Dancer Etiquite
vixen7
For starters, unless you own the club, the cusomers are not "your customers" they are the club's customers. Just because you attached yourself at the hip to someone does not mean that he is obligated to get dances from no one but you. Variety is what men want unless they specifically say they are content to spend the night socializing with you and only you.
Secondly, if a girl is on the stage, have the courtesy to shut your trap for a minute as she passes the customer whose ear you have chewn off, so she may get her tips. To disregard the girl there is very rude and low class. Shows no team spirit at all.
Thirdly, don't complain if someone else gets a sale you hoped for unless they blatently stole it from under your nose. You win some you lose some. No one likes a greedy dancer.
Ladies this is a tough business in tough times. Whether you realize it or not, the more girls in the club, the more customers will come in and the longer they will stay. It is not the (insert your name here) show. I could go on and on about respecting your coworkers belongings and leaving the stage when you are supposed to leave, but I will leave this short and sweet. Most likely the less I write the easier it can be digested. I would't want to invade the space in your head where it is full... of yourself.
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I would love to read an article from you describing the good and bad of your average day in the club. An honest description of your interactions with staff, mgmt and especially customers would be fun to read. And remember, at the bottom of every page on this site is written, "Everything written on this site should be considered a work of fiction." so no one can arrest you for any "extra" remarks!
Thank you for bringing up this point. Etiquette in a strip club, whether it is the part of the dancers, customers, or other employees is a subject of interest to me. I'd like your opinion/experience on one point: When I lived in L.A., it seemed to be a common courtesy, if not a house rule in all strip clubs, that dancers not approach customers for dances who are seated at the tip rail. Here in Seattle there is no such rule or courtesy. Even if I'm seated up against the stage, clearly and intently watching the dancer on stage, I'll still get approached by dancers with, "Wanna dance?"
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"I want variety. That does not mean I am opposed to having favorites and spending on her/them each time I come in. But unless you are prepared to dance exclusively for me, don't expect me to be exclusively yours either"
Variety is NOT what I WANT!! I'm a persistent & STRONG advocate of the ATF system. I wish to spend ALL of my time & money on my ATF. I pay well & won't occasionally begrudge my ATF doing a couple of Lappers for another semi-regular customer once in a while. But I usually expect her to be with me only while I'm there. My ATFs have usually been exclusive with me. This has been my situation for the last 2 to 3 years.
I also agree with Stiletto25.
What I am specifically against, and the way I read the OP, is these girls who "mark" you as being "their customer". That effectively cock blocks you, since the other dancers stay away. In some places It is worse than a pack of dogs coming in and pissing on everything in sight.
1. Children or what they are doing in school should not be discussed in a strip bar
2. either PAY or shut the fuck up"
Some people MIGHT describe me as an "Old Fart". LOL
But I DO NOT force any dancer to sit with me. My ATF chooses to sit with me her entire shift because it is her FREE DECISION. I go to the VIP with her several times & she is well compensated. I have no children but I enjoy talking about hers. And who are you desertscrub to declare that talking about one's children in a Strip Club is not to be done?!? I want to know my ATF as a REAL person, not as some "Fantasy" with a ridiculous stage name.
"shut the fuck up"
Why don't you take your own advice Sir!!!
I agree with your assertion that the dancer will do better if they act as a team. Perhaps the most memorable dancer I ever saw frequently not only thought well of me when I tipped other dancers, but she would often point out a new dancer who needed some confidence boosting and ask me to tip her or buy a dancer from her. I am certain that these qualities are what made me continue to return to the club to see her. Don't see much of that these days.
When I did my series of articles on building the perfect strip club I had there be three song sets. There was the introduction song which wasn't actually on stage, the performance song, and the tip collection song. There were a couple of rules regarding the 'performance song'.
1. All club employees in the lounge area applaud at the start and end of the song.
2, Any dancer with a customer in the lounge area they 'watch the dancer together' during the performance song. They can still talk and she can still be selling a private dance, but they don't leave until the performance song ends.
BTW - your pics are amazing!
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However, I hope you do work as a team. sometimes if I see 2 girls work well together, I want both of them. Plus sometimes I ask a girl about another girl, if they bad mouth the other girl, that is a huge turn off. It is a huge turn on, when they root for each other and help each other out. I went VIP with dancer A one week, but the next week I liked her friend J more. I usually feel bad when when I do that, but she was so sweet about it, I usually tip A, a 20 when I go in. Plus A and J are such good friends, they want me take them both back. Since they both do FS, this could be a fantasy come true!
I sat down at a side stage where a dancer was doing a private for another dancer who wasn't on shift. I didn't realize it, but I sat down, and the off-shift dancer asked me to pay for half the dance. I did ($10 bucks), and pulled out my wad of ones. I was ready to tip, and asked the off-shift dancer where I should put it. She obliged by pulling the dancer's panties out so I could stick in a one. We kept up the routine, and I got fairly decent contact where other guys weren't getting any. On the other hand, between the two of them, I got hoovered pretty well. I didn't mind, of course, because I got a lot of attention for a total price of $30, drinks and cover included. I don't know if the off-shift girl got anything out of it, but I'm sure it was reciprocated somehow later.