Pocket picked
rickdugan
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I've been doing this for a long time, so I view myself as a fairly savvy guy. But until the other night I never had my pocket picked.
I was at an all nude byob club and a very crafty girl managed to separate me from about $400. I had previously done some lapdances with her and, while we were in there, she got a good look at my wad when I paid my tab. Now I should mention that some carpet munching and other activities happened during my dance, which is not unusual in and of itself, but this was a club where this does not often happen, so this may say something else about the pathology of this girl.
I wondered why she came into the smoking area nude when it was freezing cold in the room, but now I understand. While she was hugging me naked (presumably for warmth) she was relieving me of the extra $$$ I had in my pocket. To her credit, it was masterfully done, but I hope she enjoyed the extra cash that night. I spend a lot in the clubs each year and I had taken a real shine to her, so that $400 probably cost her what several times over what she would have made if she had not pulled that stunt.
We live and learn.
I was at an all nude byob club and a very crafty girl managed to separate me from about $400. I had previously done some lapdances with her and, while we were in there, she got a good look at my wad when I paid my tab. Now I should mention that some carpet munching and other activities happened during my dance, which is not unusual in and of itself, but this was a club where this does not often happen, so this may say something else about the pathology of this girl.
I wondered why she came into the smoking area nude when it was freezing cold in the room, but now I understand. While she was hugging me naked (presumably for warmth) she was relieving me of the extra $$$ I had in my pocket. To her credit, it was masterfully done, but I hope she enjoyed the extra cash that night. I spend a lot in the clubs each year and I had taken a real shine to her, so that $400 probably cost her what several times over what she would have made if she had not pulled that stunt.
We live and learn.
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Man, that is really messed up. You would think she would appreciate that you've given her business MULTIPLE times, but I guess that isn't enough these days. Sorry to hear about your loss man.
I told the girl that if she was that interested in my cash an OTC romp (described in explicit language) would give her a good chunk of it. She turned bright red and terminated our encounter. I did not pay for the lap dances.
Like you said, live and learn. And like my grandfather said, or you don't live very long.
That girl may be even more talented than you're giving her credit for......
As everyone else has said we learn from our mistakes. No point in seeking retribution.
Of course I cannot absolutely prove that it was her, but I had it before I went into the smoking area, which was right before I left the club, and I did not have it when I was in the car. Another reason I suspect her is that she does not smoke, it was cold as hell in this room and this is not a club where the girls normally pad around naked off the stage, yet she followed me out there nude. She had also already turned me down for OTC.
Net-net, her going out there like that just made no sense unless it was to (1) help relieve me of my remaining cash; or (2) she really just wanted to cuddle ;) I was also drunk and very attracted to her (that damned hot Italian thing going on), so no doubt I was an easy mark.
shadow, I agree that I need to rethink the flashing the wad thing, at least in dicier clubs.
Now as to her being naked, it was a small roll of 20s and a couple of Benjamins, so it would have been easy enough to palm.
But confronting her is pointless as I will never be able to prove it, so all it will do is cause drama. Ad I NEVER say anything to club management as, given my normal activities, I do not want to be within a mile of their radar.
It really is too bad as I was smitten with her and she likely would have cultivated a good regular, but instead took me for a one-time short score.
We live and learn.
But in the future I'll need to figure out a way to secure my cash a little better.
I still wonder which one of the 17 girls I "danced" with picked my pocket.
For those of you who said that $400 is a lot, not really in terms of my normal SC spending, so the money was not the issue so much as the principle of it. Not only has she lost a lot of money, but so has her club.
But there it is.
From your summary of the events, it does sound like she would be a prime suspect. That said, i don't see anything positive coming from a confrontation. I would, however, mention it to the manager as an aside. Perhaps he has heard of her doing it in the past. If so, getting rid of a thief is almost as good as getting rid of a ROB!
For me, spending $80 at the strip club is a lot. But I'm a college student, so it's understandable why.
Even though my budget is tight, I can still have a really good time with only having $80 or so to spend.
That said, I can't even imagine how much fun it would be if I had the type of money you have to spend. I wouldn't be able to control myself. :)
I keep my cash on a money clib in my left pocket (and sometimes cell phone) and at the extras friendly club I am VIP usually around $300-$500. The last time about a week ago I had BJ and Sex from a 20 yr old blonce for $200. If I take them up to VIP, they almost alwas want sex as thats lots more $ than just a couple of dances. None of them have tried to rip me off and since I do not drink alcohol it would be tough for them to reach in there un-noticed. You just have to negotiate the price before they go to work on Mr H LOL.
The only way to protect yourself is be mindful of your cash and hedge your bets i.e. multiple pockets.