%, that's what's already happening.

Guys, I think you are being too hard on me.I already gave you a big clue that one of the bigger stripclubs is hiring trans dancers or at least one trans or two trans dancers. It shouldn't be that hard to figure out which clubs or club. If you are a regular at this big clubs and visit their social media and start looking around you'll figure it out. I think naming the club in a public forum like this would jeopardize me. As I said I still have few contacts there that I might still end up hanging out there to see friends. They could easily blacklist me or spread the word to other clubs that I am "hurting" their business etc. I had an similar experience before(nothing to do with stripclubs) were I was "too honest" and then the people there wanted "payback" against me...etc. Why would I put myself in that vulnerable position just to prove something to you guys? It wouldn't make sense. Regardless, I am happy I created this thread since at least they'll be other guys who read this and be much more "alert" and won't victims of this type of practice, I'm satisfied with that.

I'd like to add that if they are letting in trans, its likely that other bigger clubs are also letting them in. Hence, why the only thing we can do at this point is be vigilant.

@Subraman All I am saying is that it's one of the bigger clubs. I had some friends who used work there as security..etc hence, why I don't want to throw them under the bus. But I am dissapointed to be honest.

@drewcareypnw Good comment. But I'm a bit more pessimistic/cynical than you in this regard. Nowadays, more young men are pressured to accept trans as just women, even that one's that have yet to get the full operation. Otherwise you get called "transphobic." In fact, some of the dating coaches and younger Sugar Daddies I used to be acquaint with would openly talk about dating trans. Some of the 'wokes" will try to sell the idea as this is a "discrimination' issue you can't prohibit trans from working at the stripclub. Since that's discrimination. Thereby, the clubs will "liberalize" more and let more trans join. It's already happening. It will be up you as an hetero man to discern who is trans and who is not which is not as easy at first glance. They'll have to be smaller clubs which are more selective..etc.

@muddy And nowadays some will not advertise themselves as such. Its hard to figure it out unless you see them in real life in broad daylight.

*I have no issue with LGBT individuals living their lifestyle as they wish. But this type of relentless propaganda on every app is overwhelming.

@londonguy I agree. I thin this is a hard time in history for young mna. I'd like to add that nowadays most guys in the USA, UK..etc. Tend to grow up without father figures due to divorce laws...etc. Imagine you are trying to "become" a man. You check out an apps like Snapchat and there's tons of LGBT content, promoting the gay lifestyle to young men. Again, I have issue with LGBT people but this sort of relentless content everywhere. To make matter worst the place you thought you were the safest in to be heterosexual, the stripclub now has tons of trans dancers. Since the owners don't want to be called transphobic.

@Tetradon It's unfortunate. But I'd say its already happening. I feel the owners of this websites and clubs just let it happen. Likely to not get called, "transphobe." @subraman On SA, there's some who are upfront but others who aren't. I had the experience of going on a date and on the date finding out the date was trans. It's something you have to watch out. I don't know if I can say the name of the stripclub. But its one of the bigger one's. It seems they and some nightclubs also have like "burlesque" type of nights. A few times and month. They also will let trans dancers in their club during other times. In my opinion, I feel the owners, just let it happen. They are not advertising it or being upfront about it but just let it be. In the same way like SA. I feel that for guys who are straight we need to be more vigilant and careful. But in my view, the people who are avid goers already know which one's are trans and they avoid them..etc.

It seems ironic, since if you show your watch/car/material good in any English speaking country most people don't care. Its only the whole women/dated which seems to elicit this "strong emotional" response/

@iknowbetter Great advice. What I'm getting at is that I slowly realized that with the money I'm making my life is getting slightly easier. Note that last year I worked at a job that paid me much less. But now I'm working for a larger business. It's not the job that is hard. But rather how things are set up. How if you are an entry level beginner your boss wants to book you less hours.

@heaving What is wrong with specifying the gender? I thought it would be the normal thing to do since I am not putting women in the bag. I'm not "talking on their behalf." Just wanting to bring light of a situation.

I don't know why you guys take this thread so negatively. I am talking about "Cultures" not about individual people. Also its ironic that Asian friend told me he didn't feel he vibed with the mainstream Asian community and praised my observations.

I think that a lot of you guys are misunderstanding pickup artistry or at least the one that is practiced by these guys in that you assume it works, when 90% it has nothing to do with women. I think 90% of the time the PUAs, their students and the rival coaches spend it with each other. In-Fighting, trying to scam each other for money, stealing products. It's a "rat nest" type of environment.

@ice Yes, I agree with you to an extend. It seems that some of these guys are "misfits" in their western country by it the USA or Western Europe. Hence, its hard to truly understand what is the truth. For instance, a lot of them said Canada was "awful" and very difficult to date there but I actually find most Canadian women easier to talk to than America women.

@eteofodin I used a broad term like "ring wing." But what I meant is it seems the guys who are more into doing the expat lifestyle seems to have some "conservative" believes. Maybe, you guys have a better term. I remember you guys analyzed PUA's very well. Average guy who follows Roosh/Expats forum that I've read -Seems to want to find a traditional wife to "submit" to him -Is critical of lefties -Tend to have yellow fever

I might visit in a few months. How is Scarlett's? I remember, I danced with a Brazilian dancer and she let me kiss her.

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@Call.Me.Ishmael Where else could I ask these questions? I search online, but it seems most forums are highly politicized, and most of them are sex-negative."How did you overcome purity culture and decided to pay for sex..etc." Most people would say, "Paying for sex is exploitation" or "I would never pay for sex or even pay to get a lap dance..etc." These types of ideas come from both the left and the right(progressives and conservatives). I even went to porn forums, and most guys there say, "I would never pay a porn star to hook up; thats' for losers." Yet most seem pretty happy to pay for porn. There's a lot of stigma around sex work, at least in the Anglosphere. This forum seems like one of the few places where you guys "overcame" Purity culture, and you go to strip clubs and sometimes are willing to get extras..etc. Hence you make for an exciting group to ask these types of questions. @Tetradon I appreciate it, man. My main issue with these groups is that they are engaged in some "Double bind." They are willing to help you in one area but radicalize you in another place. For instance, imagine you are a college student; all you are interested in is getting laid; maybe you are not even religious. You discover a "manosphere writer" who promises to teach you how to get applied. He does this. However, at the same time, he writes a lot of posts which "degenerate" the culture has become. It seems that most PUA instructors and manosphere writers are like this. They are willing to help you but also expect you to have toxic beliefs about some and society.

@jackslash Ok, lol. I wrote this when I woke up. @Everyone You and some guys here have to admit America; especially the Puritans, have very judgmental ideas towards men and women. Hence, you have weirdos like MGTOW parroting similar ideas. These guys have been socialized in that environment with these clear expectation of chastity. How come in places where there's no religion, most people don't care. You can't say there's no correlation.

@JamesSD Great insight, do you think its just daddy issues or it's a cultural thing?

@crosscheck When's the best month to go?

@skibum You do you. Honestly, I could never get married nor have a wife. I strongly separate sex from "emotional connections."