Rookie to strip clubs! Needs experienced advice
GGz12
went to a topless bar for first time recently (girls are only topless on stage)..been a few times this week have spent around 100-200 each time and plan to go again soon, even told a dancer id be back to see her, i had a question, how often do dancers let you slide on paying for dances? i.e. i didnt have enough for the amount of dances i got but she let me slide maybe because i bought her a drink. who knows. anyway, i plan to spend another couple hundred on her in the coming days.. is there anything i should know seeing as im a rookie? just looking for some advice.. should you buy dancers drinks? how much should you tip for a lap dance? etc etc.. do you ask for extras or wait for them to bring it up?? any advice would help thanks
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last commentIf you've been to a club or two, why not write some reviews? Some folks here may be able to benefit from your info.
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First, let me welcome you to TUSCL and the dynamic world of strip clubs. There are a lot of great guys and gals on this site that can give you excellent advice. But here are a few things to remember.
*Have fun.
*The main goal of a stripper is to separate you from your money. Never forget this. Its not about you, its about your money.
*I have asked and have been asked about extras.
*I tip based on performance--experience will help with this. To start, for two LDs at $25 each that you are satisfied with, I would tip $10.
*Buying a dancer a drink is totally up to you. Some guys do it a lot, I typically do not.
*Don't get emotionally caught up with a single dancer--they come and go. However, some guys do develop long-term relationships, but its not too common.
As I mentioned, many others here can give you better advice than I can. But, get out there, have fun, and enjoy the learning process. We've all made mistakes, spent too much money, but still have a good time. And as always, YMMV (your mileage may vary).
Good luck and again welcome. Let us know how things go.
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Thank you, honestly i wouldn't buy a dancer a drink unless i knew i was going to get a private dance in hopes of possibly getting a better dance.. dont know if thats a sound idea or not, lol.
my main question for tipping though is 2-4-1s.. im very hard pressed to pay $20 for a 2minute song.. if i were to get five 2-4-1's for $100 (10 songs) would $20 be an acceptable tip, and do you reccomend tipping more in hopes of possibly getting more out of it the next time you come since she knows you tip big?
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Thank you, Ztrzi, that does help a lot. I will definitely remember what you said
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If anyone else could lend me some of their wisdom it would be very appreciated, thank you all i've been reading old discussions it helps a lot
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Be up front let her know what you want.
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What city do you live in? Strip club experiences can vary a lot depending on what city you go to.
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baby the more you tip the more your going to get.
mikaylas law XXX
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Hi GG. I am Vixen, a dancer from WPB florida. TO answer your questions...not all people tip but i agree that $5 a dance is about average. Yes you may have gotten extras because since you spent alot of money on dances with one girl..she may have wanted to ensure you come back and see her again. IN my club, T's Lounge, they count our dances so unfortunately we cant do that. If a dancer wants a drink then sure.. by all means, buy her one. Some girls like myself would rather have the money though. If you really want to score points then ask the girl " would you like a drink or would you rather have this money as a tip?" If she gets greedy and says "both" then lose her as quickly as possible. Asking for extras would be quite refreshing if it was me..however if a girl dances around the question without giving you a straight answer then she probably is not going to do much more than dance in that room. I would say... So " sally... tell me.. what do you offer and for what price in the vip room?" A little tip GG... you should be able to keep it at around $150 - $300. If the girl is really hot she may tack on some extra cash. Thats up to you if you think she is worth it or not.
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" I would say... So " sally... tell me.. what do you offer and for what price in the vip room?""
what if her name's not sally?
joking ;)
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Oh, about the champagne room, I have another bit of advice. Make sure you remember to tip the waitress who gets your champagne and/or sets up your spot in the champagne room. I made the mistake of not tipping the waitress for one such incident. It just completely slipped my mind and never occurred to me that I was supposed to tip her for that. I guess I was focused on other things. Anyway, it resulted in some poor treatment from that waitress. I will not go into details, but when I, with the help of a dancer, figured out what was going on, I went up to the waitress and apologized, handing her a $20 bill. I think that fixed things.
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Around here, the tip keeps them out of the VIP. They're supposed to go in every 10 minutes or so and make sure nothing's going on.
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Stay the fuck out of Champagne Rooms. They are way over priced.
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After the first time, I generally do. It serves as a trial run. :)
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Stay out of champagne rooms? I am a bit confused. What is the alternative? Every champagne room I have ever been in provided significantly higher quality service than any part of any club outside of a champagne room.
I am a little unclear. It serves as a trial run for what? Are you referring to OTC encounters?
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Ztrzi: Yes. If she'll put out in VIP, chances are she'll do the same OTC. If she does OTC at all, that is.
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If a dancer let you slide on paying, be sure to pay her next time you see her. This is their job and they deserve to be paid. Also, you don't want to get a reputation for not paying. That will make all the dancers avoid you.
I always buy dancers drinks when they sit and talk with me. I think it's only polite.
Extras vary by club and by dancer. I first get a couple dances in the private VIP room to see what limits they have. During the first dance I touch her boobs. During the second I touch the pussy outside the thong. During the third dance I slide my hand inside the thong. If a girl is okay with my touching the bare pussy, then it's time to ask about extras.
My best advice is to be generous. The girls want to make money and will treat you better if you spend more.
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