Comments by BobbyI (page 15)

how: you would hope so. that is the ideal and the offical story. however, in reality, things are a little different...

njcsfan still dodging the issue of whether it is ok that he lies to wife so he can fuck 20+ hookers a year.

clubman: well at least you are being reasonable now. I also do not recall you going ballistic and saying that if it was real life you would commit assault, which is what child-of-an-alcoholic njcsfan did. I do recall several posters saw no offense implied in the original post. Many even thought it was comical that others were reading way too much into it and over reacting. In any case, now you admit that there might have been no offense intended. Oh, but njcsfan is so certain that he was right (have ever seen admit that there was chance he might be wrong about something on here? hint: alcoholic fathers never admit their problems with drinking and anger) that he would have punched someone if he could. The ambiguity, in a sane person, would at least rule out an assault. But I guess not for child-of-an-alcoholic njcsfan. And, as I say, his over-reaction is perfect a demonstration of the "dementia" he imagines in others. But not that you have made me think about I see, I am being foolish to ask njcsfan to come clean with his wife. His misogyny is no-doubt a consequence of his relationship with his alcoholic father. First he needs to admit and come to terms with that. Maybe njcsfan should save a bit of that money he spends on whores and invest it in marriage counseling? Then we won't have to put up with allusions to assault here? Hmmm?

I don't remember David9999 saying he had sex with strippers. I do remember him saying they were throwing themselves at him but he turned them down. But if you are right and he did have sex with them (can you quote a thread) despite the fact that he is married then he is as big a scumbag as you (assuming he is for real). I am not sure who else you are referring to. I know chitown lawyer pays women for sex, but my understanding is that he does this with his wife's consent. As for shadowcat, there was something going on with a stripper when he was married and I think it contributed to his divorce, but I am not sure if it included sex or not. Again, if it did he is as a big a scum bag as you and good on his wife for divorcing him. And you keep missing the point about "defender of women's health". If the risk taken is consensual then it's ok. But your wife gets no consent because she has no knowledge of what you are doing. Pretty fucking simple, njcsfan. You keep pretending like you don't understand this, by I know you get it, and hence all your guilt. As for wondergrl. Yeah, I just attacked her out of the blue. What a retard you are. She was displaying her trademark passive aggression at me forever. I didn't attack her though. I just asked her to just come out and say what her problem was, but she won't. Just more cheap shots. So again I pointed out her passive aggression and manipulative, and she flipped out first. (Now I'll admit there was some silliness on both side in the ensuing discussion, but as of now I think we're on ok terms. Unlike you and parody, and MisterGay she is capable of being reasonable and doesn't hold grudges forever.) But now, let's look at the real reason njcsfan is mad at me: njcsfan frequently used to agree with me on controversial threads. Indeed he even said something like my posts were often "very reasonable". But this all turned around when a couple of bad things happened to him: a) chandler called him down for not being the stud he was because he still had to pay for it; b) chandler and myself both pointed out how whipped he was by wondergirl Apparently he is very sensitive about wondergirl for some reason. He even said he would punch someone out if it was real life because the guy said this particular stripper had nice breasts, which I would say is a complement to a stripper. (And he calls me "demented", well let me tell you folks, this is how I KNOW that his father was an alcoholic?) Did anyone flip out even 1% as much as njcsfan over that complement? Ok, so here's what's really going on, no doubt: The guy obvious has anger management problems. Probably due to an alcoholic father. And if he is banging 20+ hookers a year and not telling his wife, he clearly has marital problems too. He says it's just about the sex, but I think from his defensiveness of wondergirl we know that he is really look for some female friendship to fulfill something missing in his marriage. Why else would he flip out like he did? Did anyone else get even 1% as mad? But, in the end, it's just really disappointing to see that njcsfan cannot answer the question. Even if I was lying on this board (I have not) it would not be even 1/100 as bad as the lies he tells his own wife. njcsfan it's obvious that you are the one who hates women. Your wife especially. Just end these debates and do the right thing and tell her!

^^^ anyone who asks njcsfan if it is ok that he lies to wife so he can fuck 20+ hookers a year is "demented". Hey dude, does thinking that helps ease your conscience about what you are doing to your wife?

njscfan: trying to change the topic. wants to debate politics, rather than own up to lying to his wife. <sarcasm>Yeah, I can see his logic. If anyone anywhere else in the world ever told a lie to anyone about anything even if there were no consequences then his lying to his own wife is ok.</sarcasm>

It's a pretty simple question but one that njcsfan has just proven he is too scared to answer: Even if it were true would it would be worse for someone to lie on an anonymous internet message board with no real consequences or for someone to lie to their wife so they could fuck 20+ hookers a year? njcsfan knows the answer to this question, but is too chicken shit to say it here. Just like his to chicken shit to own up to his with about his dishonesty to her. Even parody and MisterGay aren't going to say that lying to your wife is better, njcsfan. Shit you know what I think of them, and I think you are way bigger dirtbag than they are! Anyway this one's a slam dunk for me!

I was thinking about this some more and now I think I realize why njcsfan attacked David9999 for his "lying" and then danced in glee in the aftermath. njcsfan semi-consciously hates himself for the lies he tells his wife (and rightfully so)! David9999, according to njcsfan (but nowhere near proven) was just a teenager goofing around on a message board with no real consequences. But what njcsfan is doing is risking very real consequence to a real person. Or perhaps, to an entire family. njcsfan decided that rather than dealing with problem of his own dishonesty he would just attack David9999 to ease his conscious, b/c in his highly irrational mind a "teenager goofing around" was some how worse than he is. Yeah, right njcsfan! I just hope you come to your senses and make things right before it is too late. (I can just see him not doing that, but instead trying to turn the thread around on me in a feeble attempt to ease his own conscience.)

The trend over the last decade or so has definitely been that as the economy has tanked the girls have been willing (desperate) to do more and more for less and less. During the stock market bubble even the cows could score $1k a shift w.o. even giving a HJ.

funny: njcsfan who lies to his own wife so he can have sex with 20+ hookers a year, is going on some tirade about people lying on the internet? Dude, even if you were right (which you aren't), you seriously need to get your priorities straight. Let him who has not sinned cast the first stone and all. (guess your alcoholic father was too busy sucking back the JD's to teach you that one, huh?)

Say what? CG didn't say or even imply that he wished the Axis would have won. You are just charging at some silly windmill. Probably he was just proposing it as an hypothetical example in strategic thinking and/or thinks he has a take on this "what if" question that hasn't been considered before.

^^^ p.s. just make sure those Muslims are required to use protection, because the world does not need more muslim babies.

Your sort of on the right track. I think a big solution to the war on terror is effectively attacking the enemies fundamental ideology. I think their big Achilles Heel is their uptightness about sex. Yeah, so send stripper/whore brigades into Iraq (hell they're "expendable" if it doesn't work out, anyways?) to fuck and corrupt the Iraqi men. Drop "porn bombs" on the Muslims (i.e. Drop boobs, not bombs!) In time they'll see sex isn't really so bad, so what good is their worthless religion doing them anyway? Now that is a true long term strategy toward winning the war on terror. Let the suicide bombers "explode" inside a young stripper's pussy instead of blowing themselves and innocent bystanders up.

Aw, njcsfan still mad at me because I told the board about his alcoholic father. Dude, you got to move on.

OTOH, parody probably already has everything in the books (hence his poor helath and consequent bitterness at the world we see demonstrated over and over again here.) The bigger concern would be the OP acquiring something from rabid, old parody and his countless STDs. (p.s. I bet MisterGay is going ballastic about me and my "downplaying" after I mentioned the hep-A vaccine.)

It's not me, but Doug has an interesting idea. parody is a fucking faggot, no doubt. Maybe oral/anal sex is his thing. By performing oral-anal sex parody would be putting himself at risk of acquiring Hep-A, although I am not sure how great the transmission risk is. The good news, for parody, is that there is a vaccine for Hep-A. So I say if it's parody's thing, get the vaccine and go for it! (But, OTOH, I get the feeling parody is really cruising to get his tongue up shadowcat's ass. Hence all the schoolyard teasing, and pretending he doesn't really like him.)

Hey, arbeeguy. I remember watching a show on the history channel about the Battle of Midway. I know the US was really pushing the envelope with the information they got from the cracked Japanese codes. Does the book you recommend get into that?

I think you're living in the past, Dick. The Republicans, far from being a capitalist/business part are just as nanny state as the Dems. Might have been time when the Repubs were more capitalistic, but that is ancient history now. George Bush ever turn down money to anyone? Heck, with a $500 billion deficit and a $9 trillion debt, what's another billion, or even tens of billions here and there? Oh well. The American public lives in a completely solipistic non-reality were there is no consequence to any of their actions (witness the credit collapse. Hmmm... If you borrow money you are going to have to repay it... duh!) Only a few more decades of American dominance and then China and India will be the real players at this rate.

Who knows what shadowcat is like in real life? Even if everything jablake says is accurate, there's still a couple of problems. What about the evidence SC does not hate women in general? (I have no desire to comb through his posts to find it. I am sure, however, jablake is cherry picking SC worst moments, which might not exemplify his over attitude, and if someone cherry picked the archives he could make an equally strong case the other way.) Maybe it's just strippers he dislikes? Almost all of jablake's examples involve strippers. I don't think there is enough evidence to say. In general, I think posters highly rate their powers of psychological insights on this board, and what they can conclude about people's real lives or personalities. Even much smaller "logical" extrapolation get them into trouble. And SC's biggest enemies, parody and MisterGay, are well known for just loving to fight rather than providing any real ideas of their. Not even real fights against real people and positions. oh no! That would be hard. Just trouncing of ridiculous caricatures.

Not sure why clubman freaked out so much. Sore loser?

As proof of my power struggle thesis, you'll notice how often the guys on this board will go on and own with their endless debates about shit which has absolutely nothing to do with strip clubs (e.g. politics). Just trying to prove to each other how clever they are, but appearing as clowns to everyone else.

"All and all this whole 'dark' world is no diffrent from life." Do you mean TUSCL or the strip club world? Either way, I'd say neither is anything like real life. Least not my world. This board, at it's best moments, has a few brief instance of good information exchange. However, for most it's first and foremost a power struggle. For some (njcsfan) to compenstate for alcoholic fathers and low middle class upbringing. For other, like MisterGay and parodyman-->, because they are complete losers in the game of life and have no mind. Other real life failures, like chandler, are certainly more intelligent than MisterGay or parody, but still trying to prove something nevertheless. If you are comparing it to strip clubs. Well a strip club is just a bunch of people lying and using whatever it takes to take advantage of others. Real life, at least mine, is much a much more co-operative thing. Not saying completely devoide of competition, but at least where I work, we see that someone does not have to lose for someone to win. And the customer is high regarded. Nope. Strip clubs and TUSCL = nothing like real life. Less power struggle and more ethics in the latter. At least in my world.

^^^ LOL. sarcasm. Seriously. You should share them. With mindless idiots like parody, and MisterGay running around doing nothing more than telling pooh jokes, the board could sure use some insightful posts. Show us what you got!

An electra complex? penis envy?

I think the reviewers try to be accurate. The problem is that many reviews are written by very casual customers, so they don't really know what's going on. They might think a HJ at a club for $80 is a big deal, when actually FS is common at the club. Or they have fallen for one of the dancers and praise her excessively. Also guys have a pretty board range in what they consider attractive, so that information is rarely useful. I doubt that many deliberately try to post bogus or useless information. It's just due to their lack of experience. Although some very experienced club goers also demonstrate an incredible lack of insight.