Comments by vixen7

RICK. as bad as this feels right now at least you own this....you have had a lesson that you will never forget and hopefully it will never happen to you again. Always know where your money is and when you get dances put your wallet in your back pocket since the girl will be possibly grinding on your front. If you do a champagne room where you remove clothing....place the wallet in a hard to get spot across the private room so you would know if she moved away from you to do something. Dont close your eyes for too long....expect the worst and hope for the best. Most of all take comfort in knowing that most of us girls are not like that but protect yourself in case you come across that one bad egg.

george trust me ...it is hard to even get fired as a stripper...reason being,...they need girls so bad and the more the better. I have seen girls walkout several times only to be allowed back ( supposed to be immediate dismissal if they do so). I have seen girls drugged off their gourd, assault customers, have fist fights..you name it...only thing i ever really saw anyone get fired for was getting caught pickpocketing and getting caught doing hard drugs.

not to be crude but she could have stuffed that money up her pussy or under her armpit.

I disagree with georg i think the first thing you should always do is alert club management because if they see a pattern with this girl...eventually she will get fired. no club is gonna keep a girl who is chasing away customers. I had alerted a club to a pick pocket dancer years ago and sure enough...she was accused again and then fired. Even women have their purses gone through!

as an entertainer i DESPISE this kind of behavior. Women...have you heard of karma? How bout repeat customers. Now you have not only " fouled" yourself, but your coworkers and the club itself .you dumb bi tch!!

Hi GG. I am Vixen, a dancer from WPB florida. TO answer your questions...not all people tip but i agree that $5 a dance is about average. Yes you may have gotten extras because since you spent alot of money on dances with one girl..she may have wanted to ensure you come back and see her again. IN my club, T's Lounge, they count our dances so unfortunately we cant do that. If a dancer wants a drink then sure.. by all means, buy her one. Some girls like myself would rather have the money though. If you really want to score points then ask the girl " would you like a drink or would you rather have this money as a tip?" If she gets greedy and says "both" then lose her as quickly as possible. Asking for extras would be quite refreshing if it was me..however if a girl dances around the question without giving you a straight answer then she probably is not going to do much more than dance in that room. I would say... So " sally... tell me.. what do you offer and for what price in the vip room?" A little tip GG... you should be able to keep it at around $150 - $300. If the girl is really hot she may tack on some extra cash. Thats up to you if you think she is worth it or not.

Very nice of you to "buy the girl a drink" but if you truly feel bad, let the girl make that call. If it was me.. (I don't drink) I would be more grateful for the money. Entertaining story and very nicely written. Thankyou!

thanks george... i KNOW what i am going to do next time. I am going to find out exactly who that customers wants and if its me i wont hesitate to join the party...lol

thanks george....actually the other people at his table were telling me that they wanted her to get lost ,...so yes another case of a polite customer not knowing how to get rid of a clingy dancer. Also....of course i did not say to him verbatim that he had to get rid of her,,,just that i couldnt come sit with them till she was gone, and briefly explained why. thanks for your input and help in figuring this out.

george...the guy came up to the stage. gave me about $20 in singles one at a time..and told me he thought i was amazing and would i like to join him. Is that misinterpreting it do you think? I briefly explained to him that he first had to get rid of my friend. Even the waitresses at the end of the night were saying what a waste of time and money that was because the guy had hundreds of dollars to spend and the other girl didnt even do a dance for him.

jack.... the best stripper name is the one i decided to use if i ever give up Vixen. "Viagara"

I MEANT IT TO BE FUNNY ,,GUESS IT WORKED

Regarding how we can work as a team...pointing out dancers on stage to the customers who are hesitating to tip.. hopefully they will do the same for you..realizing that the more dancers who show up for work, the more likely customers will stay for a while instead of having two drinks and splitting.... making nice remarks about another girl who is trying to close a sale ( in front of her prospect ). Third party input can be so powerful. Again, hopefully she will do the same for you. And finally.. shutting your trap when a dancer walks by the customer you are sitting with to get her tips. Again.... she should extend you the same courtesy. And finally..if a customer clearly likes another girl...for god sakes..go and get her for him. He obviously is not into you. Who knows, she may throw you a tip if she makes good money with him. Again...i could go on and on but if a dancer is rude to other dancers, it shows low self esteem and customers will pick up on that ..and possibly be turned off by it.

hi scott!...when was the last time you worked at t's?

HELLO zt! Vixen here. I am a dancer at T's lounge West Palm Beach. It makes me very angry when i hear of other dancers behaving in such poor taste because then it gives all of us a bad name. I have only been dancing for three months but am perfect for the job for a few reasons of which not all should be in print..lol. Lets just say I know what men like. You were more than nice to have gone along with the sob story. If the girl wanted to help her friend so much then why didnt she give her your Vip instead of taking it herself. Even better-SHE should have given her friend some money and btw...i Never heard of managers accepting tips. You got played my friend. I am a rare kind of stripper who always assumes my customers want to save money and pitch them the lowest priced room first. Terrible! I really have to change my mentality to thinking that if a guy wants vip treatment then he is willing to shell out a few c notes. We are the home of the 10 minute Vip room. I do alot of those cause i believe the price is more than fair and something a customer is unlikely to turn down. Now you can help me out. Should i be thinking differently about cost effectiveness? Times being tough as they are and the club being half empty most of the time leads me to want to sell on volume. In other words...go home with something instead of losing the sale to the girl who offers the cheapest room. What do you think?