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njscfan
I took my young dancer on my business trip and it went pretty well. We had a slightly bumpy start because she picked up a bad cold that moved into her bronchial tubes just before we left, so she was a little under the weather. But she was a trooper about it, and by the second day her antibiotics kicked in and she was fine.

Basically our routine was: I'd get up early in the morning and go to work, while she slept in; during the day while I was working, she'd find something to do to entertain herself; I'd get back to the hotel around 6:30; we'd go out to dinner and then a bar or a movie or a club; and then we'd go back and fuck, go to sleep, and start over again the next day. (On one occasion I woke her up for morning sex.)

Compared to buying escorts on the road, I thought this had a couple of different advantages:

Economics: Compared to escorts, the per fuck cost of this was less. The only added cost for the trip was her plane ticket. So basically it was an "all you can eat" deal for $300 per day. If I am traveling, I am going to have to use an agency rather than an independent, and the agency girls are usually pretty strict about charging by the hour, so if you want a 2 or 3 hour session, you are going to have to pay for it. On balance, even with incidentals thrown in for dinner, etc., this was less.

Convenience: No need to hunt down a service, make arrangements for the girl to come to your room, wait around for her to show up, etc. She was just "there."

Reliability: I knew exactly what I was getting. With the escorts, no matter what the pictures look like on the website, you never know what she will look like until she walks through the hotel room door. And with the escorts, it can be hit or miss in terms of performance.

The "sleepover factor": I know many of you are from the Charlie Sheen school of thought (you don't pay the girl for sex; you pay her to go away afterward). But for me this is a plus. I like sleeping with the girl after sex, and I like having a companion for dinner, etc.

Those were the plus factors. The big potential downside, of course, is the risk that you won't get along. Being stuck with someone on a trip who you can't stand would be a disaster. Fortunately, we had a pretty good feel for each other before the trip, and we were both laid back about dealing with each other and giving each other space. So we got along fine, and actually had some genuine "fun" together.

On the other hand, I do think her extremely young age (20) put a damper on things. For one thing, she looks really young. (One amusing moment occurred on the flight back. When we went to check in, the airline agent thought she was flying as an unaccompanied minor, because she looks like she's 16, and she's black and I'm white. I thought that was hilarious. She did not think it was so funny.) So as a result, she got carded at 80% of the places we went to, which meant she couldn't even get in, or if we got in, she couldn't get a drink.

But the bigger issue (for me) was that her youth mentality was a difficult bridge to cross, and a lot of times I just cringed at some of the idiotic, immature things that came out of her mouth. By the end of the trip I was finding her pretty tiresome, and looking forward to intelligent conversation with a fellow adult.

So, next time, I should aim for someone older and more mature . . . . in her late 20s perhaps. Lol.

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Dudester
17 years ago
Fish and company begin to stink after three days.

I had considered a "traveling companion" for a monthlong trip to Europe, but you confirmed my suspicions.
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DickJohnson
17 years ago
Interesting report. Sounds like you got your moneys worth. I would probably have some of the same negatives you experienced.
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shadowcat
17 years ago
Well, I am glad that it worked out well for you. I have considered it but have not yet met the right dancer. She would have to be older, white, and be doing it just for a free vacation. I rarely travel for business. I can't remember the last time. But I fly free and get a hell of a deal for a companion. I could take her damn near anywhere in the world. Shanghai, Rio, Cape Town, Moscow, Hawaii, Anchorage, Tokyo, Dubai, Great Falls. But it would have to be a vacation for two. No work.
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mmdv26
17 years ago
Thanks for the follow-up report as promised! It sounds like everything went fairly well. I've done OTC with some 19 and 20 year old's, and the age difference can be a big downer after the sex. She was probably a little "out of her realm", which helped her say stupid things. But it sounds like you adjusted your expectations to make that part of it tolerable - and you even said you had some genuine fun. Good advice for the next guy...a few years older might be better.
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parodyman-->
17 years ago
Quote: "Well, I am glad that it worked out well for you. I have considered it but have not yet met the right dancer. She would have to be older, white, and be doing it just for a free vacation."

Shadowcat, were you wearing your klan uniform when you wrote this? Shame that all you could focus on out of njscfan's post was the fact that the girl was black.
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carteblanche
17 years ago
Shame that all you could focus on out of shadowcat's post was the fact that he wanted a white girl.
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BobbyI
17 years ago
Seriously, what's the big deal? Some prefer asians. Some white girls. Some asians. Doesn't make them racist. Truly grasping at straws.
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shadowcat
17 years ago
If any of you ever meet up with me at a strip club, you will know that I am not a racist. I can/will introduce you to some black dancers that have nothing but good to say about me.

My point was, a 66 year old white dude traveling with an 18 yo black girl is wide open to suggestion. I don't need that any more than I need this ass hole trying to belittle me by any means.

You can never measure up to me, so eat your heart out, dude.
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Clubber
17 years ago
shadowcat,

Everyone discriminates. I don't care for black dancers at all, but who's business is it anyway, other than mine? I prefer Asian women, also no ones business. My ATF is Asian, but that doesn't mean a thing other than to me. We each have our preferences and luckily, they are not all the same. Otherwise, one boring world!
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Book Guy
17 years ago
I "discriminate" against the dancers (and escorts) who don't look like the type I'd want them to look like. I've had plenty of dances with black women, for instance, but seldom with typical "ghetto" appearing dancers, with the long fingernails and big bootie etc., even if they're of black skin color, or any other color either.
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casualguy
17 years ago
I think any guy in a strip club who has to limit his spending is acting idiotic if he doesn't discriminate based on looks or whatever his preferences are. Some of those preferences could be personality traits or a nice attitude. I discriminate against dancers who look ugly, really fat and/or have a bad attitude and even against hot pretty dancers if they want to charge too much for a dance.
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arbeeguy
17 years ago
And isn't it amusing how parodyman shifted the whole direction of this thread from "traveling with a stripper" to "what's wrong with shadowcat. I really appreciate njscfan giving us a detailed and objective post-mortem report.

early in my strip club days I fantasized a lot about travelling with a stripper (one particular stripper -- she was in her early thirties, so I was onlly twice as old.) It never happened, and now that I read njscfan's report, I think it was a good thing that it never happened. For me, whatever happens inside the SC is "it". But I don't have the same craving to get laid as njscfan. I have other desires that I can satisfy inside the SC.... I certainly agree that their is nothing racist about having a preference for one ethnic group over another -- that is far from racism.
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njscfan
17 years ago
I love the way threads get hijacked and careen off into different directions -- it is one of the funniest things about this site.
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casualguy
17 years ago
njscfan, is your wife ok with your other encounters or is she pretty much clueless? I was curious how you were keeping everything secret or how you were getting rid of any perfumes on your clothes.
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MisterGuy
17 years ago
"You can never measure up to me, so eat your heart out, dude."

Wow, I guess he really does believe his own delusions...*that's* what's funny about this site most...
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njscfan
17 years ago
casualguy: Totally clueless. I'm very careful.
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