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16 years ago
Yes...points well taken. I occassionally go to the world famous Mons and this is one of the few clubs I still get dances at. The girls always start at 30per and I usually drop that successfully to 20. Supply and demand is what should determine prices. I recently stopped in at a club that is rigid about a 30 dollar dance price. Kind of steep to me, but hey if you can get it great. But, the girls are always sitting around in there. There are usually other factors too, but for most guys a 30 dollar dance price is too much.
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16 years ago
Al Gore has stated we can make as many stops as we like, his only requirements are that we all buy carbon credits for the trip.
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16 years ago
well...if not MT or AK then how buot Gary Indiana??
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16 years ago
thank god I have you guys around for some enlightenment and positive feedback. I'm on my way to the SC right now for some PET.
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16 years ago
Right now i have a bad-ass daisy double pump in my closet!!!
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16 years ago
Dennis Miller said of Janet Reno when describing her, "talk about Lithgow from Garp," as in from the 80s movie the world according to garp w/robin williams. John Lithgow played a trans-sexual who spent the movie dressed up as a woman.
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16 years ago
Dear David9999, who said the famous quote, "talk about Lithgow from Garp?" And who was he referring to? If you know the answer to this ur certainly not 15. It really doesn't matter to me, I enjoy all your guys posts, urs, njscfan, jablakes, shadowdogs, nookguy, fondu, everybody. I'm sorry this post sounds so emotional buy I just wanna let u guys know how much i luv y'all.
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16 years ago
Some clubs pay the girls minimum wage or near that, some clubs don't pay anything. They just play with the numbers as far as tip outs, etc...I have even heard that Admiral theatre in chicago offers health insurance, probablyl with the girls picking up some/most of the tab. Even so, its nice that there are establishments that attempt to make it beneficial for the girls to stick around.
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16 years ago
Heres a great idea to see if a woman likes you for you. Before she comes to your place pinch a big loaf in the toilet and dont flush it and make sure she sees it, then see if she stays or goes. Great test, highly reccommended.
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16 years ago
There have been many great points raised here. My question comes from experience. I have known a few men, myself included, who have/had a great woman in their life just to run off to the SC looking for attention in some way from a stripper. Very perplexing and self-destructive. I also agree with BobbyL, sometimes a person may delude themselves into believing a dancer/sex-worker is wonderful, moreso that is true. Not that they can't be in some ways, but usually we are lying to ourselves.
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16 years ago
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minnowAny place that interests me.
Off topic a little bit, but back in my mongering days I would switch my so-called ATF often, sometimes out of boredom sometimes just to keep them guessing. One ATf i had for a while freaked out when I started getting dances from another dancer in the club. If you let these girls think your putty to them then that's how they will treat you. Always remember, you call the shots financially and have power too. Use that power wisely. Just my 2cents.
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16 years ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
Really, we should be discussing how much more effective confidence is in dating women. Its an incredible aphrodisiac for many women, for sure. Some people like to say it takes money, or game, or good-looks only, etc....but confidence might just be the most important factor.
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16 years ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
Lets not all forget that we are discussing what women want, and/or are attracted to, in a stripclubforum. The assertion that its common knowledge women are turned off by nice guys and like jerks would be what I expect in a stripclub. Mr real girlfriends, the ones with class and self-respect, don't go for jerks. They have all been attracted to me at one time or another and I consider myself a nice guy. Exactly what quality of woman wants a jerk, or I guess she can't help herself. This guys assertions, David9999, are complete bullshit. You wanna score with more women then increase your odds by hitting on more of them..various factors will determine your success, not the bullshit espoused here.
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16 years ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
gee David9999 seems to suggest again to just have the attitude that you will bang anything and put out that "seed spreading" vibe. now thats original. I'm sure that is exactly what's required to get you into bed with lots of hott chicks....hey I'm puttin out the pulse, ooh oohh yeah baby I spread my seed,,,oohh yeah u can't resist cuz its in your DNA...ooohhyeah baby I'm a seed spreader u cant resist my seed spreading powers....
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16 years ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
Here's a great story about the young hottie thinking she can hold men emotionally hostage just because the guy might have a chance at scoring. Recently, I pursued a very attractive young lady I met at a bar. We went out had a good time, there was a little oral sex involved, then we became phone friends. I wanted more, she apparently didn't. She understood this and used this against me in the most devious ways in order to demonstrate her power over me, i suppose. I started to ignore her phone calls and this seemed to really peeve her. Who was I to ignore her phone calls. I ignored her texts too. This went on for a couple of weeks then I took a phone call from her and said its time to say goodbye, have a nice life. Man, that felt good!!!!!!!!!
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16 years ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
Man. That is one long post. Too much to comment on and i really dont wanna anyway. Much of your post is true especially if you hang out at stripclubs. But, There is a whole class of different women out there who aren't players, users, haters, manipulators,etc...I still say just be yourself and meet women everywhere, anywhere.
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16 years ago
Interesting report. Sounds like you got your moneys worth. I would probably have some of the same negatives you experienced.
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16 years ago
u should take one of them to church with you and both of you pray about what is the best thing to do.
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16 years ago
I will make this real short and sweet...this is just another example why I got out of the sex-for-hire game. I don't miss it a bit. Neither does my wallet.
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16 years ago
Most of the topics posted on this discussion board are far from misogynist, even tbe ones that some people claim are aren't very alarming. Lets see, one guy posts about smelly vaginas and another asks if all strippers are stupid. Gee, this is really hate-filled bile here. The pollyannas on this board need to get a grip. We are here to broach any subject anybody has on their mind, if it doesn't interest you don't reply. Oh, and for the record I love strippers and am grateful for their existence.
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16 years ago
Njscfan is really revealing himself to be a total tool. Some guy posts about how he doesn't like smelly pussies at the SC and njscfan goes on some rant about double-standards and how customers are really the ones who smell bad. He states it's difficult to "catalog" all the problems he has with that post. Evidently, some dude can't state he doesn't like smelly pussies or the LORD OF STRIPCLUBS NJScfan will talk about it being typical stripper bashing. Then this guy goes into how guys who constantly bash strippers might actually be gay. Say what? I gotta theory to advance, it goes like this. Guys who constantly feel the need to be protective of their precious strippers have serious "sensitivity" issues and actually might be latent homosexuals. I always kinda wondered about guys who toss out the gay card like this guy does, whats really going on with this guy?
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16 years ago
njscfan...I will assume your last post was directed towards me. Hmmm...do I find strippers disgusting? On occassion yes. If you were honest with yourself youd admit the same I'd bet. So, I guess we could start a therapy group. In every walk of life, in every profession, there are people I find disgusting. it depends on an individuals conduct. There are a few strippers who I have befriended that are good people. I'll be sure and remember your advice when I'm at the club next time and not be hostile towards the women there, oh wait, i can't remember a time that has ever happened but you assume thats the case. i suggest you also recognize your issues, I have assumed you spend WAY TOO MUCH TIME in the stripclub, you should cut back. Oh and work on your pseudo-pop psychology because you have proven how far off you can be. Not that I have to prove anything to you.
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16 years ago
we do a lot of comparing sex workers to other professions and would we want our offspring in certain professions and is there really a difference. there is the argument that many professions are dangerous and fatal at times. some argue i wouldn't want my offspring doing this or that career. I dont view it as a matter of potential for harm or death, but rather one of honor. You can die honorably in many professions, such as military or police/fire services. you can get hurt in virtually any profession. Its a m atter of honor. Would anybody here argue its all the same say perhaps explaining that my son/daughter died fighting in a foreign land, he or she died with honor, or explaining that my daughter died of aidsbecause she worked in the sex industry.
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16 years ago
Destigmatize the sex industry? good luck. I will agree there is a lot of the madonna-whore complex at work here. The original post states that we should be happy to have sex workers and view them as providing a service we can freely choose or not. I agree. Since were all on the bandwagon to give strippers and sex workers their legitimacy then how bout we demand the same rules of conduct we all have to adhere to in our careers? You know, like no lying to the customers, cheating, stealing, manipulating, the customer is always right, etc...Go to usasexguide and read all the posts about ROB's and false promises, providers who cash and dash, threats, etc...I dropped out of the extras/escort/OTC/amp scene years ago because i viewed it as a waste of time and money. I like to go to a club and view some beautiful women and thats all i need now. If that's your scene so be it, i make no judgements. But we all know there are many workers in this industry who have no business ethics. There are some that do, too. Some of you call it the hustle and seem to like it. I believe that even in the sex industry a worker can conduct oneself in a way that has nothing to do with hustling. Since most sex industry patrons still want to remain anonymous there is a built in safeguard for the sex worker that there will be no retribution.
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16 years ago
I question a lot of the statistics that I hear regarding anything...but that doesn't mean they can't be true. Would it surprise any of us to learn that many of these claims are way off the mark? These are some of the claims I have heard in the news just recently, some from credible sources others not. There are 2 million homeless in this country...somebodys identity is stolen every 3 seconds(lmao at that one), 1 in every 5 adults has genital herpes(probably high), we have 10 yrs. to reverse global warming(ok, not a statistic but you know what i mean), sorry to say a lot of people believe this nonsense and never stop to question anything.